Iinyembezi zeentlungu kunye neentlungu zibangelwa ngabantu abadala. Amama amaninzi ahlaselwa ngokukhawuleza, kwaye abanye (abahlala bekhathele kakhulu ngokuziphatha) kubonakala kukuqhambuka komsindo. Sizama ukuthatha isandla size siqonde ukuba kutheni umntwana eqala ukukhala rhoqo.
Kutheni umntwana eba ngumhlophe?
Izizathu zokubonakala kweenyembezi kubantwana zininzi, kukho uluhlu lwezona ziqhelekileyo.
- I-Breastfed ingakwazi ukuqala ukukhala ngenxa yokulamba, ukungathandeki, umnqweno wokulala xa becela umama ngeepenki.
- Ngeveki yesithandathu yobomi ngaphambi kokulala, ukuxhalaba nokukhala kungabonakala - luhlobo lwesigxina kwiimvakalelo eziqokelelwe emini, ukulungelelanisa okuza kudlulayo kungekudala.
- Ukunquma amazinyo nakho kubangele ukukhala.
- Abanye abantwana besaba izandi ezivakalayo kunye namazwi, beva, umntwana uyakhala.
- Ukuwa okanye ukubetha-nangayiphi na intlungu yomzimba, le yinto yendalo, nangona kungenzakonakalisa ukuvelana nokuxhaswa. Musa nje ukulila nokuzisola, nje ukumbamba umntwana, uthi: "Akukho nto, kwenzeka, kodwa unamandla! Kwaye ngokwenene, wenza kakuhle! ".
- Ukubukela ikhathuni edabukisayo okanye ukufunda ibali elibuhlungu, ebona kwisitrato isilwanyana esingenamakhaya.
- Ngokukhawuleza ukukhala abantwana bazama ukutsala abazali babo, befuna uncedo lwabo, inkxaso okanye ukunyamezela. Musa ukumgxeka umntwana kulo mzekelo. Ukuba uya kuziva ukuba uyamthanda kwaye uyamkhathalela, uya kukhula enomdla kunye noqhagamshelwano. Emva kokuba ubonise umntwana ukuba uyamthanda kwaye uhlala elungele ukukunceda, ngoko wenze isiseko sobudlelwano bobubele kwikamva. Emva koko, akukho nto ingcono, ukwazi ukuba umama okanye utata ngabahlobo abakhulu. Ukuba awuyi kumisa oqhagamshelwano olunjalo, ngoko ubeka umngcipheko wokuhlangabezana nokungathobeli kunye nabangqineli abanamandla kwixesha elizayo.
- Ukoyika abantu abangaziwayo. Kwaye nabazali banetyala apha. Musa ukuthusa umntwana ngamazwi: "Awuyi kuthobela, ndiya kukunika kumakhulukazi!". Abantwana bakholelwa oku kwaye baqaphele ngokuthokoza. Ukuba uqhubeke ukwesabisa umntwana kunye nabantu, ngoko unokukhulela umntu ongenakuxhamla kwaye ongenakuxhamla.
- Ukugqithisa kweemvakalelo ngamanye amaxesha uphalaza ngezinyembezi.
- Ukugula komntwana.
- Ukukhusela - ukungafuni ukulala, udle, ugqoke okanye wenze oko umama athethayo.
- Into entsha nedidekayo, ebangela ukwesaba, ize ikhalembe.
- Oogqirha yibona bafowuni abagula kakhulu. Kufuneka ukuba uzame ukwenza umntwana kunye nabantu abaneengubo ezimhlophe. Zama ekhaya ukudlala esibhedlele, bonisa ukuba uviwo - alulimazi.
- Sitshintsha imeko (inkulisa, isikolo), zama ukuhlakulela umdla kulokho uza kuyenza apho.
- Intukuthelo yezenzo zabanye abantwana. Umntwana unokukhumbula aze akhale iintsuku eziliqela, kwinto yokuba umntu wamqhubhisa okanye wathatha ithoyilo.
Kodwa ngaphezu kwezi zizathu, ngamanye amaxesha kukho iingxaki zempilo, ukujongana nento oyifunayo ngoncedo lwe-neurologist.
Kwimeko nayiphi na into, ukuba umntwana uyabuhlungu, kuyimfuneko ukukhangela imbangela yezinyembezi zakhe, kuba ukulila luhlobo lolwimi omele uluqonde. Kwaye ukuzola umntwana ekhala, nje ukubetha kunye nokumbamba, ngokuba akukho nto inomtsalane kunezandla ezintle zikaMamina.