Kukholelwa ukuba xa umntu ekhumbule ngokucacileyo iphupha lakhe, ngoko kufuneka ifihlile ulwazi olubalulekileyo. Ukujonga kwixesha lakho elizayo, kufuneka uqaphele ngakumbi iinkcukacha, apho inkcazelo iya kufihlwa khona.
Umama okhulelweyo uphupha ntoni?
Kulo phupha, iinkcukacha ezibalulekileyo zibambene: ukukhulelwa oku kuthetha into entsha ebomini, kwaye umama uyisimboli into entle. Kungenxa yoko, kwiimeko ezininzi, iphupha lomama okhulelweyo uthembisa ukufika kwesiganeko esonwabileyo ebomini okanye ukuzaliseka komnqweno onqwenelayo. Iphupha elinjalo lithetha ukuqala kwexesha elitsha ebomini. Ukuba iphupha umama ukhulelwe, liphupha ngowesifazana esesikhundleni, ngoko kufuneka alindele isigaba esitsha ebomini nokuzaliswa kwintsapho. Kubafazi abangatshatanga, eli phupha liyingqungquthela yokudibanisa nentsha enomdla onokuthi ungakha ubuhlobo obuqinileyo.
Kubantu, iphupha ngokuphathelele umama okhulelwe luphawu oluhle lokuba yonke into ecwangcisiweyo iya kuzaliseka ngokuqinisekileyo. Umbono wobusuku apho umama oshonile wayebonakalisa ukuba ngokukhawuleza yonke into elahlekileyo kwixesha elidlulileyo liya kuzalwa kwakhona. Le meko ingabonwa njengelithuba lesibini lokuphela . Kwabesetyhini abakhulelweyo, iphupha malunga nomama okhulelwe akanalo ulwazi olufihliweyo kwaye luquka kuphela ukwesaba okukhoyo malunga nomcimbi ozayo.
Ukuba ephupheni unina okhulelweyo uzalela umntwana, ngoko incwadi yephupha ibona i-harbinger yokuthenga ixesha elide. Ukuzalwa kwabantwana abaningana kuthetha ukuba ukuthenga kuya kuba sikhulu. Iphupha, apho kwakudingeka lizalwe kumama okhulelwe, luphawu olubi, lumkiso malunga nokuvela kweengxaki. Siza kuqonda ukuba umama okhulelweyo uthetha ntoni ephupheni, okwenza isisu sibe ngumqondiso malunga nokuba kukho ingozi enkulu yokulahlekelwa into ebalulekileyo ebomini.