Kwabo abanomdla wokukhangela , ukufundwa kweendlela ezisemgangathweni kunye nokunyusa kwiinkcukacha zeendlela ezinokuthi zibe zizonwabisa. Njengathi sonke, imigca yeentendelezo zethu iyahluke kwaye iyodwa, kodwa ke, kukho abo bathatha ulwazi olucacileyo malunga nomlingiswa kunye nomphumo ongaphezulu komgcini womdwebo othile.
Umgca wengqondo esandleni, okokuqala, zonke iintlobo zazo zinomdla. Lo mgca awubonisi isimo sengqondo kunye nobukho beememori, kodwa yonke into eyenzeka kumntu ebomini: ukulima kwentloko okanye intamo, impilo yengqondo, i-coma, ukubeletha kunye nezinye izinto ezinzulu kwaye azihlali zihle.
Ukuba umgca wengqondo esandleni sisesifutshane, akuthethi ukuba umntu uyahlanya okanye uyagula. Ubude bomgca bubonisa amandla okufeza injongo yalo. Ngoko umgca omfutshane wengqondo uxanduva lokukhawuleza ukuphunyezwa kwezicwangciso. Umntu akazenzeli izisombululo ezingapheliyo, kodwa uhamba ngendlela enye, ngokuthe tye.
Kubantu bokudala, umda omde wengqondo ngumqondiso wokubanzi kokucinga. Kuvela kwiingcali kunye namafilosofi.
Ziyiphi imigca yengqondo?
Kukho iintlobo:
- yokudala;
- ngundoqo;
- umbhali womgca;
- izinto.
Ukwahlukana phakathi kwabo kuncinci, nangona kunjalo, xa uthelekisa imifanekiso, unokubona ukuba iziphene kwizigqibo xa ukhangele umgca wengqondo ayikwazi. Umgca wobugcisa uphezulu kwaye udla imidwebo, iintambo kunye neefoloko. Ukuba umgca weengqondo uphela, njengentambo ephethe isebe, ngoko umnini walo mdwebo, ngokungathandabuzeki, ungumlobi omhle. Abantu abasebenzayo bahamba ngentendeni ngokulula nangokucacileyo. Ukuba kukho "umsila" oguqulwayo ekupheleni komgca, ngoko umntu onjalo uyazixabisa yena kunye nayo yonke into ejikelezayo. Ukuba akaphumelelanga ngempumelelo kulo msebenzi, kuya kuba nzima kuye ukuba aphile nezicelo zakhe.
Kwenzeka ukuba umgca wengqondo uqhekeke kwaye uqikelele ngokucacileyo umlinge womntu uba nzima nakakhulu.
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Yintoni emibini yomgca wengqondo esandleni?
Ukuba umgca kabini wengqondo wenza ukuba ucinge kwaye ukhathazeke, musa ukugqiba izigqibo.
Umgca omude wokudibanisa ungabonakalisa umntu ukuba akazange anqume ebomini kwaye uzikhangela ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Amasebe ekupheleni, njengoko sele ekhankanywe ngaphambili, xelela ngobuchule bokubhala ngokubhaliweyo kunye nolawulo lobugcisa. Umntu unokufumana imali enhle kwi talente yakhe.
Ukuba umgca ophindwe kabini wengqondo uphukile, kwaye ungadluli, ungakhathazeki. Oku kubangelwa utshintsho olukhulu kunye olubukhali ebomini bakho. Ngokomzekelo, umgca ophukileyo ungathwala ulwazi malunga nokufudukela kwelinye ilizwe okanye malunga neentlanganiso nabantu abalulekileyo ebomini bakho.
Ingaba imigca isesandleni sokulala?
Imigca esandleni asikwazi ukuxoka. Iipatheni zingayiqondi okanye ziqondwe kakuhle. Kwakhona unakho ukukholelwa umthi wesundu kunye nokuphulaphula iinyani eziphosakeleyo.
Kubonakaliswa ngophando lokwenene oludala (okanye ngexesha) imigca yesandla somntu iyakwazi ukutshintsha.
Akukho mfuneko ethile yokwazi imizila yakho. Kodwa, ukuba ufuna, unokufumana isizathu sokungaphumeleli rhoqo. Ukuba uhlala naphezu kwembali yakho, ngoko xa uhlaziya imigca, yonke into ingatshintsha ukuba ibe ngcono wena nabantwana bakho.