Ngaba umona ungumqondiso wothando okanye ukungathembeki, mhlawumbi kunzima ukuthetha. Enyanisweni, kule mvakalelo yonke into ixutywe: kokubili uthando , nokungathembeki, kunye nepropati ephezulu. Ukongezelela, isethi yonke isekelwe rhoqo kwi-self-esteem self-esteem ne-inferiority complex.
Unomona, uyayithanda?
Ukholo kunye nabantu abaziwayo, umona uvame ukuvela kwizinga elincinci. Ngaphezu koko, ngamanye amaxesha bayakubona ubukho bomdlali (okanye umchasane) njengomngeni kwaye oku kubangelwa yinto evuselelayo yokuphucula kwangaphandle nangaphakathi.
Kubantu kukho uluvo lokuba umona luphawu lothando. Oku kuyinyaniso, kodwa kwindlela ethile. Sinekhwele kuphela kulabo abathi, kwinqanaba elincinci, sicinga ukuba yipropati yethu, kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba sinamandla ovakalelwa yintando, ngokwenene, sivakalelwa ngaba bantu, nangona kungokwemvelo, luyomelele ngakumbi uthando, luya kuba luhlungu ngakumbi.
Ulawulo olupheleleyo
Inzondelelo, ngencazelo, ithathwa njengonakalisayo. Ngokukodwa, lo mbandela ubonakala kubantu abajongene nokuzithoba, abazama konke okusemandleni abo ukuqinisekisa ukuba into yokunamathisela kwabo ihlale ibonakala okanye ifikelele kuyo yonke iminithi yokunxibelelana kwamaselula. Ulawulo olupheleleyo phezu kwezenzo zomthandi luyimfuneko kubo, njengomoya, ngenxa enzulu kwi-subconscious bavakalelwa kukuba abanakho ukukhuphisana ngokwaneleyo malunga neenkcukacha zabo ezahlukeneyo, ngaba kubonakala okanye inqanaba lokuphuhliswa ngokomoya nangengqondo kwaye bakholelwa ngephutha ukuba insimbi
Ngoko, qwa lasela umona njengophawu lothando, mhlawumbi akunakulungile. Okokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukuqonda ukuba zeziphi iimpawu ezimbi ezibangela ukuba kubekho kwimeko nganye. Okuyingozi kakhulu ukubonakaliswa kobukhwele obuthathaka, obusekelwe kwiintsholongwane ezithile ezisemgangathweni kwaye kufuneka ziphathwe ngokuthe ngqo ngutitshala wengqondo.