Kwixesha lokufundela kunye nexesha eliqhelekileyo lesikolo esikolweni abantwana abaninzi banokwesaba ubumnyama. Umntwana uqala ukutyelela ekamelweni lomzali ubusuku bonke, enethemba, ngeendlela zonke, ukulala nomama noyise. Iimeko ziqhelekile apho umntwana omncama ezama ukuvumela ukuba abazali bakhe bangene egumbini lakhe lokulala ababezama ukumbeka.
Kutheni abantwana besaba umnyama?
Igumbi elimnyama ngamehlo omntwana kakade alikho igumbi apho ukukhanya kusanda kutshisa. Imiba yezinto iguqulwa, iimpawu eziqingqiweyo eziqhelekileyo ziyalala. Igumbi liba liyimfihlakalo kwaye liyimfihlakalo, kwaye ezinye izinto zifumana iincwadana eziphazamisayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, oku kubangela ukwesaba kobumnyama kubantwana.
Ubumnyama kumntwana luphawu lokungakhuselekanga kokubi, okungeke kunqatshelwe.
Abantwana abaphakathi kweminyaka emithathu no-7 abakwazi ukwahlula ubuxoki kunye nenyaniso. Yingakho ubumnyama kubo buzaliswe ngento enobungozi. Umntwana uloyiko kwaye ubumnyama ngokwawo, kwaye ezo ziganeko ezinokuthi zenzeke ngenxa yalo.
Ubumnyama bubonisa uphawu lokuba ngumntwana.
Yintoni engenakwenziwa ngokubanzi xa umntwana esaba ubumnyama? Ungazami ngokucacileyo ukuba uchazele umntwana ukuba ukwesaba kwakhe kungenasiphelo. Musa ukudlala kunye nomntwana, ngokungathi ukwesaba. Ukungqiniswanga ukunyanzela okanye ukuhlekisa umntwana.
Nazi ezinye iingcebiso ezicacileyo kubazali abanomntwana onoyika ukulala ebumnyameni:
- Musa ukulinda umntwana ukuba akhulise ukwesaba. Ukuhamba kwikamelo lakhe kwakuquka ukukhanya ebusuku, isibane esisezantsi.
- Musa ukucima ukukhanya kwi-corridor. Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana bafuna ukuya kwindlu yokuhlambela ebusuku, kodwa bayesaba, kuba igordi ibumnyama.
- Abantwana mababe kufuphi neli gumbi labazali. Umntwana ongaphambi kokufunda esikolweni, oyika umnyama, akudingeki ukuba abe negumbi lokulala elithile. Sekunjalo, abantwana abanjalo kwiimeko ezininzi beza kubazali babo phakathi kobusuku, kwaye ukunyamezela kwabo baphumelele kungabangela ukwesaba okongeziweyo.
- Ukuba ezinye izinto ziyikwesaba umntwana kunye neziboniso zabo ebumnyameni, zithinte nje. Izicelo ezingenako ukwesaba ngokuqhelekileyo azisebenzi.
- Ngomso kubalulekile ukubetha ezo zifundo ezibangela umntwana ukuba abe nobusuku ebusuku.
- Hlela umdlalo kwimimandla e-shaded yendlu (phantsi kwetafile, "kwindlu" yeenqwelo zezixhobo ezininzi ezigutyungelwe ngengubo phezulu, kwigumbi eneefestile ezigciniweyo). Ngokukhawuleza umntwana ufundela emnyama.
- Ngeveki neeholide, xa yonke intsapho ihlanganisiwe ngokuhlwa kusitafile, ikhanyise ikhandlela kwaye ikhuphe izibane. Oku kuya kunceda umntwana wakho asebenzise ukukhanya komnyama, kwaye ujonge.