Abazali babaluleke kakhulu ebomini babo bonke abantu, kuba beyona nto ibalulekileyo kunye nenkxaso kuyo nayiphi na imeko. Abazali bafundisa izifundo zokuqala zokuphila, bafundise ukuthanda nokuqonda ihlabathi elibajikelezile.
Bobabini abazali babalulekile kumntwana, njengoko ngamnye wabo edlala indima ebomini. Umama uzama ukumbamba umntwana wakhe ngothando nangokunyamekela. Injongo ephambili ebomini bakhe kukubona umntwana wakhe uyavuya. Utata udlala indima ebalulekileyo ekubunjweni kobuntu . Uya kuhlala edumisa ngeempumelelo kwaye anike iingcebiso kwiimeko ezinzima. Umphumo wothando lomzali ngumqondo womntwana wokuzithemba, ukuxhamla kwentsapho, umnqweno wokudala intsapho eyonwabileyo.
Umthandazo wabazali
Abantwana, bakhula, bazame ukubonelela abazali babo, kwaye kunjalo, ukubuyisela "ityala". Unokujika kwiMandla aPhakamileyo kwaye ucele uncedo. Ngaliphi na ixesha unokufunda lo mthandazo:
"Nkosi Yesu Kristu, fumana le mthandazo kubazali bam. Banika ubunye bengqondo baze bathande yonke imihla yobomi babo. Qinisekisa imizimba yabo kwimpilo, kwaye baya kukukhonza ngemisebenzi yeendaba ezilungileyo. Ndifundise ukuba ndihlale ndithobela ilizwi lomzali. Ndihlangule ebuzenziseni kunye nobubi ekusebenzelaneni nabo, kwaye ungasicacisi sonke isizathu sokugwetywa kweSigwebo sakho sokugqibela. Amen. "
La mazwi angathi ngathi umthandazo kwimpilo yabazali. Ndiyabulela izulu ukuba unentsapho enjalo, ukuba abazali bakukhusele bonke ubomi babo kwaye bancede kuyo yonke into.
Imithandazo yamaOthodoki kubazali
Wonke umntu uyisono, kodwa wonke umntu unamava akhe ambi emva kwakhe. Kukho ukuthetha oku: "abantwana banembopheleleko yezono zabazali babo." Ngamanye amaxesha isizukulwana esilandelayo sinoxanduva lwezenzo ezimbi kunye nezono. Ukuze ugweme imiphumo emibi, unokusebenzisa umthandazo ngenxa yezono zabazali, kuyavakala ngathi:
Yiba ngumgcini wezingelosi kubazali, cela iiNkundla eziPhezulu ukuzikhusela kuzo zonke izinto ezingenamthetho. Ukufunda rhoqo icebo loqhinga:
Umthandazo wokuxolelwa kwezono zabazali
Icawa ithi yonke into eyenziwa ngabazali iya kubantwana babo. Umntwana njengoko ufumana "i-backpack", ehlala ehlala naye. Ukugqithisa ngokukhawuleza "iindwangu" ezizalisa umthwalo wethu, sifanele sifunde amagama omthandazo kwi-Most Holy Theotokos. Kuzwakala ngathi:
Umthandazo wabazali
Igama elithi "ukuxolela" linentsingiselo elandelayo: ukuxolela, ukususa ngokucocekileyo, ukuqeda ityala. Xa abantu benza into embi kufuneka ucele ukuxolelwa, kukuvumela ukuba ubuyisele ubuhlobo kunye nokuthembela kwangaphambili. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba amagama okuxolela avela entliziyweni kwaye abe nokunyaniseka. Xa umntu enza isono, ubonakala echasene noNdikhoyo uThixo, ukuba akaguquki, uya kugwetywa.
Ukuba ngaba abazali bakho babengenako okanye babengenalo ixesha lokucela izono zabo, unokwenza oko. Yenza umthandazo kuThixo, xolele abazali bakho uze ucele uxolo kubo nakuwe phambi kwamandla amakhulu.
