Abantu badla ngokutsha izityalo zangaphakathi kungekhona nje ngenxa yobuhle babo, kodwa nokuzama ukutsala inhlanhla kunye nolonwabo endlwini. Kukho iinkolelo ezininzi ezinxulumene neentyantyambo, kwaye namhlanje siza kuthetha malunga naziphi iimpawu malunga ne-ayrrizon okanye umthi wothando, njengoko ubizwa nangokuthiwa.
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Abantu abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba esi sityalo siqala ukuqhakaza kuphela endlwini apho uthando lulawula khona. Ngokwemiqondiso, ukuba intyatyambo yaqala ukuziva ingalunganga, yagula, okanye yafa, kufuneka ulindele ukuba isiqabane esiphila kwihostela siza kufutshane. Yinyaniso, okanye inkolelo-ze, kunzima ukuthetha, kodwa inyaniso yokuba izityalo ezahlukeneyo zenzelwa iimvakalelo zabantu abakujikelezile ziyi nyaniso. Abaninzi abakholelwa kwiimpawu malunga ne-ayrzrone bakholelwa ukuba kwiimpawu zokuqala zeqiniso ukuba intyatyambo iphelile, simele sicinge ngokukhawuleza ukuba umtshato okanye ubudlelwane babo bunamandla? Kukholelwa ukuba ukuba isibini sinokubuyisela uthando lwangaphambili okanye ukuzisa ukunyamekela, uthando kunye nokuthembela kumanyano, isityalo siya kuqala ukuqhakaza kwakhona.
Esinye isibonakaliso esihambelana nale ntyatyambo sizwakala ngathi: ukuba i-ayrrizon iqhaqhaqa ngokukhawuleza endlwini yomntu onesizungu, ngokukhawuleza uza kudibana nomntu wakhe. Abanye abantu bafumanisa ngokuthe ngqo le sityalo, ukwenzela ukuba isebenze njengomhlobo wenkcazelo kunye neengcebiso nokuba umntu othandwayo nothando ubonakale ecaleni.
Ngendlela, kukholwa ukuba xa uletha le ntyatyambo endlwini ngeli xesha xa umntu enothando lwabantu abathandanayo, ngoko isityalo singayiqonda ukuba kulungile ukubala kwixesha elizayo kunye neqabane langoku. Ukuba i- ayrrizon iye yaqhakaza , ke kukho ithuba lokudala intsapho eyonwabileyo, kodwa ukuba ithe yaqala ukufa, kubalulekile ukuba ujonge ngentshisekelo yakho yangoku okanye inkwenkwe, mhlawumbi akuyiyo indoda yakho.