Ubuhlobo obusetyhini ngumgaqo oqinileyo kunye nesigxina. Umnandi umntu osondeleyo ngokuzingela ngamaxesha eholide kuphela, kodwa nje ngokufanayo. Ingcamango yesipho kumhlobo ingafika naliphi na ixesha: ngexesha lohambo lokuthenga okanye kwindawo elunxwemeni.
Iingcinga Zesipho
Yintoni ongayinika intombi ekhulelwe? Kule meko, umbuzo wesipho kufuneka uphathwe ngokucophelela. Isipho esona sihle kakhulu oko yena ngokwakhe uya kukucela kuwe. Ibhinqa eli lixesha lincinci kakhulu, awukwazi ukukhathazeka, ngoko kungcono ukuyeka ingcamango yamangaliswa kwaye ubuze into ayifunayo.
Ukulinda umntwana kusenza intombazana enhle. Uqala ukubandakanyeka ngakumbi, uthengela i-dowry kwintsana yakhe, kunye neengxakini malunga nayo yonke ikhilogram ayifumene nayo. Ngako oko, umbuzo wento yokunika umhlobo okhulelweyo, uya kutshabalala ngokwawo, ukuba uyayilinda ixesha elide. Kungaba:
- izimonyo kubafazi abakhulelweyo (zendalo);
- ilinen ecikizekileyo eyenziwe kwindwangu zendalo;
- into ethile egumbini labantwana okanye i-dowry kwintsana (ukuba umama ozayo sele uthenge oko);
- izixhobo ze-gymnastics (fitball, rug);
- ukubhalisa kwi-echibini okanye kwiiklasi zabafazi abakhulelweyo.
Iingcamango ezinomdla ezibangelwa intombi yesipho zivela xa ungacingi. Ngamanye amaxesha uhlala e-cafe, uthetha, yena ngokwakhe ubonisa oko angathanda ukufumana ukuzalwa kwakhe okanye uNyaka omtsha, umzekelo, ukusuka kwintombi yakhe. Unokukutshintsha nje, wenze iindidi ezithile. Ezi ngcamango zi no:
- T-shirt epholile;
- ibhangi yebhanki;
- isikhwama sokuqala, ibhande okanye isikhwama ;
- ifowuni yefowuni;
- khumbuzo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, intombazana kulula ukukholisa, ukuba ube ngumhlobo naye ixesha elide kwaye uyayazi iminqweno kunye nezinto azikhethayo. Sisiphi isipho sokunika umngane wakho omhle kuxhomekeke kwinto yokuzonwabisa kunye nomlingisi wakhe. Kodwa akhathalelanga ubudala bakhe. Vumela izipho zakho zibe yiyona nto inokulibaleka kwaye ingayinakulibala!