Siyabulela ukugcinwa kwesoyihlo kukho impawu enkulu. Baye bavumela ukwazi ezinye iimeko zexesha elizayo. Kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, iinkolelo ziye zalahleka ukuthanda kwabo kwaye abaninzi abazibhali. Nangona kunjalo, abanye abantu bayabahlonela ubulumko nolwazi okhokho babo kwaye bazame ukuthobela zonke izilumkiso kunye neziphakamiso. Iimpawu zabantu zichaza isizathu sokuba isifuba, impumlo, izandla kunye nezinye iindawo zomzimba zikhuthaza uncedo lokufunda ngeziganeko ezizayo. Sebenzisa iinkolelo nje emva kokuba ungabandakanyi ezinye izizathu zokubamba. Kwezinye iimeko, ukubetheka kubonakala xa isifo okanye ukungena kwemvelo kukhula. Kufuneka kwakhona kuthiwa phantse zonke iinguqulelo zenzelwe ngokukhethekileyo kubemi besifazane.
Yintoni ehlabayo isifuba esifanelekileyo?
Ukuchazwa kweenkolelo zinxulumene nobude bokubamba. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba iqhubeka iintsuku eziliqela, kubonisa ukuba umntu othandekayo utshintshile ngomnye umfazi. Xa isifuba sitshisa rhoqo ngamaxesha, kuthetha ukuba umntu omaziyo ngokukhawuleza unxanela kakhulu kuwe. Kwaye ukujonga abalandeli bemi phakathi kwe-blondes. Kwezinye iimeko, le ngxaki inokuqikelela ukuxhatshazwa kwezesondo zakuqala. Kukhona olunye ukuchazwa kweempawu, kutheni kubetha intsalane efanelekileyo, enomntu ongeyonto. Ukubamba ngokukhawuleza kubonakala ukuba ubomi buhlulekile, kwaye lixesha lokuzivuma. Siyabulela oku, kuya kubakho ukuqala yonke into esuka kwiphepha elitsha kwaye uzama ukufezekisa injongo. Ukutshiza kwindawo yesilungileyo esifanelekileyo kusebenza njengesiphakamiso sokuba kuyafaneleka ukuhlaziya izinto ezibalulekileyo zokuphila.
Uphawu oluthetha ukuba isifuba esilungileyo sisetyenziswe njani ookhokho ukuba balingele isimo sezulu. Ukutshisa kule ndawo kwakudla ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwakupholisa okanye imvula. Ukuba isifuba sitshisa ephusheni - kukunconywa ukuba ufanele ujonge umhlobo wakho, kuba unokungcatsha.
Khawuqwalasele umbuzo weso sokuba isifuba esilungileyo sikhonywe ngabantu. Kubammeli besini esomeleleyo, ukuchithwa kule ndawo kubonisa ukuba "iqela elimnyama" liphelile kwaye yonke into iya kuhamba kakuhle. Uphawu lubonisa ukuba inhlanhla iya kuba ixesha elide ukuhamba kunye nazo zonke iinkalo zobomi.
Ezinye iinkolelo ezinxulumene nomgudu
Kuze kube namhlanje, iimpawu zabantu zifikile, zichaza nje ukuba kutheni isifuba esifanelekileyo sikhishwe, kodwa nezinye iimeko. Ngokomzekelo, abafazi abaneesayizi ezifanayo zesifuba banokulindela ubomi obukhuselekileyo nabalinganiselweyo. Ukuba isifuba esilungileyo sikhulu kunelokhohlo, ngokokuqala kwisiqingatha sobomi ibhinqa liya kuhlangabezana neemvavanyo ezahlukeneyo kunye neentlungu, kodwa ekugqibeleni yonke into iya kutshintsha kwaye iya kutshintshwa. Ngokwemeko yesini esilungileyo iya kukwazi ukuxelela i-mole kwi-esifubeni sakhe. Umqondiso "wendalo" kwisiqingatha esifanele sibonisa utshintsho, loo ntokazi isoloko iguqula umbono wakhe kunye nolwalathiso ebomini. Ngaphambili, ukuba intombazana yavelisa isifuba sayo kwangaphambili, yaqwalaselwa,
Ookhokho bethu baqhuba ezinye iinkqubo, eziza kubonakala zikhohlakele. Ngokomzekelo, ukwandisa umqhubi we ntombazana wayidla imifuno yohlobo olujikelezileyo, abayifumana ngaphambili, ephethe isifuba. Baphinda baphuza amanzi ngokwemigaqo: kwi-sips enkulu. Namantombazana asetyenziswe kwisibeleko seentlobano zesini ezahlukeneyo okanye iintsana. Kubalulekile ukuba izilwanyana zinemihla emininzi njengeminyaka, ubuninzi beemali eziyimimandla yesiganeko esihle sabantu. Ngamaxesha amandulo kwakukholelwa ukuba ukunyama izilwanyana kufuneka kuholele ekuveliseni ubisi. Ukuba le ntokazi yayifuna, ngokuchasene noko, ukuba isifuba sincitshiswe, wasilungisa ngamanzi, esasigqitywe ngaphambili ngumfi.