Kukho umthetho ongathethiyo othi awukwazi ukuthatha imifanekiso emangcwabeni: akukho mntu, akukho mlandele, akukho zikhumbuzo-akukho nto. Sisiphi isizathu solu thintelo, siya kuzama ukuqonda.
Kutheni ndikwazi ukuthatha imifanekiso kumangcwaba?
Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ngokukhawuleza ukuba ukwesaba okwenene kunomnye kuphela - ngenxa yokuhlala ixesha elide emangcwabeni, unokuyingozi ngakumbi impilo yakho ngenxa yokukhuphuka kwetyhuseki, kunye nokusukela kwimeko ephosakeleyo engqondweni. Zonke ezinye iingxabano zihambelana nesizinda esingaziwayo:
- Ngoko yamkelwe . Ukususela kwixesha elidlulileyo, ukususela kwixesha apho iikhamera zazisungulwa nje, le nkcubeko yaqala ukufakwa, kwaye namhlanje ikhule ibe namandla kwaye ayiphakamisi imibuzo.
- Amandla omntu obhalwe emangcwabeni angakwazi ukuva. Olu loyiko lusekelwe kwimeko yokuba amangcwaba ayindawo edabukisayo kakhulu, kwaye ukufotowa kuthatha ukulangazelela okungenakuthemba kwaye kuyifake ebomini bomntu ofumene umfanekiso ololo hlobo.
- Oku kukuphazamisa uxolo lwabafileyo . Yingakho ngamanye amaxesha kwimifanekiso enjalo umntu unokubona ukubonakala kwamangalisa kunye nokungaqondakali ngexesha elifanayo kunye neminye imfundiso.
- Oku kwenza umntu akhumbule umntu ofileyo . Kwiindawo zamangcwaba, akusiko isiko lokufothula umqhubi ngoba uthatha ukuhlukana kumntu. Kwaye kulungile ngakumbi ukumkhumbula ephilileyo-izenzo zakhe nezenzo, iimfuno zakhe kunye nezinto ezithandwayo.
Kungenxa yoko kukulinganiswa kwendlela abantu abakwazi ukufotshwa ngayo , imangcwaba inkokheli.
Ndiyakwazi ukuthatha imifanekiso emangcwabeni?
Isisombululo sokugqibela kumbuzo wokuba okanye akufanele yini ukuthatha isithombe esisele kumfaki-zithombe kwaye inxalenye enkulu incike kwienkolelo zakhe. Ukuba awuboni nto ekhethekileyo kule nto - thatha imifanekiso. Into ephambili kukuba, ngaphambi kokubamba umntu kwimeko enjalo, cacisa ukuba umntu uyavuma le nto.