Ngoku ubukho bomthandi womfazi otshatileyo, nangona egwetyelwa ngamatronsi ahloniphekileyo, kodwa acinga ukuba ngumcimbi oqhelekileyo. Kwaye ngoko umbuzo wento yokunika umthandana otshatileyo ngomhla wokuzalwa, sele sele ininzi ibonakala ingaqhelekanga.
Imithetho jikelele yokuthanda izipho
Ngaphambi kokuba ucinge ngento onokuyinika umthandana otshatileyo ngomhla wokuzalwa, cinga ngomgaqo ophambili wezipho ezinjalo-akufanele kubangele ukukrokra kumfazi. Ngoko ke, kunikezela okanye into engeyiyo impahla, okanye izinto kwiindawo apho unemihlangano (ukuba kukho enye) okanye izipho, ukubonakala komntu onothando angayichazela umfazi wakhe - yenziwe ngabalingane emsebenzini, wathenga. Futhi ungazami ukuzalisekisa isipho kumthandi wakho ngosuku lwakho lokuzalwa ngokusasazela ekuseni. Ungamthathi umntu, uhlushwa ukuchazela umfazi owambiza ekuseni kakhulu.
Ewe, ukuba wenza konke okulungileyo, kwaye uvuyiswe ngexesha, kwaye ngesipho esingathinteli kuye, uya kuqikelela, ngoko isihloko somfazi wakho othandekayo siya kunikwa.
Yintoni onokuyinika umthandi wokufumana iinjongo zokuzalwa
- Mhlawumbi, xa ukhetha isipho, nayiphi na indoda isekelwe kwiminqweno yakhe kunye nezinto ezithandwayo. Ngoko kunjalo nomthandi. Nika into enxulumene nezinto ezithandwayo, kodwa kuya kuba kuhle ukufumanisa kwangaphambili into efunwayo kuye. Amadoda amaninzi anomdla omkhulu kumoto wabo. Ngako oko, ungesabi ukunikela izipho kwizifundo zezimoto. Uya kuthi izipho ezinjalo ziyingozi, ngaba umfazi uyazibona into entsha yomyeni wakhe aze abuze umbuzo ongenakukhathazeka? Akunakwenzeka ukuba oku kuza kwenzeka, ibhinqa elingabandakanyi izinto ezithandwa ngumyeni wayo, mhlawumbi, ayiyi kubona ukubonakala kwento entsha kwengubo yakhe. Kwaye nangona uqaphela, umthandi wakho unokuhlala etsho ukuba uthenge le nto ngokwakhe. Kwaye akuyi kubukeka bekrokra, kodwa bayazi indlela abantu abaphatha ngayo amathoyizi abo kunye nokuba bangakanani ixesha nemali abayichitha kuzo.
- Ukuba umthandi wakho uyakuthanda ukutywala utywala okanye akanakuyeka ukutshaya, mnike izipho ezifanelekileyo. Ngokomzekelo, ityala lokubhema, i-mini bar, i-ashtray enhle, i-cigar, i-flask ezithakazelisayo, ibhotile ye-whiskey ebiza okanye i-cognac. Izipho ezinjalo umthandi wakho unokuzichaza ngokulula. Uya kuthetha ukuba oogxa bakhe okanye amaqabane emsebenzini wakhe wamnika. Kwimeko kuphela xa le khetho iya kuphazamiseka, ukuba yena nomfazi wakhe basebenza kwinkampani enye.
- Awufuni ukunikela izinto, ukwesaba ukuba umfazi osolisayo uyakholelwa nayiphi na inkcazo yomthandi wakho? Emva koko wenze isipho-mpawu. Nika indiza kwibhaluni yomoya eshushu, i-bowling alley, yenza ubusuku bokudlala ibhilididi. Ukuchitha ixesha kunye kunye - kungekhona isipho kumthandi wakho ngosuku lwakho lokuzalwa? Ukuhlala kwiindonga ezi-4 kuye kwaye ekhaya liyaxhalabisa.
- Izinto zobuqu zesipho zifanelekile kuphela ukuba kukho intsimi eyahlukileyo apho udibana nayo. Kule meko, unako ukunika izitya, ithubhu, izambatho kunye nezinye izinto azakuzisebenzisa xa eza kuwe.
Ngesibindi unako ukunika iinkcukacha ezahlukeneyo zekhompyutha "i-lotions" - iigundane, iincwadi zekhompyutha, iifowuni kunye nezinto. Amadoda amaninzi ngabachwephesha kwaye bayavuya ukulandela izinto ezintsha zeekhompyutheni, ngoko ke isipho esivela kulolu chungechunge singachazwa lula ngokuthengwa kwayo. - Kutheni abesifazane bebathanda? Ukuzonwabisa ngokulalana ngesininzi. Ngoko, kunika umthandi wakho konke onokukunceda kwimicimbi yakho yothando. Yaye ke, isipho esona sisona siza kuba sisistim sezesondo kumthandi - usepakethe enhle. Bambalwa amadoda aya kulahla ubuhle ngokwesini kwi-stilettos, eboshwe ngebhebhoni ebomvu.