Ngokuqhelekileyo ukhetho lwesipho kubantu abasondeleyo lujikezela ukuba sibe yintloko yonyani. Umzekelo, ungayinikela uyihlo ngenxa yokuzalwa kwakhe, sisiphi isipho ayenokuyilungiselela usuku lwakhe lokuzalwa? Ngokuqinisekileyo, imibuzo eninzi enokubangela ukwethuka okwenene - iholide empumleni, kwaye akukho mbono omnye wesipho ku-ntanda wakho oyithandayo. Njengoko uyayazi, ukucinga okulungileyo, kodwa ezo zibini zingcono, ngoko ke, masiqhube kunye kunye nento enokuyenza ngayo uyihlo.
Liliphi iholide?
Ukuqala, ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka ukhethe isigqibo sokuba yeyiphi iholide ofuna isipho. Ukuba le yeholide yesizwe (uNyaka omtsha, ngoFebruwari 23), ngoko ke isipho esingabizi kangangoko singafika, kulezi holide kubalulekile ukubonisa upapa owakhumbulayo nokumthanda. Unokunika into eya kunceda ukudala umoya wokuzonwabisa, umzekelo, woNyaka omtsha, izixhobo zomlilo kunye nebhotile ye-champagne ziya kwamkelwa kakuhle. Kodwa ukuba liholide lakho - usuku lokuzalwa, okanye olunye usuku, olubalulekileyo kumzali wakho, ngoko kuya kufuneka usebenze ekukhethweni kwesipho. Ewe, siyazi ukuba abazali bayasamkela njengoko banjalo kwaye baya kuvuya kunye naluphi na uphawu loqwalaselo (okanye ubuncinane uhlobo lwenziwe), kodwa ngokwenene ndifuna ukukholisa ubaba. Kwaye ngoko ke kuya kufuneka simkele ukuba ukuba sifuna ukwenza isipho kuPapa ongaqhelekanga kunye neyokuqala, kuya kufuneka sibe negalelo lemali engaphezulu - izinto ezintle kunye nekhwalithi azinakuzibiza.
Yintoni enokuyinikela uPapa ngokugubha umkhosi?
Sinabadade-abahlukeneyo-umntu onothando olungenakonakaliswa, kunye nomntu oqinileyo, ukhangeleka, uyalondoloza, kwaye ngoko ke afuna izipho ezahlukeneyo. Umntu okholelwa ukuba isipho kufuneka sibe luncedo, akunakulinganiswa ukunika umfanekiso, kwaye isiseko sezinto eziphathekayo zothando asiyi kubangela umdla. Ngoko ke, xa ukhetha isipho, qiniseka ukuba ukhumbule uhlobo luni oyihlo. Ukongezelela, kuya kuba kuhle ukukhumbula malunga nokuzonwabisa okukhoyo. Mhlawumbi uyihlo uhambahamba aze adibanise kwindlela yokuloba, kodwa akayi kukwazi ukuthenga nto. Kwaye, kunjalo, kufuneka uqikelele ubukho bobuhle be-humber in the donee, ukuhleka kwindoda kumntu ohlazileyo uhlambalaza kungekhona nje, ungamcaphukisa. Kodwa phezu kwe-joker kunye ne-joker kunokunyangwa, ihlaya elihle uya kukuxabisa kwaye lihleke kunye nawe ukusuka entliziyweni. Ewe, yintoni enye efunekayo kwiholide? Kodwa ngamagama aqhelekileyo, makhe sibone oko kuthethwa ngokukodwa kwintando yakho oyithandayo.
- Umdlali onentshiseko anganika ithikithi kumdlalo, umlobi okanye umzingeli ukunikela into yokuzilibazisa okanye ukulungiselela ukuba ahambe ngokuloba (ukuzingela). Unokuqhagamshelana neenkonzo zeenkampani ezenza iziganeko ezinjalo.
- Ukuba uyihlo uyakuthanda umdlalo kungekhona kuphela kwiTV, kodwa naye uyazifundisa ngentshiseko, amnike ithikithi kwiziko lokuzilolonga, i-pool, ukumema ukuba adubula kwigalari yokudubula okanye amalungiselele ukuba afundise i-tennis, i-bowling, ukulwa kwekrele. Mlungele uhambo olugqithiseleyo kwiithuthuthu, i-scuba diving.
- Unokukunceda ukuvuselela umthwalo wobomi bemihla ngemihla njengeziphofu ze-parachute, uhambo lwe-helicopter, uhambo lwe-jeep, uhambo lweemephu, i-zorbing, i-snowmobiling, u-wind tunnel hover.
- Ukuba uyihlo ungumenzi wendlu kwaye awukwazi ukumgxotha ekuphekeni into enomnandi, unike i-barbecue, i-aerogrill, i-coffee maker, i-shish kebab, unokukwazi kunye nenyama kunye ne-spice ye-spices ye-shish kebab.
- Ikhompyutheni yekhompyutheni okanye nje umtsalane omkhulu wale teknoloji yezobugcisa zanamhlanje ayiyi kunika izipho kulolu hlobo - iigundane ezithakazelisayo, i-scanner enhle, umshicileli, i-USB-drive, idrayivu yangaphandle yangaphandle.
- Umntu obonisa intsapho, ingakumbi iifoto zentsapho, uya kuqonda isakhelo sesithombe ngendlela yesapho kunye neefoto zazo zonke izihlobo.
- Umntu onothando angayishiyi isipho sevawutsha ezimbini kwi-sanatorium, uhambo oluya kwilizwe, apho bafuna ukuya khona ixesha elide, bedla kwivenkile yokutyela. Vumela usuku lokuzalwa lukayihlo luvuyiswe kwaye unyoko, ngokuba naye, ufanelekile kule holide.