Imoto enhle kakhulu, iimpahla eziphathekayo, iziganeko zentlalo, indlu enkulu, abakhonzi, ukuhlala kwiindawo ezikude zeplanethi, umfanekiso ontle, ukhangelelwano olunokuzithemba-nango ke, ziimpawu zomntu ongummthi womntu owaziyo into ayifunayo. I-gloss gloss kunye neemafilimu ezidumileyo zidlala indima ebalulekileyo ekuphakanyiseni lo mfanekiso, ngoko akumangalisi ukuba abaninzi besifazane bazama ukuphumelela nokuchuma. Ukuze ube nolonwabo, umfazi wesimanje akanalo ukufudumala okwaneleyo kwentsapho yasekhaya.
Ziziphi iimpawu ezifunekayo ukuze uphumelele?
Nangona kunjalo, ngaphambi kokuba uthathe isinyathelo sokuqala nokucinga malunga nendlela yokuba ngumfazi ophumelelayo, makhe sithethe ngeempawu ozifunayo ukuze uhlakulele kuwe ukuze ukwazi ukuza kwiinjongo:
Injongo. Bonke abafazi abaphumeleleyo behlabathi baya kuqinisekisa ukuba into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuzibophezela. Kubalulekile ukucacisa injongo yangempela kwaye wenze okungenani imihla ngemihla eya kukusondeza kuyo. Le mfanelo ibaluleke kakhulu, ngoko uyihlakulele.- Ukunyamezela. Ngaphandle kokuphikelela ekufezeni injongo, awuyi kuphumelela. Lo mgangatho uluncedo kuwe rhoqo naphi na.
- Efanelekileyo. Kuyaziwa ukuba iinjongo zithembela kakhulu kunezifo. Isimo sengqondo esilungileyo senza umsebenzi, ukhuthaze kwaye ukhuthaze ngokuzithemba. Ukumomotheka ebusweni, obonakalayo kwizinto ezinethemba, unabantu abanokukunceda nokwenza oonxibelelwano abatsha.
- Ukukwazi ukusabalalisa ixesha. Kukwazi ukubeka ngokufanelekileyo ixesha lokusebenza nokuzilibazisa (ukulawula ixesha) kwaye yenye yeemfihlelo zabantu abaziyo ukusebenza kakuhle, oko kukuthi, ukufumana iziphumo eziyimfuneko zomsebenzi wabo ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Ibhinqa eliphumelelayo ishishini kufuneka liqonde ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani oku.
Imfihlelo yowesifazane ophumelelayo
Iimfihlelo zowesifazane ophumeleleyo azikho nje ngentla apha ngasentla. Okubaluleke ngakumbi, mhlawumbi - kukufumana indlela yobomi, yenza oko uthandayo, kuba kuphela xa wenza oko kukuvuyisa, unokuvuyisa ngokwenene. I-psychology yowesifazane ophumelelayo yilo: into ebalulekileyo ebomini kukuzifumana, eyakho kunye neyakho.
Ukuqeqesha iimpawu zakho ezifanelekileyo kuyimfuneko ngokubeka iinjongo ezilula. Musa ukuqala ngehlabathi, kuba, njengokuba usebenza ngokubonisa, ukuba unqobe i-summit, kufuneka uqeqeshwe, ukhuphuke ezintabeni ezifikeleleke.
Ngokomzekelo, kufuneka ulahlekelwe isisindo, i-podkachat muscle, ulungiselele umzobo-kwaye uqale ngawo. Ukutya kukunye uqeqesho oluhle lokunika amandla. Ukuba ukhangeleka kangangoko kunokwenzeka - oku kuya kukunika inkuthazo eyongezelelweyo, kuba umfazi omhle uhlale eqinisekile kuye, kuba uvakalelwa ngamandla akhe amabhinqa. Abafazi abaphumeleleyo kakhulu bayazi kakuhle ukuba ukubonakala kubambe indima enkulu ngexesha lethu. Kubalulekile kungekhona nje ukuba ugqoke kakuhle, kodwa kwakhona ukubukeka uphilile, uphumle, nangona uchitha ubusuku obungalali. Umfanekiso wowesifazane ophumeleleyo uquka ukwakheka kwendalo, isikhumba esiluhlaza kunye nesimboli esicacileyo. Ukongezelela, kubalulekile ukuba ungalokhalazi okanye ucofe, kuba uphendula abantu.
Funda ukujongana nemingcipheko, kungekhona ukubayike, kodwa ukuqonda njengomdlalo othakazelisayo. Xa ufunda ukuba ungayesabi ubunzima, kholwani mna - nayiphi na imeko iya kukufumana ehlombe.
Wonke umfazi oshishino ophumelelayo uyakhumbula umgaqo oyintloko-nayiphi impumelelo kunye nempumelelo yiphumo lomsebenzi onzima.