Umfanekiso womlomo uluvo olumalunga nomntu, olusekelwe kwisiseko solwazi ngaye. Umbono onjalo uveliswa kuphela ngomlomo okanye ngomlomo obhaliweyo.
Ngomntu woshishino, umfanekiso womlomo ubaluleke kakhulu. Abalingani abanokwenzeka, ngaphambi kokuba bahlangane nawe, ngokuqinisekileyo baya kubuza malunga negama lakho kwindawo yoluntu. Kule meko, impembelelo yeengcamango zabanye ayifanele ibe phantsi. Isalathiso esisisiseko somfanekiso yintetho yakho. Ukuba unengxaki ngale nto, ngamanye amaxesha kungcono ukuthula, kunokuba uchaze iingcinga zakho ngendlela engaqondakaliyo. Indlela e bhetele ngakumbi kwimeko leyo uqeqesho lwakho. Ukwenza umfanekiso ochanekileyo womlomo, iziphakamiso ezilandelayo kufuneka ziphunyezwe:
- sebenzisa intetho nokucinga. Funda ngokucacileyo, uthethe ngokuchanekileyo kwaye ubeke ingcamango;
- ukunxibelelana nabantu kwi-wave wave;
- ukumamatheka xa uthetha kwaye uzama ukwenza impendulo efanayo;
- ziqwalasele iimfuno zomntu womnxibelelwano;
- ukuba kukho imfuno, unganqikazi ukuthetha ngezihloko "ezingavunyelwe". Ubonisa ukuzithemba nokuthembeka;
- ukuhlonela inkcubeko yentetho kunye nezobugcisa boshishino;
- Musa ukudiliza ingxowa kwaye ungaxoxani nabantu abathathu emva kwemva yabo;
- phu laphula umnxibelelwano wakho, bonise umdla wakho;
- zincoma xa zifanelekileyo;
- Musa ukumboza umlomo wakho ngesandla sakho xa uhleka. Uhlobo olunjalo lubangela ukungathembeki kuwe;
- soloko ebhekisela kumnxibelelwano ngegama;
- ukhumbule iziganeko ezinjalo zomlomo zolu mfanekiso njenge: intonation, timbre, diction, imvakalelo, intsingiselo yeengxelo, ingqiqo kunye nokucingisisa kwentetho.
- uzame ukudala abantu abanomdla kunye nomntu wakho.
Yiba ngumntu ohloniphekileyo kwaye ophendulayo. Bonisa intlonelo kwabanye abantu kwaye ungakuphepheli ithuba lokuhlala uphakathi kwenkalo.