Indlela yokubhalisa umntwana kwindlu?

Kwenzeka ngokukhawuleza ukuba umyalelo womntwana emva kokuzalwa, lo mbuzo uphendulwa ngabazali abasanda kuveliswa, ngokukhawuleza ukuba umntwana wabo wazalwa. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ukuxhalaba kunye nokukhawuleza kweli phepha kulungile. Ekubeni kungekho ngaphandle kwe-propiska, i-crumb ayifumani mgaqo-nkqubo wezokwelapha, akayi kufakwa kwi-kindergarten, aze aye esikolweni.

Ngelizwi, kucacile ukuba umntu akafanele anganqikazi ukubhaliswa kwengane , omnye umbuzo wendlela yokwenza oku, kunye nokuba ungaphi ukuqala.

Ungabhalisa njani umntwana kwindawo yokuhlala?

Abafazi abahlala bodwa, bafumana iingxaki zezindlu ngokubhaliswa komntwana akufanele kuvele. Ukubhalisa umntwana kuyimfuneko ukufaka isicelo kwigosa lepaspoti kwiofisi yezindlu, i-HOA okanye inkampani yolawulo. Ngelo xesha, kufuneka uthabathe amaxwebhu alandelayo nawe:

• Kakade, isiqinisekiso sokuzalwa nomtshato;
• Iipasipoti zabazali;

Ngoku qwalasela ezinye iimeko ezinokwenzeka:

1. Indlela yokumisela umntwana omncinci (ngaphantsi kweminyaka eyi-14) kwelinye igumbi, umzekelo, kumakhulu. Ngaphantsi komthetho, abantwana abaselula bayabhaliswa kwindawo yokuhlala yokuhlala (okanye omnye wabo). Okokuthi, ukuba uMama okanye uTata akahlali kunye nogogo, ngoko ukubhalisa umntwana kuye kwindlu, njengommiselo, akunakwenzeka (nokuba ngaba ugogo akayena umgcini okanye umzali owamkelayo).
2. Indlela yokumisela umntwana xa abazali behlala kwiidilesi ezahlukeneyo? Kwiimeko ezinjalo, isitatimende somama okanye ubaba sivalelwe uluhlu lwamaphepha afanelekileyo achaza ukuba (yena) uyavuma ukuba umntwana uya kubhalwa kwidilesi echaziweyo.
3. Indlela yokubhalisa umntwana kwindawo yokuhlala kuyo unina ngaphandle kwemvume kayise? Ukungabikho kwesivumelwano phakathi kwabazali emva kokuqhawula umtshato, indawo yokubhaliswa komntwana inqunywe enkundleni. INkundla inquma kwakhona ukuba ingabhalisa umntwana kwiimeko apho indawo kayise engaziwa, kodwa akayikho uluhlu olufunwayo kwaye umntu olahlekileyo akabheki njengento ekhoyo. Ukumisela umntwana ongekho mthethweni (xa umzali engabhalwanga), isicelo esibhaliweyo somama sanele.