Ukufunda ukwenza ivili
Ukwenza umsebenzi "isondo" umntwana kufuneka abe nemisipha eyomeleleyo yeengalo, imilenze kunye kunye kunye nentsebenziswano ephambili. Ngoko ke, kuya kuba bubulumko ukuba ufunde indlela yokuphuma, u-squat uze wenze ezinye izenzo kunye nomthwalo kwimisipha efanelekileyo.
I-Technique yokwenza isondo elisebenzayo:
- Izandla kunye neenyawo zidibene kwaye zilungiswe ngomgca omnye;
- Qala ngomlenze oxhasekileyo kunye nengalo exhasayo efanayo (kunene-kunene, ngakwesobunxele-kwesobunxele). Gxotha umlenze oxhasayo kwaye uhambise isikhungo sogonyamelo kwisalathisi senkxaso (ukuba uvela kwinqanaba elisekunene, uze uyiguqule kwaye uhambise isikhulu sogungqingi ukuya ngasekunene uze ume ngakwesokunene), uze ususe umlenze wesibili uze ume ngakwelinye icala. Kancinci, ngokukhawuleza, sibeka unyawo olunye phantsi (kwimeko yethu, ngakwesobunxele), ngoko ke okwesibini.
Indlela yokufunda ngokukhawuleza ukwenza ivili?
Okokuqala, kufuneka ulungiselele indawo apho umsebenzi uya kwenziwa. Umgangatho kufuneka uthandeke ukuwa, umntwana akalimala.
Ukuqhuba ukufudumala kwemizuzu engama-25, ukufudumala yonke imisipha. Kumntwana uqaphela indlela yokwenza ivili ngokuchanekileyo, kufuneka afunde ukuma kwiingalo ezongezelelweyo kunye nemilenze ngaphandle. Unokuqala eludongeni, kwaye ngokukhawuleza uhoxise kwimilenze yakhe. Kule ngongoma, kufuneka umqiniseke ngokuqinisekileyo umntwana.
Xa uzimela ngokuzithemba ezandleni zakho, ungaqala ukwenza iqhinga. Beka intambo ende okanye intambo kwindlela, ukuze umntwana aziqonde umzila. Yaye uchaze ukuba kufuneka ahambe kulo mgca kunye nemilenze kunye nokuphatha.
Iqhinga lokuqala ukugcina umzimba wonke ngokukhawuleza, ngaphandle kokuguqa okanye ngasemva okanye izitho, kwaye impumelelo iya kuza ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba izandla kunye neenyawo kunjalo, umntwana akayi kuthathwa.