Ukufunda ukuba usemgangathweni, ngamnye umfazi uqala ngokuzibuza ukuba ziphi iiveki ukukhulelwa kuqhubeka, kwaye xa engathatha umntwana wakhe ezandleni zakhe. Ngelishwa, ayikho ngaphaya kwamandla abo nabani na ukuba bamise umhla kunye neeholide lokuzalwa kwakhe. Kungenzeka ukuba izibalo zakho okanye izibalo zesigqirha ziza kuchaneka, kodwa kuya kuba nenhlanhla ngaphezu komgaqo.
Isithintelo esikhulu sokufumana ixesha lokukhulelwa kwesigulane esithile kukuba akukho ndlela yokwenza umhla ochanekileyo wokukhulelwa okanye ukuchumisa. Kanye nokwazi ukuba isivinini siza ku "hamba" iqanda xa siqhobisa, kwaye umbungu usungulwe kwisibeleko kwaye uza kuzibonakalisa ngokukhula nokuphuhliswa kwawo. Ukufunda le nkqubo, kubalulekile ukunika ixesha elide kumfazi ngamnye okhulelweyo. Ngoko, ababelethisi bahlakulela "inxalenye yegolide" ithetha ukuba ziphi iiveki ukukhulelwa okuqhelekileyo kuqhubeka.
Iingcali zenzululwazi ziye zafumanisa ukuba kwiimeko ezininzi, malunga nama-70-80%, ukususela kwisichumiso kuze kube sekuqaleni kwesigqibo somthwalo, iiveki ezingama-38 okanye iintsuku ezingama-266 zidlule. Yilapho ubunzima bevela khona, kuba phantse bonke abesifazana abazi umhla xa bekhulelwe okanye bavutha. Into kuphela ephuma kwimemori kule akhawunti yilapho iqalile inyanga yokugqibela. Kwaye kwagqitywa ukuba lo mhla uya kuba yindawo yokuqala yokubala ixesha lokukhulelwa kwabasetyhini. Ngokwale ngqungquthela, ixesha lokugaya lihlala kwiintsuku ezingama-280 okanye iiveki ezingama-40.
Nangona kunjalo, ngale ndlela, kukho ukulungiswa: kuba ngokuqala kokuya esikhathini, akukho nto inokubakho nkulumo kukho konke, ixesha elifunyenwe ngale ndlela ligqitywa ukuba libizwa ngokuba ngumzi, ngenxa yokuba iminyaka yobudala yobusana ubuncinane ezimbini iiveki ezimfutshane kunokuba zibalwe.
Ukubala ixesha lokukhulelwa?
Ngokuqhelekileyo umzuzu we-ovulation uvela ezimbini kwiiveki emva kokuphela kwesisu. Ngoko kuvela ukuba kwimihla engama-280 eyamkelweyo kuyimfuneko ukuba ithathele ezi zi-14, ngexesha apho ukukhulelwa kungenakwenzeka. Ngoko kuvela ukuba inzala ihlala kwiintsuku ezingama-266. Kwakhona, ungalilahli umntu ngamnye ngumfazi ngamnye, ngenxa yokuba i- ovulation ingafika ngaphambilana okanye ifike.
Yingakho ixesha lokukhulelwa kwabasetyhini, eliqhelekileyo, lisuka kwiiveki ezingama-32 ukuya kuma-34. Nangona ngoku kutsho kwezi zikhokelo ziye zatshintsha kwaye zathola ixabiso leeveki ezingama-37-43. Ngoko kuvela ukuba zonke izibalo zeemathematika ziqikelelwa kwaye azikwazi ukucacisa umhla wokubonakala komntwana.
Yintoni enokutshintsha ixesha lokukhulelwa kwiiveki?
Ubungakanani bokuba "isikhundla esithakazelisayo" singathonyelwa yizinto ezilandelayo:
- imeko yempilo kamama;
- uphuhliso kunye nempilo yomntwana;
- ukuzalwa;
- ubude bokukhulelwa okuqhelekileyo kunokuxhomekeke kwimeko yengqondo yomama,
xa enqwenela ukuzala ngosuku oluthile kwaye ufike ixesha lokuzalwa kumhla obalulekileyo.
Ukuba uhlala uxhatshazwa ngeengxaki ezinxulumene nokuba zingaphi iiveki ezinzima zokukhulelwa zihlala, kwaye nokuba uvelisa umntwana ngexesha, ngoko akufanele wenze izibalo ezizimeleyo kwaye usenokukhupha ingqondo yakho ngakumbi. Esi siganeko asixhomekeke kuwe, kodwa sigxininiswe ngokupheleleyo kwiinkqubo zendalo eziqhubekayo. Ngethuba lexesha eliqhelekileyo lokukhulelwa, kulungele ukunyamekela isikhundla sakho esitsha, ukuphulaphula ukunyakaza komntwana nokulandela imiyalelo yesigqirha. Oku kuya kuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana uza kuvela ngexesha elifanelekileyo.