Iinyanga ezilithoba zokulinda, ummangaliso wokuzalwa kwaye ngoku - ixesha elide elindelwe - wena wedwa kunye nomntu othandekayo nomthandayo kakhulu emhlabeni - umntwana wakho. Umbuzo wokuqala ovela entloko yawo wonke unina ongenalwazi unendlela yokuthabatha iimvuthu ngaphandle kokumlimaza. Ngelishwa, akubona zonke izibhedlele zokubeleka kwilizwe lethu elikhulu elijongene nomsebenzi wabo, oomama abatsha abafundi ukuhlakanipha kokuphatha abantwana abancinci, kuquka ukugcina kakuhle umntwana osana.
Kutheni sifaka "umntwana"?
Ukuqonda ukuba ube ngumama kuza kunye nokutya kokuqala komntwana. Ngomso, umoya ungena kwisisu somntwana, oko kunokubangela ukuba buhlungu. Ukuze ugweme ukubandezeleka kwengane, emva kokutya, kuyimfuneko ukuyihlambalaza nge "ikholomu" - umntwana uya kutyhola, umoya ogqithiseleyo uya kuphuma aze amlalele ngokuthula. Umbuzo uvela: indlela yokugcina kakuhle ikholomu entsha? Kulula kakhulu-thabatha intshontsho, ubeke ilungu lomntwana ehlombe lakho, ubambe intloko nentamo ngesandla esinye, kunye nesinye imbongolo kunye nemilenze. Uqhagamshelwano olunzulu kakhulu nonina luya kunciphisa intlungu evela kwi-colic kwi-tummy ye-crumb.
Umntwana "umntwana" unokugqithwa kwaye akhangele phambili , oku kuya kumvumela umntwana ukuba acinge ngendawo yakhe entsha-isandla esisodwa kwisifuba, ebeka isandla sakhe phantsi kwengalo yakhe, enye icinezele imilenze yakhe.
Indlela yokugqoka umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa kufuneka angazi kuphela umama, kodwa kunye noodade, kwaye zonke izihlobo ziya kuza ukuqonda ngommangaliso omncinci, kuba kule nkathi yobomi umntwana usenza umlenze kunye nenkqubo ye-musculoskelet. Ngoko ke, kuyimfuneko ukuxhasa intamo nentloko yomntwana, utshintshe isikhundla ukusuka ngakwesokunene kuya kwesobunxele, ukuze umntwana angaphumeleli embonweni owodwa. Ngokuqinisekileyo, mama, mncumo uze uthethe ummangaliso wakho omncinci. Unokumbamba usana olutsha ngokubeka intloko yakhe kwinqaba lebhola , ubambe isandla esifanayo nomqolo wakhe, kwaye ubambe umntwana ngenye icala iesile kunye nemilenze. Ngapha nje kwintonga yebhola ungayifaka intamo yeemvuthu, kodwa ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukujongana phantsi, ngesandla esisodwa, cinezela umntwana, kwaye yesibini, ubambe phakathi kwemilenze, gcina isifuba nesisu.
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Indlela yokuthabatha umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa akufanele aphunyuke kwiintsapho. Akukho ukunyakaza okungazelelwe, ukungaqiniseki, kunye nezandla ezimbini - ezi ziyimigaqo ebalulekileyo kumntu wonke. Ingaba isana lilele emva? Sifaka esinye sandla phantsi kweesile, enye enye phantsi kwentloko kwaye iphakamisa ngokukhawuleza, ukuqinisekisa ukuba intloko yomntwana yayiphezulu kunabingeleli. Ukuba ukuphumla komzimba kwisisu, sinesandla esisodwa kwisifuba, sibambe intendelezo yentamo, sibeke esinye isandla phantsi kwesisu.
Inkqubo yamanzi
Enye inxaxheba ebalulekileyo ibangela ukudideka koomama abangenamava emva kokukhutshwa esibhedlele - ukuhlamba. Iinkqubo zamanzi zibaluleke kakhulu kubantwana, ngoncedo lwabo zivumelanisa neemeko ezintsha zobukho babo, kwaye oku kukunyamekela kwesikhumba semvumba kunye nendlela yokubhenca. Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokugcina umntwana usana xa udida. Okokuqala - ngesandla esinye ubamba umntwana ngentloko, entanyeni nangemuva, omnye ugcina imbongolo kunye nemilenze. Okwesibini, ukhululekile ngakumbi kuwe kunye nosana - intloko yentsana ilele kwi-forearm yakho, kunye negalelo elikude entendeni yesandla sakho. Le ndlela ikulungele ngakumbi kuba umntwana usenokuhamba ngokukhululekile emanzini, ngaloo ndlela aphumle izihlunu,
Kwaye ekugqibeleni, makhe sandise ukuba awukwazi njani ukugcina umntwana osana. Khumbula imithetho elula: musa ukuvumela intloko yomntwana ukuba iphonswe emva kwayo, kwaye i-handles kunye nemilenze ixhomeke, kwaye akukho mfuneko yokuphakamisa iimvuthu emva kwe-brush-i-joints yayo isenamandla kakhulu.
Uyabathanda abantwana bakhe, banxibe ezandleni zabo, kuba ngokuthintela abantwana bafunde ihlabathi elitsha kubo.