Isithembu

I-Polygyny, okanye isithembu, uhlobo lomtshato apho indoda enye inokuba nabafazi abaningana. Ngokwesiko, imodeli enjalo ivela kwi-patriarchy. Okwangoku, isithembu ixhaphake phakathi kwamanye amaSilamsi, ngokuqhelekileyo lilungelo kubalawuli kunye noluntu oluluntu. Indlela yomtshato, echaza isithembu - i-polygyny, eli gama akufanele lidideke ngesithembu.

Iinkalo zentlalo-nkcubeko yesithembu

Isithembu ehlabathini lamaYuda sele likhona iminyaka emininzi. Ngendlela yaso ixazulula iingxaki ezifana nendlala, umhlolokazi, ukungabikho komntwana. Nangona kunjalo, ngalo mgaqo obalulekileyo: indoda ingaba nabafazi abaninzi njengoko inokukubonelela, ngoko le lilungelo lesityebi.

Abasetyhini kwihlabathi lanamhlanje ngaphezu kwamadoda. Kule nkalo, kukho ingcamango yokubhekisela kwisithembu njengesisombululo kwiingxaki ze-demography: emva koko konke, ngoko, ngokomthetho, abafazi abaninzi baya kukwazi ukuzala umntu oyedwa, kwaye bonke baya kunikwa kwaye bahlala ubomi obumnandi, obonwabileyo. Ngaba umthetho uvumela isithembu? Kwimihlaba emininzi yemvume, kwaye oku kungenakutshitshiswa.

Isithembu: Iingcebiso kunye neNgqungquthela

Ngombono wesilisa waseYurophu oye waqhelana nobufazi , isithembu kunye ne-polyandry zizinto ezingamkelekanga. Nangona inyaniso yokuba i-polygyny ingqiqo isele yahlala kude kakhulu kwaye i-echoes yayo ikhona kuphela kwimpilo yamaSulumane, isithembu phakathi kwamaSlav, kwaye ngokwenene kwihlabathi lamaKristu, kwakhona kwenzeka. Kule meko kuphela inokufumaneka kwiinkonzo zonqulo ezahlukeneyo.

Nangona kunjalo, akukho mfuneko yokuphendukela kumacandelo ukuze ufumane imizekelo yesithembu samanje. Abafazi basemaYurophu bahlala besaqhawula umtshato ongumSilamsi onama-1-2 abafazi. Ngokuqhelekileyo amanyathelo anjalo ahlangabezana nokungaqondani kwezihlobo, kodwa kukho isithembu, apho kungadingeki ukuba uxhalabele ngamalungelo aphulwayo.

Inyani kukuba abafazi abaninzi banokuzifumana bona bodwa abacebileyo. Ukongeza, ngokwemithetho yaseSharia, bonke abafazi kufuneka bagcinwe okufanayo: ngokuthenga ubucwebe begolide bodwa, umntu kufuneka enze izipho ezifanayo kubo bonke abantu. Ngaphezu koko, akusiwo onke amazwe aqokelela bonke abafazi phantsi kophahla olulodwa, oluvame ukudala ingxabano kunye neengxabano. Ngokomzekelo, e-United Arab Emirates ngamnye umfazi unendlu yakhe okanye indlu. Amadoda aseArabhu ngexesha elide asithethi isithembu njengendlela yokucima iinqweno zabo - ngumthwalo omkhulu kunye nomqondiso wokungahambelani nokuqonda.

Enye into yesithembu yilungiselelo le-harem. I-harem yindawo ehlukileyo yendlu apho bonke abafazi bentsapho bahlala khona-umfazi, unina, udade, umfazi womzalwana, njl. Bonke bancedana kunye nokubukela indlu ndawonye. Amadoda aseMpuma awazange abone abafazi bawo kwiimeko ezingabonakaliyo.

Umfazi waseMpuma akasayi emsebenzini, akasithwali iikhwama ezinzima ekhaya kwaye akaze azihlawulele. Nangona kunjalo, xa efumana inkululeko yemali, ufumana ukungabi nabulungisa kokuziphatha: akakwazi ukwenza isinyathelo esinye ngaphandle kolwazi lomyeni wakhe. Ukongezelela, akanalo ilungelo lokulawula umntu, ukufumanisa ukuba ungaphi na kunye naye.

Ngendlela, ukuba ubuhlobo buba nzima, isibini sinokuqhawula umtshato. Indoda ngenxa yoko yanele ngokwamkelekileyo okumemezela oku kumfazi wayo, kwaye ibhinqa lifuna ukuqhagamshelana nabaphathi abafanelekileyo. Ukwahlukana kuya kuzaliseka xa kuvela ukuba indoda ayinikeze kakuhle umfazi, ayithenganga rhoqo iingubo ezintsha kwaye akazange azivule izipho.

Kwaye kukho izinto ezininzi zokudibanisa kunye nokunciphisa isithembu, nje ngomtshato wesigxina. Ewe, le nyathelo ngokucacileyo ayikho inkululeko yendalo inkululeko, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kungekhona kubaphathi abanomona. Nangona kunjalo, abanye besetyhini bangcono kule meko. Bonke abantu bahluke, kwaye kunzima ukufumana iresiphi enye yolonwabo kubo bonke.