Awu, le mivakalelo engenakulibaleka, xa umntwana wakho athi "aga" kunye "nomama" wokuqala. Isiva sovuyo oluqhelekileyo siqheleke phantse wonke umzali. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba inkqubela ayiqhubeki ngaphezu kwamagama kwaye umntwana wakho enenkani akafuni ukuthetha? Kule meko, kufuneka umncede akwazi ukuthetha ulwimi olunzima kwaye aluqondakaliyo. Kwaye kuphela ongakwenza.
Indlela yokuphucula kakuhle intetho yomntwana?
Ukuphuhliswa kwentetho yomntwana ihlukaniswe ngamanyathelo athile:
- Meme. Kuyi-reflex kwaye ivela kunye neemfuno zomntwana zokukhusela, ukufudumala, ukutya kunye nentuthuzelo.
- Ukuxuba. Ukususela ngenyanga yesibini umntwana uqala ukuvakalisa izandi ze-agu, gy-e, njl. Ukuba ubhekisisa ngenyana, uya kubona ukuba ulindele impendulo yakho. Oku kuthetha ukuba umntwana sele efunda ukufunda indlela yokwakha incoko kunye nawe.
- Lisp. Ekubeni kwiinyanga ezi-6-7 umntwana uqala ukubiza izilwanyana zokuqala: ma, ba, pa. Kancinci, zongezwa kwikhenkethi: ma-ma, pa-pa, njl njl Kulo xesha kubalulekile ukuphinda le zihlalutya kumntwana, funda izandi zeengqungquthela uze ucule ingane. Ngoko uza kuphuhlisa ukuva nangaphezulu.
- Amazwi okuqala. Ekubeni kwiinyanga ezili-11 ukuya ku-12 umntwana udinga ukuphuhliswa kokudaliswa kwegama. Ingane iphulaphula ngokucophelela izivakalisi, izinkondlo kunye neengxelo zamagama ezenziwa ngabazali ngokukhawuleza. Ngoko ke, nokuba sisetratweni kubalulekile ukunxibelelana nomntwana ngegama elifutshane kunye neelwimi. Ngokomzekelo, inja - av-av, imoto - bi-bi, i-locomotive-tu-tu okanye chuh-chuh.
Dlala kwaye ufunde ukuthetha
Ukuqala ukususela kunyaka omnye kubalulekile ukuqala ukusebenzisa imidlalo yezingane ezenza intetho. Abazali abaninzi bazibandakanya kwiimvumi kunye neencwadi zokufunda, ngelixa abanye baqala ukujongana nabantwana kwiiklasi ezizodwa zokufunda. Nangona kunjalo, kukho iindlela ezinokusetyenziswa apho ungenako ukuphuma ngaphandle kwegumbi lomntwana. Ngoko, sihlakulela intetho yomntwana ekhaya:
1. Sithetha ngokuvakalayo. Ukuba inkunzi iphakathi kwamehlo akho, qalisa ukuthetha nawe, iifutshane, ezicothayo nezicacileyo. Ngoko ukuba umntwana ubone izenzo zakho aze ave oko uthethayo. Umzekelo: "Ndiza kuhlamba izitya", "Umama upheke iphariji", "USasha uya kudla ngoku", njl.
Ingxoxo efanayo. Indlela efana neyokudlulileyo, kodwa ngokusekelwe kwimibono yento eyenziwa ngumntwana ngokwakhe. Ngamanye amazwi, unika umntwana inkcazelo malunga negama lezinto ezithwele ezandleni zakhe, ziphi iimpawu zento, njalo njalo. Umntwana ufumana amava kunye naye kwixesha elizayo ufunda ukusebenzisa amagama akho ngokukhawuleza.
3. Ukunyusa. Ngaba ukungaqondi kakuhle komntwana. Umzekelo, inkwenkwe ikubiza into yokudlala okanye ibeka umunwe kuyo kwaye ifuna ukuba uyinike yona. Zama ukunika ithoyilo engalunganga. Ukuqala kokusana komntwana kuya kuba yintlonelo, njengoko ungazange uyayiqonda into ayithethayo. Kwixesha elizayo, unokubuza imibuzo yomntwana: "Andiyiqondi, ufuna ibhola okanye idonsa?". Umntwana uqala ngokuzikhethela ukuchazela umzali ongenalumntu oko akufunayo.
4. Iingoma, iimvumi kunye neemvumi. Phantse yonke imidlalo yabantwana abaphuhlisa intetho basekelwe kwisingqimba. Ingakumbi ukuba ngale ndlela uhamba nantoni na isenzo somntwana. Ngokuncedwa kweengqungquthela nezivakalisi, uya kunceda umntwana ukuba angayi kuqonda kuphela intetho, kodwa ukuba amfundele ebhodweni, amfundise indlela yokusebenzisa i-spoon kwaye afake kuye ezinye izakhono zentlalo. Kananjalo ngoncedo lwemidlalo yesiqhelo ungasebenzisa umsebenzi wezithuthi zomntwana. Ukwenza ngakumbi ukuhamba okunzima kunye neminwe kunye nezandla kunye nomzimba wonke wengane, iindawo ezininzi zobomi ziya kubandakanyeka. Nazi imimiselo embalwa yale midlalo:
- Wonke umntu ukhumbula ebuntwaneni ibumbi: "Iibhokhwe kwihogi yebhokhwe, kubantwana abancinci ...". Yenza ikhefu, kwaye ke wongeza koko "Ndiyakhathalela, ndiyakhathalela, ndiyakhathalela". Ingane iya kulinda le mpawu engalindelekanga kwakhona.
- Kwakhona, abantwana bayathanda ukuthetha apho bona ngokwabo bathatha inxaxheba. Ibinzana elifanayo elithi "I-Geese-geese" ungayichaza, kwaye inqaku elithi "ha-ha-ha" umntwana uya kukuphinda ngokuphindaphindiweyo.
- Sebenzisa imidlalo efundisa umntwana. Ngokomzekelo, oku:
I-buzz buzzes - zhu-ju-ju-ju
Ndiza kukubonisa amehlo am
Ndiza kukubonisa ibunzi lam
Ndiza kukubonisa izindlebe (njalo njalo).
Umntwana uya kuzikhumbula ngokukhawuleza apho amehlo kunye nezinye iinxalenye zomzimba zihlala kwicala lomama, ngoko unokuzibonisa ekhaya, kwaye kwisigaba sesithathu yena uya kuqala ukubiza.
5. Uphando lwezenzululwazi lubonise ukuba amathoyizi afanelekileyo akhulisa intetho zizinto eziqhelekileyo zasendlini, ezahlukileyo kumbala, imilo kunye nezinye iimpawu. Umzekelo ocacileyo wale nto unokubonwa ekhitshini, xa umntwana ekhetha i-groats eziqhelekileyo, ukhonkco, iikomityi kunye neepuni kwii-toys eziqhelekileyo. Ukufunda izifundo ezinjalo ngeengxelo zakho malunga nokuba ungayenza ntoni nabo, kuya kuphuhlisa intetho yomntwana wakho ngokukhawuleza. Kwaye imidlalo yomntwana kunye ne-croup iya kuphuhlisa ngokupheleleyo izakhono zezithuthi, nto leyo ibaluleke kakhulu ekudalweni kwegama.
6. Akukho ndawo yokugqibela ehlala kunye neethathu, ukuphuhlisa intetho . Wonke umzali makafanele akhumbule - abantwana beminyaka yobudala badinga ukunxibelelana ngokuhlala, ngoko-ke iTV ingabalimaza. Kodwa ukuba kukho umama nobaba eseduze, ngubani obuka iikhathuni kunye ne-movie kunye nomntwana kwaye akhonkce kwizinto ezizibonayo kwesikrini, umphumo uya kuba mnandi. Phakathi kweempawu zokudala ezintle zifanelekile ukuba ziqaphele oku kulandelayo: "Terem-Teremok", "Indlela Yokuba Omkhulu", u-Antoshka "," Olubomvu, obomvu "," Iimbini ezimbini ezivuyayo "," Sasiba ne-orange "," I-Adventures yekhukhamba "," iSanta Claus kunye ihlobo "(ingoma ngehlobo). Kwakhona kwiseRashiya kwakhishwa uchungechunge olumangalisayo lwefilimu "Ndiyakwenza Yonke into. Ziba yizintlu. "
Unokwenza umdlalo wabantwana bakho, ukhulise intetho yabo. Imigaqo ephambili ingqalelo kwaye igcinwe ingxoxo kunye nosana. Ukudlala nomntwana kwiidlonda, kwibala lezemidlalo, unike iifayili iimpahla ezahlukeneyo kwaye uthethe egameni labo. Izandla zobugcisa ezivela kwizixhobo ezahlukeneyo. Unganqikazi ukusebenzisa ixesha lakho ekunxibelelaneni nomntwana, ungashiyi kwiTV, kunokudlala umdlalo. Emva koko awuyi kuba nombuzo wendlela yokuphuhlisa intetho yomntwana.