Umntwana oneminyaka eyi-11 ubudala

Abazali abasebancinci baqaphele ngenyameko zonke iinguqu ezenzekayo kunye nosana lwabo olutsha. Iintsana ezisanda kuzalwa, ngokuqhelekileyo lonke ixesha lokulala, kodwa kwixesha elizayo ulawulo lwabo lobomi luguquka kakhulu. Ubungakanani obufunekayo bokulala komntwana buyancipha ngenyanga, kwaye ixesha lokuvuka, ngokulandelanayo, landa.

Ngaphantsi kwempembelelo yemvelo yemivumba kubantu abakuzungezile kwaye izifundo zihlala zifumana ulwazi olutsha kunye nezakhono, kwaye izakhono ezaziwa ngaphambili ziphuculwe. Utshintsho olunjalo olukhawulezayo lubaluleke ngokukhethekileyo kunyaka wokuqala wobomi bentsana. Kule nqaku, siya kukuxelela okwenzekayo kumntwana oneminyaka eyi-11 ubudala, kunye nendlela yokuyihlakulela kakuhle ukuba uqhubeke noontanga.

Yintoni enokuyenza umntwana kwiinyanga ezili-11?

Ewe, umzimba womntwana ngamnye ngumntu ngamnye kwaye ukuphuhliswa kwengane kunokuxhomekeka kwiimeko ezininzi. Ngokomzekelo, amantombazana amaninzi ambalwa phambi kwamakhwenkwe ekuphuhliseni intetho kunye nezinye izakhono, kunye neentsana ezizalwa ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ngaphambi kwexesha zize zilungele ngokukhawuleza emva koontanga kwaye zikwazi kakuhle izakhono ezithile emva koko.

Ngethuba elifanayo, kukho imimiselo ekhethekileyo ngokokuba oogqirha nabazali bangakwazi ukuphonononga ngokunyanisekileyo izinga lokuphuhliswa kweemvuthu. Ngoko, umntwana oneminyaka eyi-11 ubudala uhlala enezakhono ezilandelayo:

• uyakwazi ukuthetha amagama amaninzi, umzekelo, "utata", "umama", "umfazi" kwaye "unike". Ininzi yexesha esebenzisa inhlanganisela enjengokuthi "av-av", "co-ko", "bi-bi", ezisekho kude namagama asetyenziswa ngabantu abadala, nangona kunjalo, umntwana kunye nezihlobo zakhe sele ziqonda kakuhle ukuba nguye ufuna ukuthetha intetho yakhe;
• Ukuqonda intetho yabantu abadala, banokwenza imisebenzi elula;
• ihamba ngokugqithiseleyo, ihamba ngokukhawuleza kwi-footestal, ihamba, ibambe isandla somntu omdala okanye isigxina;
• ngokucacileyo inquma injongo yezinto ezilula zendlu;
• ukuphendula ngokwaneleyo ekudumiseni nasekuvunyelweni, ukumemeza ngokuphendula ngokukhuthaza;
• ukuwonga isibambo esithi "Sawubona!" kunye ne "Bye!", usebenzisa ezinye izenzo, umzekelo, ukugubungela intloko kwiindlela ezahlukeneyo njengophawu lokungavumelani.

Urhulumente wengxelo yomntwana kwiinyanga ezili-11

Ukuba inkwenkwe nayiphi na iminyaka ingakhula ngokugcwele, idinga urhulumente olungelelanisiweyo lolo suku. Okokuqala, uninzi unina unomdla kumbuzo wokuba umntwana kufuneka alale kwiinyanga ezili-11. Ngokuqinisekileyo, akukho mpendulo engaqinisekanga kulo mbuzo, kuba umntwana ngamnye unesidingo sakhe, kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo, ubuthongo bemihla ngemihla yintsana eneminyaka elishumi elinanye ineminyaka eyi-13.

Phakathi kwezi, iiyure ezingama-9 ukuya kushumi elinesibini umntwana kufuneka alale ebusuku, kwaye ixesha elisele lihlukaniswe ngamaxesha aphumli ama-1,5-2 nganye.

Qaphela ukuba ixesha lokuvuka kwakho alihlali ngaphezu kweeyure ezingama-3.5-4. Umntwana kule minyaka akaqapheli ukuba ufuna ukulala, kwaye akavumelani naye, ngoko kufuneka umncede kule nto. Ukuba uphoswa ngexesha elifanelekileyo, ukubeka umntwana ukulala kuya kuba nzima ngakumbi.

Ukuphuhlisa imidlalo yezingane ezili-11 inyanga

Umntwana oneminyaka eyi-11 ubudala, zonke izinto ezizungezile ziyimidlalo efunekayo, kufuneka ihlolwe kuwo onke macala kwaye kufuneka ihlolwe "ngezinyo". Kule nto ayikho into eyoyikisayo, kuba ngale ndlela i-kid iqonda ihlabathi kwaye iyaziqonda indawo ejikelezileyo.

Akufanele ubenqande amaqabunga ukuba ahambe apho afuna khona, kwaye uthathe ezo zinto ezithandayo. Ngelo xesha, kufuneka uqinisekise ukhuseleko oluphezulu lomntwana wakho. Kwakhona, qiniseka ukuthenga unyana wakho okanye intombi yeemidlalo zokudlala-iipiramidi kunye nabatemon. Ezi zinto eziqaqambileyo ziya kutsalela ingqalelo imivumba kwaye, ngaphandle koko, iya kuba negalelo ekuphuhliseni izakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi zezandla.

Ekugqibeleni, ngomntwana weenyanga ezili-11 ungadlala imidlalo elandelayo:

1. "Ubani otshoyo?" Bonisa iimpawu ezicacileyo ezibonisa izilwanyana ezidumileyo kwaye zibonisa indlela ezi zilwanyana "zithetha" ngayo. Kungekudala umntwana usuqala ukuphinda emva kwakho izandi ezihlekisayo ezixelisa intetho yezilwanyana.
2. "Amanzi-Vodichka." Lo mdlalo udlalwa kakhulu ngexesha lokuhlamba. Tshala umntwana wakho ekuhlambeni, uthele amanzi kumlenze wakhe kwaye unike imbiza okanye iibhotile ezimbalwa ngomqala. Ingane iya kuvuyela ukutshiza emanzini kwaye uyithulule kwisitya esinye kwesinye.