Abaninzi bethu bathembisa ukuba baqalise ubomi obutsha, ngokukhawuleza xa kufike ixesha elihle-uMvulo, uNyaka omtsha, i-parade yeeplanethi. Kodwa abaqali, baqhubeka bephila nge-inertia. Indlela yokuqokelela amandla kwaye uphume kwi-quagmire, ekhwela kwimikhwa kunye nokuqhelekileyo, indlela yokuqala ubomi kwiqabunga elitsha?
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuqala ubomi obutsha ukususela ekuqaleni?
Sithetha ntoni xa sicinga malunga nendlela yokuqalisa ubomi obutsha? Kungenzeka ukuba, sifuna ukufunda ukuhlala ubomi obupheleleyo, sishiye kwixesha elidlulileyo konke okuthintela ukwenza njalo. Umntu ngamnye uya kuba nezithintelo zakhe - umntu osuvele esephilile ubudlelwane bakhe, abanye banemikhwa emibi. Okokuthi, umbuzo wendlela yokuqalisa ubomi obutsha awuthetha ukuba kuqale ukuphila kwasekuqaleni. Ukuqalisa ngokuphumelelayo ubomi obutsha akuyikuphulaphula zonke izibophelelo, ushiye umsebenzi, uthengise indlu kwaye uhambe kwiintaba ukunikela ubomi bonke ukuba ucinge ngeenkwenkwezi. Hayi, ukuba uziva ukuba kuyimfuneko - nceda. Kodwa ininzi ayifuni ukucima yonke imifanekiso yobomi, kodwa kuphela ukulungisa imizila ethile.
Indlela yokuqala ubomi obutsha?
- Ngaba ufuna ukufunda indlela yokuqalisa ubomi obutsha? Okokuqala ukulibala malunga nemiqathango enemiqathango, kufuneka uqale xa iNyanga yeCapricorn iya kuba, kodwa kwangoku. Inyaniso yokuba uzama ukuyeka ukutshintshwa kwenguqu yindlela yokuphendula ngayo umzimba, ukungafuni ukutshintsha - kulula ukuhlala nge-inertia. Ngoko ke, xa ubeka phambili utshintsho "ngomso", uphakame amathuba okuze ungaze utshintshe nantoni na.
- Awukwazi ukuqala into entsha ngaphandle kokuphula umdala. Ngoko ungesabi ukwenza oku. Uloyiko lokuba kusasa kuya kuba kubi ngaphezu kwezolo? Emva koko awuyi kuphumelela. Ngako oko, konke ukwesaba kuphelile, kwaye lakho elidlulileyo aliyi kubaleka naphi na okanye - unokuhlala ubuyela kwi-shell, kwaye unethuba lokuzama into entsha engozini yokulahlekelwa ngonaphakade.
- Ukuqala ubomi obutsha, kufuneka uqonde apho ukhona ngoku, udinga indawo yokuqala. Ukuze uyifumane, yenza uluhlu lweengxaki ezifuneka zixazululwe (ukuthenga i-nail polish ayifakiwe apha, cinga ngokubanzi). Khetha imimandla emininzi ofuna ukuyisebenzisa, kwaye ubhale umphumo oyifunayo. Gwema iinkcukacha ezingadingekile, ufuna iimpawu zokukhuthaza, kungekhona isicwangciso somsebenzi.
- Ngaba ngokwenene ufuna ukuqala ngaphaya? Emva koko konke okuya kukukhunjuzwa ngexesha elidlulileyo-umfanekiso we-traitor-yangaphambili, amanqaku kwiiprojekthi ezivela kumsebenzi odlulileyo, iifestile eziye zayeka ukuguqula ngenxa "yokutya kokutya". Yintoni enokuyenza ngayo ezi zinto - zilahle okanye uzifihle-zigqibo kuwe, into ephambili kukuba awufumani amehlo akho. Kodwa ukuba uyazi ngokwabo ubuthathaka obunjengokuthatha izinto ezindala kunye nokungena kwiindawo ezinokufudumala zokuzisola, kungcono ukuliphosa ukuze ungabi nasicinga malunga nokubuyela kwixesha elidlulileyo.
- I-hairstyle entsha isinyathelo esibhekele ubomi obutsha. Ngaba ucinga ukuba ukubonakala kwangaphambili kuya kufaneleka kuwe? Ewe, oku akunjalo, kuba ingaphandle kufuneka ihambelane nokuzaliswa kwangaphakathi. Ngoko ke, tshintsha isitayela sakho seenwele, indlela yokugqoka, indlela yokudweba.
- Ukushiya elidlulileyo emva kweendlela ukungabuyeli kuyo, ukulibala malunga nokungaqiniseki, ukuzisola kunye neentloni - konke oku kwenzeke kanye ngexesha elide, kwaye mhlawumbi kungekho nawe. Kodwa amava kufuneka athathwe apho, uya kuphinda uphoso iimpazamo-akakho
Musa ukutshintsha nantoni na. - Ndivakalelwa intlungu? Jonga kwimimandla yasempumalanga - yoga kunye nokucamngca. Bafunda ukugxila kwingxaki kwaye bafumane isisombululo esihle. Akukho nto engokoqobo, eqinisweni, sinemibuzo kuyo yonke imibuzo, ngenxa yento engenamhla ngemihla kunye ne-husk yeemeko "ezibalulekileyo", asiziboni.
- Iiveki zokuqala zokusebenzisa ubomi obutsha kunzima, ungaziva unganakwa kunye nokukhathala. Kodwa zonke ziya kudlula ngokukhawuleza xa ufumana iziphumo zokuqala ezibonakalayo. Kwaye baya kuba nani kwizinga elifanelekileyo lokukhuthaza. Ngoko musa ukuyeka, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kulawula yonke into!