Ngomntu ngamnye, oku kwenzeka xa uqaphela ukuba uzele amandla kunye namandla kwaye kubonakala ukuba ulungele ukujika iintaba. Ndifuna ukuxelela wonke umntu malunga nokukhanya kwangaphakathi, kuba ulungele ukuphuma kwisifuba sakhe. Ngezihlandlo ezinjalo uvakalelwa kukuba ulungele ukuzalisekisa umnqweno wakho oyithandayo. Yiya kuye, ukhubeke, wehle, ulahlekelwe ithemba kwaye uphonsa umnqweno kwibhokisi lobomi obude. Kodwa oku akufanele kube njalo. Kuyimfuneko ngeli gunya elihle lokuya ekupheleni.
Cinga ngeziphakamiso zokuzalisekisa umnqweno kwaye uqonde lula ukusilela okukulindele kuwe endleleni eya kuthanda.
Ungayifeza njani umnqweno onqwenelayo?
Iingcamango zakho ziyakwazi ukukukhokelela ebomini bamaphupha akho, kwaye utshabalalisa yonke into kwiinkcukacha ezincinci. Konke kuxhomekeke kuwe. Akukho mfihlo yokuba iingcamango zizinto eziphathekayo. Umntu ngamnye udala ubomi ngaye, ukuba iingcamango zakhe zibambe imihla ngemihla. Ngoko, ukuze uzalisekise umnqweno, kubalulekile ukugcina imithetho efana nale:
- Qonda ngokucacileyo oko nifuna. Ukuba ufuna yonke into yangoko, le nto isicwangciso esilahlekileyo.
- Oko kukuthi, ayikho iminqweno eninzi. Ukuba unesibini isibini sinqwenela indawo nganye yobomi, ke la maphupha aya kuba lula ukuyiqonda, unokugxininisa kuzo ngokulula kunokuba kukho ezininzi.
- Umnqweno wakho kufuneka uqulunqwe ngokucacileyo, uqondwe. Ngenxa yoko, uya kuqonda ukuba ukhawuleza njani ukuzalisekisa umnqweno. Ukugxila kunye nokuzinikezela yizinto eziyimfuneko kule nto.
- Ngokomzekelo, kwiphepha lephepha, chaza ngokufutshane kwaye ngokunyanisekileyo umnqweno wakho. Ukuchaneka, kuqala kobonke. Emva koko, ukuba ufuna ukuba yingcali yeengqondo, ngoko ke kufuneka uqale ufumane izakhono ezithile.
- Isinyathelo sesibini kwaye asikho ngaphantsi kweyona nto inokubaluleka kwakho ukukumela ngokucacileyo kwixesha elizayo. Qinisa ulwazi lwakho malunga nokuzalisekisa umnqweno ngamandla okucinga kwaye udale umfanekiso obonakalayo ophumelele umgomo. Khawucinge ngento ojongene nayo ngeli xesha. Vumela ukuba unikezele kumaphupha. Njalo uzame kulo mfanekiso. Kholelwa ukuba unokukwazi ukufezekisa oku.
- Uhlolwe, ukuba yonke imihla imizuzu emithathu ukujonga ngento efunekayo, ngoko uya kufeza oku. Khawucinge nje konke lokhu ngendlela enokuvuyisa umphefumlo wakho. Emva kwakho konke, injongo ephambili yokubonakalisa kukukwenza ube nomnqweno ovuthayo wokufezekisa iinjongo zakho, iiminqweno, amaphupha axabisekileyo.
- Thatha isenzo. Musa nje ukukhawuleza ukuqonda iphupha lakho. Emva kwakho konke, ngaphandle kokubonakala, ngaphandle kokulungiswa kwimeko entsha, unokubuyela kwisinyathelo esinqunyiwe. Qala encinci. Maxesha onke amanyathelo akho ephupheni abaluleke ngakumbi. Musa ukukhawuleza ukufumana yonke into kanye.
- Masizame ukuqonda indlela amandla omntu afeze ngayo iiminqweno. Ngenxa yokungabikho kwamandla, umntu unokudandatheka, ukudandatheka. Unamandla angaphantsi onayo, kunzima kakhulu ukuba ukholelwe ekuzalisekeni komnqweno. Ukuba udla ngokugxininisa kwiingxaki zakho kunye nabanye, amandla akanakuzongezwa ebomini bakho. Yibonge yonke into. Gxotha iingcinga ezimbi. Zithokoze ngenxa yeempumelelo zakho (zama ukukhumbula okugqibela 2-3). Yeka umona, ugxeke abanye, uyeke ukukhubaza iingcamango zakho ezimbi, iimvakalelo. Ukubukela iTV, ukulahlekelwa ixesha lakho kwi-intanethi, nawe
ulahlekelwe ngamandla akho. - Ngamaphupha akho, ungasebenzisa ilitye elizalisa izifiso. Ngelo hlobo lommangaliso - ityhiba inokuthatha nayiphi na into oyithandayo. Yenza njalo nawe. Xa izinto zihamba kakuhle ebomini bakho, umbulele ngengqondo. Kholelwa ukuba kukuzisa inhlanhla kwaye ufezekisa iiminqweno.
Ngoko, ukuzalisekisa iminqweno yakho, udinga umonde, ukuzinikezela nokholo ekuphunyezweni kwayo. Ngelo xesha, musa ukulibala ukwenza okungenani amanyathelo amancinane kwindlela eya emnqweno oyithandayo.