Amadoda, akhuselwe ngumqondiso weDeva, ngabantu ngabanye kwaye bafuna abantu. Bahlala bephantsi kwinqanaba elincinci lokuvavanya abafake izicelo kwiintliziyo zabo ngeenqobo ezininzi. Kubalulekile ukuqonda indlela yokuwunqoba nokuthanda ngendoda Intombi. Ukukhwela abameli balo mqondiso, kufuneka ube mnandi, ububele kwaye uhlakaniphe.
Indlela yokuyisa intliziyo yindoda yaseVirgo?
Abameli balo mqondiso abanqweneli ukuthobela, ngoko kukulungele ukhetho lwezinto zokungabonakali. Ibhinqa akufanele ibonise ukuba unomdla kwaye kukulungele ukuziphatha ngokwemvelo kwaye ngokwemvelo. Kubalulekile ukuba uziphathe kakuhle kwaye uziphathe kakuhle. Ukuthetha ngendlela yokuyisa umntu iNtombi, awukwazi ukuphosakela umqathango obaluleke kakhulu ukuba ukhethe - amandla engqondo. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, kuyabaluleka ukufumanisa kwangaphambili ukuba yintoni into yokudumisa inomdla kwaye ufunde ezinye iinkcukacha ezivela kwizihloko ezibonisiweyo. Kubalulekile ukuphepha iingxoxo eziphakamileyo, kuba kunokwenzeka ukuba umntu akayi kuba nomdla. Kuba ummeli walo mqondiso kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba iqabane lakhe liqonde indlela ahlazileyo ngayo.
Ukufumanisa indlela yokulawula iNtombikazi, kuyimfuneko ukuba uthethe ukuba amadoda anjalo indlela yokusebenza ebomini kubomi ibaluleke kakhulu. Kuyafaneleka ukuba uqaphele ukuba abameleli balo mqondiso banamathele kakhulu kunina, ngoko ke umfazi kufuneka abonise umdla kuye kwaye akukho mfuneko ukuba athethe into embi. Kuba indoda yaseVrogo ayimkelekanga xa umntu ebenza izidingo kubo, ngoko kubalulekile ukuphepha iimeko ezinjalo. Kumele aqonde ukuba unokuthembela kukhethiweyo wakhe kwimeko apho. Ukuze unqobe umntu onjalo, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba iVirgo uyakuthanda ukunyamekela iinkcukacha ezincinci, ezenza abanye babonakale bengabalulekanga. Ngokuqwalasela, yonke imithetho echazwe ngumfazi inokunyusa kakhulu amathuba akhe wokunqoba umntu waseVrogo.