Umsebenzi ngumsebenzi obalulekileyo wobomi bethu. Ngoko ke, umntu ngamnye ufuna ukuba ngumqeshwa obalulekileyo kwaye abe nesimo sezulu esihle kwiofisi. Ukufumana ukuqonda okufanayo kunye nabalingane ngokuqhelekileyo akunzima, kodwa ubudlelwane kunye nabaphathi maxa wambi bayeke kakhulu ukufunwa. Nangona olu lwalamano lubalulekileyo kwimveliso yakho, ukukhula komsebenzi kunye nokuphumelela kweenjongo zeenkampani. Ngendlela yokuseka ubudlelwane kunye nabasemagunyeni, siya kuthetha namhlanje.
Kutheni kukho ingxaki?
Ngokuqhelekileyo ukungquzulana nomphathi kuncitshiswe kuba zikhundla ezimbini zomqeshwa: umntu uyazijonga njengezimeleyo zomphathi kwaye aphikisana nezigqibo zakhe kuphela ngaphandle kokuchasene, okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, akabonakalisi ukunganeliseki kwaye angangeni kwiingxoxo. Uhlobo lo kuqala, lube lukhuni ukulawula, kunye neengxaki zokuqonda ngokunciphisa ukunciphisa umgangatho weqela. Uhlobo lwesibini nalo aluyi kubangela intshiseko yesikhokelo esiqhubekayo, kuba abantu abanjalo abaphikisana, nangona xa umphathi efuna ukuva iingxabano. Iyintoni ingxaki? Zomibini iintlobo zabasebenzi abaziqondi ukuba umphathi ngumntu ofanayo kunye neenjongo kunye nezicwangciso, ezikwazi ukwenza iimpazamo. Ukuze umsebenzi wakho uvelise, kufuneka uqonde inkokheli kwaye usebenzise le ngcaciso ngokuchanekileyo.
Sakha ubudlelwane kunye nolawulo-apho siqala khona?
Ngoko, okokuqala, kufuneka ufunde umphathi wakho. Yimiphi imikhwa yakhe yokusebenza, uyithanda njani ukufumana ulwazi oluvela kubasebenzi, ingaba uvuma kangakanani ukunika igunya igunya, indlela enokuzigcina enobungqina ngayo? Yintoni afuna ukuyifumana, ziziphi iinjongo zakhe eziphambili? Uhlobo luni lomsebenzi wakhe? Hayi, kodwa ithuba lokufumana umphathi ovela kwintlanganiso yokuqala uya kubeka kuwe yonke ingcaciso engentla ngenjongo yokuzama ukuzama. Unokukufumanisa oku ngokusebenzisa ukujonga okuzimeleyo, ulwazi oluqinisekisiweyo kubalingane okanye ngeengxoxo ezingaqhelekanga kunye nomphathi. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka uqonde inkokeli yakho kwaye ulungele kuye - kholwa kum, uya kwenza oku kulula ngakumbi kunokuzama ukutshintsha abaphathi.
Makhe unike umzekelo: emva kokuqwalaselwa okufutshane, unokufumana ukuba uluphi umphathi wakho: "umphulaphuli" okanye "umfundi". Owokuqala uya kukhetha ukufumana ulwazi ngezwi kwaye ngokukhawuleza ukuxhomekeke kwingxoxo, kwaye okwesibini kuya kubhalwa iingxelo ezicacileyo, eziza kukwazi ukufunda ngokucophelela, ukufunda kwakhona amaxesha amaninzi. Lo mbuzo unokuba ucele ngqo umphathi, okanye ujonge indlela asabela ngayo kwenye indlela okanye enye indlela yokufumana idatha.
Kodwa yintoni emele ikhutshwe?
Umkhokeli onobuqili uya kukhetha ukunyaniseka nokuchaneka, kunokuba athobise kwaye ahlasele. Ungazami ukunyamekela umphathi wakho, hlonipha kwaye uchaze kwizitatimenti zakho. Ungayihoyi inkokheli, nayo, ayifanelekanga, ukuba uyayibaluleka indawo yakho. Kwiingxoxo kunye nenkokeli, unamathele kwiinyaniso, iingxabano zakho kufuneka zomelele ngokwaneleyo ukuba zamkelwe njengomqeshwa othembisayo kwaye zafakwa kwisangqa sithemba. Indawo yokubamba igunya akufanele ihoywa, kodwa akukho mfuneko yokukhulula ubudlelwane ngaphaya kwemida, ngaphandle koko uya kutshabalalisa ubudlelwane kunye nalo lonke iqela.
Yaye yintoni elandelayo?
Kuphakamileyo akukho mqathango ongaphezu komsebenzi ongathembekiyo. Ukuthembela komphathi kunzima ukukhuseleka, kulula ukulahlekelwa, kwaye akunakwenzeka ukubuyisela. Kuzo zonke izenzo zakho, gcinani engqondweni ukuba akuxhomekekanga kuphela kukukhokelo, kodwa kuvela kuwe. Ubumnene boshishino ekujonganeni nomphathi kunye nokuqonda iminqweno yakhe yindlela yokusebenza ngokubambisana, engenakukuchaphazela ukunyuka kwakho kwinqanaba lomsebenzi. Yaye kunye nenkxaso yobudlelwane obuhle, kuya kuba lula kuwe ukulungisa imiba yeeholide, ixesha lokuhamba, uhambo lwezoshishino, iibhonasi kunye nokwanda kwemvuzo kunye nomphathi wakho.