Ngoku umfazi othembekileyo, umfazi ophumelelayo, akasamangalisi mntu, uya kumangaliswa xa efunda ukuba umyeni wakhe uhleli ekhaya kunye nomsebenzi wendlu, kwaye konke ukhuseleko.
Emzabalazweni wokulingana, abafazi baye bazuza ukuba banokutshintsha indima kunye namadoda. Ngokwezinga elithile, oku kulungile, wonke umntu wenza oko akuthandayo, kuba kukho inkqubela emininzi phakathi kwabasetyhini, kwaye amadoda athile afisa ukubhaka ii-pie kunye neentsimbi ze-iron.
Kodwa yonke into ineemida ezinengqiqo, kule meko iphela apho, apho ukuzithandela kwinto eyenzekayo. Enyanisweni, ngaphandle kwimeko efanelekileyo echazwe ngasentla, ungabona omnye - umama omncinci oqhekekileyo phakathi komsebenzi nemisebenzi yasendlini, kunye nomyeni wakhe ngexesha elifanayo ukhangele ngamehlo kwiTV kwaye akayi kuzama ngokunceda into ethile. Okanye intsapho yonke ihlala kwintlawulo yomntwana ngenxa yokuba umfazi uhleli kwisimiselo, kwaye umyeni akanakufumana umsebenzi ukunambitha.
Masiqonde ukuba kutheni ukuba amanye amadoda ayenqwenela ukuthatha indima yomntu onesondlo, kunye nendlela onokufumana ngayo umyeni wakho ukuba asebenze.
Sifanele siqale ngombuzo othi: "Ngaba bekuhlala kunjalo?". Oko kukuthi, utshatile umntu ophumelelayo ongeyiyo umsebenzi kwaye uzimisele ukusebenzela inzuzo yentsapho okanye akazange abonise imisebenzi ekhethekileyo ukususela ekuqaleni ukuqinisekisa ukuba uphuhliso lwakho lwezezimali. Izizathu zezi zinto zinokuhluka.
Ukuba umyeni wagqiba ukutshintsha imisebenzi, uthatha umhlalaphantsi kumdala, kodwa akangxamanga ukukhangela entsha, kunokuthi kube kwingxaki yeengqondo, ukuxineka okanye ukuxinezeleka. Wonke umntu ebomini unamaxesha apho ebuthathaka kakhulu. Ukuzibetha ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngaphandle kwengxaki kunokwenzeka kuphela ngoxhaswa ngabantu abasondeleyo, kodwa abafazi bethu kwiimeko ezinjalo bathanda ukubona amadoda abo, nje kuphela ukunyusa imeko.
Kungenzeka nokuba wena ngokwakho ubeka umyeni wakho entanyeni yakhe, umbonise amandla akhe okuziphatha, angenakukwazi ukumelana nayo. Ibhinqa elizimeleyo elinokuzibonela lona, alisoloko lidala umnqweno wokumnceda into ethile. Uthabathe indima yendoda, unokuyibuyisela kumyeni wakho kuphela ngokuzibuyisela njengomfazi. Yiba mncinane, ulula, ube ngumfazi, kwaye kungenzeka ukuba isiqingatha sakho sesibini sifuna ukuzivakalelwa njengomntu.
Kwaye ukuba umntu akafuneki umsebenzi ophumelelayo kulo lonke omaziyo, ngoko akukho mfuneko yokulindela utshintsho olubi kwiindawo zakhe, mhlawumbi, luhlobo oluzinzile lomlingiswa.
Indlela yokwenza umyeni wakhe athole umsebenzi?
Kwimeko nayiphi na into, ukuba umfazi ufuna indoda yakhe ibe ngumnikeli, uya kufuna umlinganiselo omkhulu wemonde. Emva koko, isiqingatha sesibini naluphi na umcimbi asinakunqandwa, kwaye akukho nto iyakunceda.
Kufuneka ukuba wenze ngokuzenzeleyo kwaye unobtrusively ukuba emva kwesigqibo le ndoda yayinesiqiniseko sokuthi yamkela yona. Kulo khosi kunokuhamba ukububula buhlungu phambi kwezinto zokugcina impahla, amabali anomsebenzi wakho kulindeleke ukuba unciphise, ukhohliwe kwindawo evelele yamaphephandaba kunye nentengiso okanye ukuthetha ngezithuba ezithakazelisayo. Yonke into ifanele ibe mhle kwaye ibe nemfesane.
Zama ukufumanisa kumyeni wakhe ukuba umsebenzi wakhe wephupha kufanele ube yintoni. Emva koko uzame ukufumana into efanayo. Umzekelo, ukuba uchitha ixesha elide edlala imidlalo yekhomputha, mxelele ukuba ungayifumana kwiingxelo. Mhlawumbi umyeni wakho akasebenzi ngenxa yokuba engazi apho angalathisa khona ubuchule bakhe? Ngoko ncedise ukuba azibonele ngokwakhe, angenise ingcamango efanelekileyo. Into ephambili - kholelwa kwindoda yakho, ngoko uya kuthi ekugqibeleni uyakholelwa kwaye uya kukwazi ukufezekisa kakhulu.
Indlela yokwenza umyeni athole ngaphezulu?
Ukuba lakho iqabane lisebenza ngokufanelekileyo, kodwa lifumana ipenki yomsebenzi wayo kwaye alifuni ukuguqula, mhlawumbi likhululekile ngokupheleleyo nalo. Kule meko, kwakhona, ubuqili kuphela kuya kunceda.
Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba akufanele utyhoxe umyeni wakho kwinto ephikisana nemigaqo yakhe. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba unesikhalazo malunga nokuntuleka kwemali kumgqirha wasekuhlaleni kwaye umkhombe ukuba aqale ukuthengisa uluhlu lwabagulayo, awukwazi ukufikelela ukuqonda, kwaye
Kuya kuba nzima ukuba indoda yakho imthanda ngokwenene umsebenzi wayo. Kodwa ukuba akayithandi yimeko yakhe, ke kukho enye inketho, indlela yokufumana umyeni wakho ukuba azuze ngakumbi - ukukholisa ukuba utshintshe umsebenzi. Khetha ezinye iindlela ezikhethekileyo uze uxoxe naye. Inokwenzeka ukuba, uya kuyamkela uncedo olunjalo.