Abantu abaninzi baye bafumana ubudlelwane kunye nexesha lokupholisa, xa iimvakalelo ziphela. Uninzi lwezibini azikwazi ukuthwala ngeli xesha kwaye ushiye, kuba iqabane liqala ukutshintsha. Abasetyhini abaxabisa umtshato wabo kwaye bafuna ukuyigcina banomdla kwindlela yokutsala ingqalelo kwendoda ukuba sele ikhulile. Zininzi iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokujongana nale ngxaki.
Ungayithabatha njani ingqalelo yomyeni wakhe?
Ngaphambi kokuba uhlalutye isicwangciso senzathelo, kufuneka ufumane ukuba uyinyani, ubuhlobo buye butshintshile okanye luyinto engummangaliso wesifazane. Musa ukwenza i-scandals, yenza nayiphi na imfuno kwaye ufake iimpawu zokugqibela, njengoko oku kuya kunzima kakhulu imeko. Amantombazana amaninzi enza iphutha elikhulu xa bechitha onke amandla abo namandla kumyeni, kwaye ukugqithiswa okunjalo kunokujongana nokunyaniseka. Isisombululo kuphela seyona nto ukuguqula wena.
Iingcebiso malunga nokwenza ntoni ukuba indoda ingakukhathaleli:
- Yiya kwisibuko, zijonge uze uqhathanise oko ubonayo nentombazana, owathi wathandana nomntu osondeleyo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ulwahluko luphawulekayo: ukugqithisa ngokweqile , i-styles, kunye nokunye, njl njl Ixesha lokuba kuphinde libuyele, ngoko uye ukuya kwindawo yokuzivocavoca, ubuhle be-salon kunye nokuthenga.
- Indoda kufuneka iqonde ukuba ibhinqa lakhe liyathandwa namanye amalungu enesini esomeleleyo. Ukuba kukho uvakalelo, ngoko iqabane liza kuba nomona. Kubalulekile ukuba ungadluli kulo mbandela.
- Mhlawumbi lixesha lokuphumla komnye nomnye ukuze uthuthuke. Unokuhamba ngokwahlukileyo kwiholide okanye uhambele abazali bakho.
- Ukuba umntu wayeka ukunikela ingqalelo , ngoko kufuneka umkhange ngento entsha. Umzekelo, ungathenga iimpahla zangaphantsi ezinobushushu okanye isambatho esicacileyo kwaye uyigqoke ekhaya. Iinyawo ezihlambulukileyo, i-decollete enzulu, ngokuqinisekileyo iya kutsala ingqalelo yomlingane.
- Kwezinye iimeko, ukususwa kunceda, okokuthi, umfazi makangenakufikeleleka, ukuze loo mntu afune ukuqonda isizathu eso kwaye waqala ukwenza imizamo yokuseka ubudlelwane.