Iminyaka engama-45 yobomi emtshatweni womthetho - lo mhla umtshato wesafire, ngokuqinisekileyo ufanele ubizwa ngokuba yinto yamatye ahloniphekileyo kunye amnandi. Ukususela kwixesha elidlulileyo, lifanekisela ubulumko , ukukwazi ukukhuseleka ngokomzwelo, ukucinga ngokucacileyo nokwenza izigqibo ezifanelekileyo.
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba iminyaka emihlanu ngaphambili, kubhiyozelwa umkhosi we-ruby. Kukholelwa ukuba ngeli thuba ubudlelwane phakathi kwabatshatileyo obomvu, abanomdla, bakhula baba luhlaza, umbala wokuzola. Olu tshintsho lubonisa ukuba uthando lwabo alukho nto yokutshabalalisa.
Isimo somtshato wesafire
Esi siganeko sigubha ngokubanzi, ngoko ke mema wonke umntu onamaqhawe afuna ukwabelana naye ngovuyo. Ewe, ininzi imeko ixutyushwa ngabantwana kunye nabazukulu beli sibini kwaye kulo mcimbi bavuma kuphela ukuvuyiswa ngabahlobo kunye nezihlobo. Kunconywa ukuba ihambelane nombala okomvu kumhlobiso wokubhiyozela. Yenza okukhethekileyo kwimimbo eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka neyayibhakabhaka, kungekhona nje ekuhlobiseni iholo yokutya, kodwa nakwiingubo.
Ukuba unqwenela, izithethe ezilandelayo zingabandakanywa kwimibhiyozo yomtshato wesafire:
- ngexesha lokudla isidlo, abafazi batshintshela izindandatho ngeesafire, ezibonakalisa ukuba umtshato wabo wawubusiswa ngamazulu;
- Kucatshangelwa ukuba lo mhla kukuqala kwexesha elitsha ebomini babathandani, ngoko ke ngolunye usuku ngaphambi komhla wokubakho mfuneko ukuba uzihlambulule ngokutyelela ibhedi, okanye ukhetha ukutya kwonyango.
Jabulela iindwendwe zakho ngokubanika iintyatyambo ezibhakabhaka ngexesha lokubhiyozela. Kwaye "abahlobo bodumo" bazama ukugcoba emkhatsini womtshato omnandi, ukunikela ngokuthatha inxaxheba kwi "Ubusela bomlobokazi", "Umdaniso wokuqala".
Yintoni ewanikwa ngomtshato wesafire?
Zininzi iinkolelo zidibene nomtshato wesafire. Ngoko, xa ukhetha
Izipho ezikhethekileyo zomtshato wesafire ukusuka kubazukulu, abantwana baya kuba yipowusta ekhishwe ngabo ngeenqweno zeentlokoma. Uhlobo oluthile lweemveliso kunye nesafire alufakiwe. Ukongeza, isafire iyancipha, iindawo zokuphilisa. Kungaba njalo, njengezinto zokugqoka, iintambo eziphambili, kunye neekhokethi, izikhumbuzo, iimifanekiso. Phakamisa isi sibini kunye neentyantyambo zeentyatyambo (i-lilacs, i-cornflowers), ibhokhwe ye-hyacinth, i- orchids .
Gquba izipho kwiphepha eliluhlaza.