Umtshato, njengokuba uyazi, uhlala ujabule kwaye uhle: ingubo emhlophe yomtshakazi, umyeni ovuyayo, i-champagne, i-toasts enobubele, imidaniso yothando. Nangona kunjalo, umbutho wesiganeko somtshato kwiintsuku zethu "uqhuma" kwi penny efanelekileyo. Ngaloo ndlela, umtshakazi nomkhwenkwezi banokuzikhethela: ukulungiselela umtshato ngokuphathelele yonke imithetho yohlobo, okanye ukucinga malunga nendlela yokulungisa umtshato ongeyindleko, kunye nokugcina imali yento entsha kwintsapho entsha.
Kodwa, njengokuba kukho ukubonisa, inketho yesithathu yona nto iyona nto ingcono - umtshato onobungqingili, xa imali ihambelana, kwaye zonke izithethe zomtshato ziyabonwa. Kukho ukhetho oluninzi lokwenza umtshato onjalo, uhlala kuphela ukukhetha ukuba ngubani olungeleyo kuwe.
Ngoko, ungasindisa njani umtshato?
- Ukuqonda ukuba abantu baninzi - oku akusoloko kuthetha ukuzonwabisa. Musa ukumema ummelwane wakho u-Valya no-Aunt Lyusya, owelela ngawo kanye ngenyanga ngenyanga, kuphela ukuze ungabacaphukisi. Kwakhona, akukho mfuneko yokuthumela isimemo kumzala wakho wesibini, owaziyo kuphela kwiifoto. Umtshato ngowokuqala, iholide yentsapho, ngoko kuyafaneleka ngakumbi ukumema izihlobo kunye nabahlobo abasondeleyo kuye.
- Ulibale umgaqo: "ukuba kwakungekho kubi kunabantu." Ngokufanayo awuyi kukukholisa, kwaye inyaniso yokuba uchithe imali yokugqibela yokuthenga ukutshata komtshato akunakwenzeka ukuba uyayixabisa. Umgaqo oyintloko wendlela yokubhiyozela umtshato ungabizi - kwindawo yokuqala, gxininisa wena, kungekhona kwabanye. Cinga ngento yokuba uhambo oluthandana nomyeni, olufunyanwa ngemali elondoloziweyo, luya kukuvuyisa ngakumbi uvuyo lwabahlobo kunye nemenyu yakho.
- Ngendlela, malunga nemenyu. Iingcebiso ezisemgangathweni zalabo ababazi kumava abo ukuba bawubambe njani umtshato ongezantsi ngolu hlobo lulandelayo: "Itafile yomtshato kufuneka ibonakale ikhangelekile kwaye ihlukeneyo, kodwa oku akukho konke okufunekayo ukulungiselela izitya ezili-150 ezahlukahlukeneyo ukuze ukwanelise ukhetho lwezitho zesisu ngamnye.
- Ukukhethwa kwendawo yokutyela yenye ngongoma obalulekileyo kwisicatshulwa esilandelayo sabasandul 'ukutshata ababizwa ngokuthi "Indlela yokwenza umtshato ungabizi". Ukuba ufuna ukugcina imali, qwa lasela iindawo ezisandul 'ukuvula, ezingakhange zikwazi "ukutyelela" iindwendwe kwaye zibeke amanani aphezulu. Kwakhona, cela ubuphathi ukuba awuxhomeki nakuphi na izaphulelo kunye neebhonasi.
- Umphathi wesigqeba emtshatweni uyadingeka, kodwa kungekho konke okuyimfuneko, ngaphandle kwayo, iinkonzo zakhe azincinci. Ngamanye amaxesha omnye wabahlobo bakho, onolwimi oluxilwe kakuhle kunye nokukwazi ukuzonwabisa kwesi sixuku, unokukwazi ukujamelana nendima yakhe. Into efunekayo ukuba ungayikhohlwa malunga nale meko yimeko encinane. Khetha kwiimidlalo ezithandwayo zomtshato kunye nemincintiswano, ukubeka iimali zentlanzi kwaye-qhubeka phambili!
Indlela yokwenza umtshato wezoqoqosho kwaye ngexesha elifanayo ukuba ungalahlekelwa ...
Okanye, ngamanye amazwi, kwintoni na nangona yonke umnqweno wokugcina akufanelekanga:
- Kwi-photographer. Ukuba unomhlobo okanye umhlobo othanda ukuthwebula izithombe - kakuhle, ngoncedo lwakhe uya kusindisa imali efanelekileyo. Kodwa ulungele ukuba umgangatho weefoto ezifunyenweyo unokuba lukhulu kakhulu, okanye ngaphezulu - iifoto zingasebenzi nhlobo.
- Kuhambo lomtshato. Xa ubala indlela yokwenza umtshato ongezantsi, ungawudluli kwaye unqande ubuninzi bawo, amaxesha amnandi. Emva komtshato, cwangcisa ubuncinane uhambo oluthile oluthile lokuvakasha ezimbini. Akufuneki ukuba kube luhambo ukuya eMaldives okanye eParis, nangona iveki elula kakhulu kwilizwe lebhodi lebhodi,
apho unokuyonwabela yonke into evuyisayo yenkwenkwezi. - Kwi-"whims" encinci. Ukuba uphupha ukuhamba ukusuka ebuntwaneni kwinqwelo ekhwelwe yi-troika yamahashe amhlophe, okanye kwi-chic limousine - uzalisekise iphupha lakho, kuba yena kunye nomtshato. Kuloo nto ungayigcina khona, ekuthengeni izimbali zomtshato kunye nezinye izinto zokubhabisa, ezimi kakuhle. Iintyatyambo zexesha aziyi kubukeka zibi ngaphezu kweeresi zasemhlabeni, iinduli kunye ne-mimosas, kwaye iya kuhlawula ixabiso elincinci.
Kodwa ngokubalulekileyo kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba umtshato ngowokuqala, iholide yakho, ngoko yenza kube ngumcimbi ongalibalekiyo kuwe.