I-crumb idla ngokuqhayisa amahlaziyi ngaphezu kwezinto ezinqabileyo, inxamnye nokuthanda kwabazali bakhe kwaye iqala ukubonisa ukulimala nokunyaniseka ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Nangona kubonakala kuninzi lwabafazi kunye nabantwana abazenzayo ngenjongo, ngokwenene, umntu kufuneka aqonde ukuba kunzima kuye ngeli xesha kwaye, ngenxa yoko, ukuphatha ukuziphatha okutshintshayo ngokunyamezela kunokwenzeka.
Kule nqaku, sinika iingcebiso kunye neziphakamiso eziza kunceda abazali basinde kwiinkathazo zeminyaka emithathu baze bafunde indlela yokujongana nomntwana onzima.
Iingcebiso kubazali kwixesha elibuhlungu leminyaka emithathu
Ukulwa neengxaki iminyaka engama-2-3, abazali abatsha baya kunceda izi ngcebiso ezilandelayo:
- Musa ukuthintelwa ukuba ungabonakali ukuzithemba. Okwangoku, oku akuthethi ukuba ufuna ukuvumela yonke into - ukuba umntwana usengozini, qiniseka ukuba uchazela oku kuye kwaye uncede enze into ayifunayo.
- Zama ukuhlala uxolo kuzo zonke iimeko. Khumbula ukuba ukrakra, ukumemeza kunye nokufunga kungahle kwandisa imeko.
- Nika umntwana ilungelo lokukhetha. Njalo ubuze ntoni ngeesitya ezimbini ofuna ukuzitya, kwaye luhlobo luni lokugqoka.
- Ngethuba lokuxhaswa, ungazami ukuphazamisa umntwana ngamagama.
Lindela ade ahlalise, kwaye emva koko, uthetha naye, uhlalutye imeko evelele. - Ukunamathela ngokukhawuleza kwiimimiselo ezibekwe.
- Soloko uthetha nomntwana wakho ngeenyawo ezilinganayo, ungamthobeli.
- Okokugqibela, ungakulibali ukuba into eyintloko kukuba umthande umntwana, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni.
Siyathemba ukuba iingcebiso zethu ziyakunceda ukuba usinde kwiinkathazo zeminyaka emithathu kumntwana kwaye wenze ubomi bakho bube mnandi ngakumbi.