Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba alele?

Ukulala noMama kwisikhumba sakhe - kuluhlobo olunjalo aluyi kunqaba nayiphi na umntwana. Enyanisweni, kwiinyanga zokuqala, ukulala ngokubambisana kuququzelela inkqubo yokulungisa umntwana kwiimeko ezintsha zobomi, kwaye uMama unike ithuba lokuba okungenani uphumle. Kodwa ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva kufuneka ufundise umntwana ukuba alale ngokwahlukileyo, indlela yokwenza ngokufanelekileyo kwaye ngaphandle kokuhlambalaza, makhe sizame ukuyijonga.

Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba alale ubusuku bonke kwisikhumba sakhe?

Iintsana nganye zifuna ukusondelana kwabazali, oku kusebenza kubantwana kunye nabantwana abadala. Ngoko ke, ukuba umntwana ujwayele ukulala embhedeni nomama wakhe elele embhedeni, akuyi kuba lula ukumfundisa indlela yokulala ngokwahlukileyo. Nazi ezinye iingcebiso ezilula zokunceda abazali bajamelane nalo msebenzi ongenakwenzeka:

1. Kuya kuba ngcono ukuba umama nootata baqale bazibuze indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba alale ubusuku xa ejika ezinyangeni eziyi-6-8 ubudala. Kule minyaka, inani lokutya lokuhlwa ebusuku liyancipha, kwaye i-crumb isele ikwazi ukujika kwaye ithathe isikhundla esifanelekile kuye.
2. Ukukhawuleza ukuba ufundise umntwana ukuba alale ubusuku bonke kwisibhedlele sakhe, ukulala kufuneka kuhambisane imihla ngemihla ngesithethe esithile, umzekelo, kuqala ukutya, ukuhlamba, ukuhlambalaza, iindaba zobomi bobusuku. Ngaloo ndlela, umntwana uya kuba lula ukutshatyalalisa umswakama oyifunayo kwaye ugweme iingxaki ngokulala.
3. Abantwana abakhulileyo bangakha ubudlelwane obuhle kunye nobuthongo obuhlukeneyo. Umzekelo, isikhalazo esitsha esithengiweyo-siya kukunceda uzive njengomntu omdala kunye ozimeleyo, udidi oluhle kwigumbi labantwana, olunikezelwa usuku lokuzalwa, luyakunceda ukujamelana noyiko lobumnyama kunye nobumninzi.
4. Kwakhona, kunye nomntwana osemfundela, unokuzama ukuyenza "ukutshintsha umama" ngesitokisi esithambileyo.

Nangona zininzi izibonelelo zokulala, abazali abaninzi banqwenela ukufundisa umntwana ukuba alele embhedeni owodwa ukusuka ekuzalweni. Ngoko ke, iingcebiso ezimbalwa malunga nendlela yokufundisa umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa ukuba alale ebusuku:

1. Okokuqala kufuneka ubeke i-crumb yakho kwisibhedlele ngexesha lokulala kwemini.
2. Ngaphambi kokulala ubusuku ungamhlabelela isisu, xela ibali uze ulibeke kwisibhedlele.
3. Njengomthetho, ukuze ufundise umntwana ukuba alale ubusuku kwaye angabi ngongenangqondo kwisikhumba sakhe, umama kufuneka abe nesigulane kwaye angahambi kumntwana wakhe wokuqala. Okokuthi, ukuba umntwana waqala ukucwina, kufuneka ubeke ikhefu, uze uze uzame ukuzolisa ngamazwi kunye nochukumisayo.