Ubuhle kusekho amandla, kodwa nangona indalo ikunike isipho esingenasiphelo, simele simthande, simthande kwaye simthande. Ubuhle bemvelo intombazana inomdla wokubuna ngaphezu kwexesha, kodwa kuphela xa umntu ethembele kuphela "ngokufanelekileyo". Ngamnye wethu kufuneka aqonde imithetho ethile eya kunceda ukugcina umdla kunye nekhontrakthi.
Iimfihlelo eziphambili zobuhle zamantombazana ziyaziwa ixesha elide. Oku kukutya okufanelekileyo, kunye nokulala okufanelekileyo, kunye nomsebenzi wokwenyama. Abanye bayiqwalasela ntoni, bavavanya indlela esibukeka ngayo? Okokuqala, ebusweni. Ukuba iimpawu zayo zinikezelwe, ngoko imeko yesikhumba ibonakalisa ukunyamekelwa kwayo. Indawo yesibini ngumfanekiso, oxhomekeke kwinto esiyidlayo kunye nendlela esiphatha ngayo imisebenzi yomzimba. Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, iinwele. Intloko yezinwele ezilungele kakuhle, ezenza ukukhanya okunempilo - kukuhle kakhulu!
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Imithetho elula
Naliphi imigaqo yobuhle yabamantombazana abasinika iigrasses eziphathekayo, i-Intanethi kunye nomabonwakude, impumelelo ingafumaneka kuphela xa zigcinwa imihla ngemihla. Ukunyamekela ulusu , izipikili, umzimba, iinwele kufuneka zibe rhoqo. Kodwa akukho ndlela yokucoca izoncedisa ukugcina ubuhle, ukuba kukho iingxaki zempilo, ngoko akunakwenzeka ukunyamekela ukuhanjelwa kwintlobo yesifo somzimba, ugqirha wamazinyo kunye neengcali.
Iingcebiso zezobugcisa zamantombazana ezivela kubaqulunqi kunye nabathengi bafanelwe ukunakwa. Ngoncedo lweempahla ezikhethiweyo nezixhobo ezifanelekileyo, ukwakheka ngempumelelo, unokugxila kwiimpawu zobungakanani kunye nokubonakala kwazo, kwaye ugxininise kwiintsilelo ezingabonakaliyo, ubenze zingabonakali.
Njengoko uyazi, ukuvavanya ukubonakala kwenzeka ngexesha lemizuzwana embalwa yokuqala, kwaye abantu abajikelezayo baqala ukufundisisa umlingiswa, ukubonakalisa ubuso, ukuziphatha. Intombazana enomthwalo obunzima, iguqa, ikhwepha ingalo, ayiyi kuba yinto ebalulekileyo, nangona umlinganiso wakhe uphelele kwaye iimpawu zakhe zichanekile. Ubundlobongela, ubunqunu, ububele, ububele - lo buhle bobuhle. Ngokungafani nobuhle bomzimba, ubuhle bokomoya abuhlali ngexesha, kodwa luhlaza!
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