Xa ubuhlobo bubophelelwe kuphela, ndifuna ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye nomthandi wam okanye ubuncinco ukuthetha naye kwifowuni. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abazenzi bazive ixesha elide, okwenza bazixhalabele kwaye bahlupheke kwiingcamango ezahlukeneyo. Kule meko, ungasebenzisa iqhinga lokufumana umntu othukile kwaye abize. Kubalulekile ukuphatha imicimbi ngokungathandabuzekiyo kwaye ungabonisi nabani malunga nokusebenzisa umlingo. Ukongezelela, iincwadana zifanelekile xa kukho iimvakalelo ezinyanisekileyo, ngaphandle kweenjongo ezimbi.
Iqhinga lokuba nomntu othandekayo ubize emva kwentlanganiso yokuqala
Ixesha emva komhlangano wokuqala phambi kwebell yokuqala ngezinye iinkhathi kubonakala ngathi unaphakade, kodwa ngoncedo lomlingo unganciphisa ixesha lokulinda. Ukwenza isithethe, kufuneka ube nenjongo apho umthandayo wayekhathazekile. Ukuba oku akunjalo, bhala nje ubhale kwiphepha lakhe inombolo yocingo. Thatha kwizandla zakho uze uqale ukumela kwiingcinga zakho umfanekiso womntu kunye nomhla wakho, kubalulekile ukuvelisa yonke into kwiinkcukacha ezincinci. Emva koko, funda le ngqungquthela izihlandlo ezithoba:
"Ndiyintanda (igama), kutheni ungathuli, ungabizi, ungabhali, ungathethi kum? Ifowuni ngokukhawuleza uze uthathe inombolo yam! Yeka indlela ilizwi lam kwiphubhu eliya kuphendula ngayo, umphefumlo uya kuhamba ngovuyo! "
Kubalulekile ukuba ungayifaki isicatshulwa kumatshini, kodwa kulungele ukutshala imali kuwo onke amagama. Akunangqiqo ukucinga indlela indoda ithatha ngayo ifowuni kunye neefowuni.
Iqhinga eliqingqiweyo lokufotela, ukwenzela ukuba umlingani abe
Ngokwesiko, kufuneka uthathe isithombe esitsha sonyulwe, okulula ukufumana kwiintanethi zentlalo. Kwakhona ulungise iphepha, apho kufuneka ubhale inombolo yakho yefowuni. Beka iphepheni kwiphepha ukwenzela ukuba inani lijongene ngqo nentloko yekhethiweyo. Ngethuba lemihla ngemihla, umfanekiso wesakhethi kufuneka ubonakaliswe ukuze kuqiniswe umphumo wayo. Kufuneka ukuba wenze konke njengoko kuchazwe ngasentla, kwaye ke, ukuba ufunde isalathiso, loo ndoda yabiza, kwaye isandi:
"I-falcon yam icacile, yam ilinde ixesha elide, yam entle!
Njengoko kulungile ukuba sikhumbule, ntliziyo yam, vula umphefumlo wakho.
Khawukhumbule inombolo yam ngokukhawuleza, ukhethe usuku ngokukhawuleza! "
Ifoto kunye nephepheni kufuneka ishiywe kule ndawo ubusuku bonke. Ngentsasa, ishidi elinomnxeba kufuneka lishiswe, kwaye umlotha uphahlakele emoyeni.
Iqhinga eliqinileyo, ukuba intanda ethandwayo ngoku idibene
Ukuba kukho ukungquzulana kwaye umthandi akafuni ukuya kuqala ekuxolelaneni, kufuneka isetyenziswe. Le nkonzo inamandla kakhulu, ngoko kufuneka isetyenziswe kuphela kwiimeko ezimbi kakhulu. Okokuqala, hlukanisa inani lamadijithi kwinombolo yakho yefowuni kwiindawo ezimbini. Ukuba awukwazi ukwenza oku ngaphandle kwentsalela, vumela enye inxalenye ibe ngaphezulu komfanekiso omnye. Ephantse kwindlu apho umthandi ohlala khona kubalulekile ukuqokelela amatye ngobungakanani bemali enkulu. Inani labo kufuneka lilingane nenani leenombolo. Enye inxalenye yamatye kufuneka idityaniswe kufuphi nendlu yakho. Amatye akufanele adibaniswe. Okokuqala bafanele bahlambuluke baze batshwe. Emva koko, wabeka amatye phambi kwakho ukusuka kwesobunxele kuya kwesokudla, ukutshintsha ilitye elisenkundleni yakho kunye nasentendelezo yekhethiweyo. Isinyathelo esilandelayo kukubeka inombolo yefowuni kumatye usebenzisa ummakishi. Kubalulekile ukulungiselela isikhwama esenziwe ngendwangu yemvelo yombala omnyama. Ngethuba lokuqala lokukhanya kwelanga, ikhandlela ezili-12, zibeke amatye kwisikhwama, uphinde uphinde wenze isalathiso, ukuze udade abhale:
"Amagqabhoko ngamacwecwe. Isalathisi kwisikhonda.
Ukususela kumanani amanani. Kusuka kwinombolo yefowuni.
Ukusuka kwifowuni, ilizwi.
Amaqhosha tuk-tuk.Nommer avele
Kwabonakala ilizwi. Dumas yakhe
Ngentliziyo yam Yintanda
Thatha ifowuni! Amen ยป
Ukubopha isikhokhelo ngokuqinileyo ngomtya kwiinki ezintathu. Ukuqhawula nganye iqhosha, kufuneka uphinda isalathisi . Gcina isikhombisi kufuphi nawe njengemascot.
Iqhinga lokubiza intanda yakho kwinyanga ekhulayo
Kungcono ukuqhuba isithethe ngoLwesihlanu ngaphambi kokulala emva kobusuku. Thatha umfanekiso wekhethiweyo kwaye unamathele kwifowuni, ubophe konke kunye nebhebhoni yombala obomvu. Ukuba akukho sithombe, ke ukugqoka ifowuni, kufuneka umele umfanekiso wesithandwa sakho. Emva koko phezu kwefowuni, funda icebo elinjalo:
"Ebusuku intombazana ebomvu yaphuma kwaye umoya wabiza abancedisi bakhe: Oo, wena, umoya, undikhonze kakuhle, velisa iingcinga zam kwaye ulale kumntanda wam. Uya kundibona njengentombazana ephupheni, intanda yam iya kuba nexhala, ibuhlungu. Ilizwi lam liyimfuneko kuye njengamanzi kwaye liza kufuna ngamandla ukumva. Kwaye wena, umoya, uhlebezela endlebeni ukuba ufuna ukubiza intombazana, faka umfanekiso wam phantsi kwe-eyelashes uze uyifake kwimemori yakho, kodwa ngokukhawuleza xa uvuka, awuyi kuphinda ucinge, kodwa ndiya kubizwa, njengokhenkethi kwaye nje ngombono wensika. "