Ukuhlwayelwa kwamagilebhisi kwisiqwenga sabo, ngamnye umyezo wegadi usalindele ixesha apho kuya kubakho ukunqumla iimbumba zokuqala ezivuthiweyo. Kodwa bangaphi na baya kufuneka balinde? Akukho mgaqo omnye xa uqala ukuvelisa izithelo emva kokutyala. Oku kuxhomekeke kakhulu ekunyamekelweni, ekutyala nokutshala ixesha.
Iidiliya ziqala nini ukuzala izithelo?
Ngesilinganiso esithile sokuchaneka, umntu unokuphendula umbuzo wonyaka onjani ukuba iidiliya ezityalwe kwiinjongo zoshishino ziqala ukuvelisa iziqhamo. Iidiliya zokuqala ezivela kuloo mahlathi ziqokelelwa emva kweminyaka emine emva kokutyala. Ixesha elide elinjalo lifunekayo, kuba isiqithi senziwa ngokuthe ngcembe ngokusika kwinani elincinci lehlumela. Le ndlela ivumela isityalo ukuba somelele kwaye sithole amandla kwaye ngexesha elifanayo akudingi ixesha elininzi lokunyamekela nokunisela.
Abavini bemivini, abakhulisa amagilebhisi ngokwabo, banako ukukwazi ukunyamekela amahlathi kunye nokunika ixesha kwiintlobo zabo ezizithandayo, yingako kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba baqale ukuvelisa iidiliya. Ngokulinywa okuchanekileyo kunye nokunyamekela okufanelekileyo, iqela lokuqala lingasuswa kwintlambo kwiminyaka emibini, kwaye okwesithathu ukufezekisa iziqhamo eziqhelekileyo.
Ukufumanisa xa isiqhamo sithela ukuvelisa izithelo emva kokutshala kunye nokusika, kuyimfuneko ukuba ungaphuthelwa ngexesha lokutshala iinqununu. Emva kokuba wenze oko ngoFebruwari, usenokuba usulela utshintshi kwisiqithi kwindawo esigxina ekupheleni kwentwasahlobo. Isivuno esipheleleyo kulindeleke kwiminyaka emibini, nangona iibhulashi ezincinci zingabonakala kwangaphambili.
Ukuba awunelisekanga ngeminyaka apho iidiliya zakho ziqala ukuvelisa iziqhamo kwaye ufuna ukufumana i-bunch evuthiweyo kungekudala, unokuthenga umsila oneminyaka emithathu ubudala kwaye uyityale kwisiqwenga sakho. Kule meko, unako ukuvuna isityalo esincinane kunyaka wokuqala. Nangona kunjalo, kucetyiswa ukuba kususwe iibrashi ezingaphezulu ukuze kungabi buthathaka.