Amaphupha ama-Erosi ngezihlandlo abone amadoda namabhinqa. Ngokuqhelekileyo, oku kukubonakalisa iminqweno yemfihlo, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha, ngokuchazwa ngokuchanekileyo, amaphupha anjalo anokuthetha ngolwazi olunomdla.
Kutheni sifuna ukulala ngesondo?
Ubusondelelo obusondeleyo bubonisa ukunganeliseki ngokomzimba ngobomi boqobo. Ngokuqhelekileyo ukuphupha ngesondo kunye nomntu osebenza naye ngumhlobo wobubonakalisi bemona , kunye nomnqweno wokufumana ukuthembeka. Ubusondelelwano obusondeleyo ephupheni bungabonakalisa ubukho bokuvusa iingcamango ezifihlakeleyo kunye neminqweno, ongenakukwazi okanye ukunganqikazi ukubonakalisa ebomini bokwenene.
Ukuba ulala nomntu owayesakuba ngumntu, ngoko awukwazi ukumkhupha entloko yakho. Ulwalamano olusondeleyo kunye nomphathi uthi lixesha lokufuna indawo yabanye abazungezile, okuza kuphumeza ukuphakama kwamatye amatsha kwixesha elizayo. Ukwabelana ngesondo nomntu othandekayo kubonisa umhla wokuthandana. Abantu abaninzi bayazibuza ukuba kutheni balala ngesondo nomfokazi. Kule meko, iphupha liza kukuxelela ukuba kulwalamano lwangoku, kukho into ekhoyo, kwaye usezingeni elincinci lokujonga iimvakalelo ezingekhoyo. UDreambook uncoma ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba ahlanganyele kunye neqabane kwaye uthethe ngezinto ongasweleyo kunye nokulungisa imeko.
Kutheni sifuna ukulala ngesondo nomfokazi?
Kule meko, iphupha lithembisa utshintsho olukhulu ngokukhawuleza. Kwakhona iphupha elinjalo lingabonakalisa ukuba ebomini boqobo uqhutyelwa kwimida ethile. Isitoliki sephupha sincoma ukuba ukhululeke kwiikhonkco uze unike ilungelo lokukhetha.
Kuthetha ukuthini xa ubulili obungenasiphelo luphupha?
Ukuba intombazana encinci ibona iphupha malunga nesondo somlomo - isimboli sokuthi uvakalelwa kakhulu kwimpilo kwaye kufuneka afunde ukuzibamba. Ubundlobongela bezesondo lubonisa ukuba unokungcatshiswa okanye ukukhohliswa, kwaye oku kuya kwenziwa ngumntu othembela kuye.