Ixesha elizayo lihlala linomdla kubantu, ngoko kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuvula ikhefu lokufihla. Indlela elula kwaye ifumaneke kakhulu kukuchaza ngokucacileyo iphupha. Kule nto kulungele ukukhumbula kangangoko kunokwenzeka iinkcukacha zesalathisi kunye nomthwalo wemvakalelo. Kuya kuba yinto engafanelekiyo ukubonisa ukufana phakathi kweziganeko zobomi bokwenene kunye neempendulo ezifunyenweyo.
Kutheni ufuna ukuhlamba kwindawo yokuhlamba?
Iphupha elinjalo luphawu oluhle, olubonisa ukuzonwabisa kunye nomthendeleko. Ukuba umntu ekuhlambini wenyuka ekuhlambeni, ngoko ebomini wangempela ukhethe indlela efanelekileyo yokulungisa iimpazamo ezikhoyo. Umbono ebusuku, apho umntu ehlamba kwiingubo, ubonisa ubukho bokungazithobeli malunga nezenzo ezenzileyo. U-Sonnyk uthi ixesha lokulungisa yonke into nokuguqula ubomi. Ukubona ibhafu elivuthayo ephupheni ephupheni, ngoko, ngenxa yokukhathala kokuziphatha okubi, kukho iingxaki entsapho.
Kukho esinye isizathu sokuba ndiphuphe ukuhlamba kwindawo yokuhlamba, ngokubhekiselele kwinto ezayo esesibhedlele kwisibhedlele esibhedlele, kwaye iziphumo zesifo zingaba zibi kakhulu. Ukuhlamba kwindawo yokuhlamba kunye nabesifazane abazizeleyo kuyimpawu embi, echaza kwangaphambili ukuvela kweengxaki kwizinto eziphathekayo kunye nempilo. Ukuba ufanele uhlambe kwindawo yokuhlambela engcolileyo, ngoko kubomi bentsapho kukho iingxaki ezininzi. Iphupha apho igazi lafunyanwa kwindawo yokuhlamba endaweni yamanzi luphawu olubi oluthembisa ukufa. Ukubona omnye umntu ehlamba kwindawo yokuhlamba kuthetha, kwiimeko eziqhelekileyo, umntu ophuphayo uzizwa engenamandla kwaye enganakunyaniseki. Iphupha, apho ndimele ndicele omnye umntu ukuba athole umshanelo, ubonisa imfuno yoncedo. Kwabagulayo, iphupha malunga nokuhlamba lithembisa ukubuyiswa.
Kutheni iphupha lokuhlamba ngesepha?
Isicwangciso esinjalo kwiimeko ezininzi sisilumkiso sokuba ngelixa umphuphi ehamba "kwiqhwa elityhafayo", ngoko kuyafaneleka ukuba uhlale uqaphile kwaye
Kutheni umfazi ephupha ukuhlamba uhamba?
Iphupha elinjalo linga kuthathwa ngesincophiso sokuba kusondele ixesha elizayo kukufanelekela ngokucophelela ukujonga impilo yakho. Umbono ebusuku, apho umfazi kwakufuneka ahlambulule ehamba kunye nabanye abantu, uxwayisa ukuba umthandayo unokukhohlisa. Ukuba isondo esifanelekileyo sihlanjululwe kwindawo yokuhlambela yedwa , ngoko kufuneka inakekele impilo yakhe. Iphupha apho abanye abaninzi abasetyhini bahlamba khona, uxwayisa ngokuvela kweentlobo ezininzi.