Amaxesha amaninzi abamele isigqeba esisinyanisekileyo somntu baphupha abafazi babo, kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba umntu usetshatile okanye akanalo mfazi okwangoku. Makhe sijonge oko iiphupha lomfazi weencwadi ezahlukeneyo zephupha kunye nokokulindela ukuba umntu uyambona phantsi kweemeko ezahlukeneyo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, kwingcaciso eyaziwa kakhulu yimibuzo yento umfazi ephupha ngayo, kuboniswa ukuba iphupha elo liyisilumkiso sokuba iqabane lingasifumana eso sifo, kodwa liya kuyinqoba. Ukuba ummeli ongatshatanga wesigxina esisinyanisekileyo somntu ubona umfazi ephupheni, oku kuthetha ukuba kungekudala uza kudibana nomntu okhethiweyo, oza kufezwa ixesha elide.
Ukuchazwa kwephupha likaMiller kuthatha iphupha elinjalo njengemfuneko yokugqiba imicimbi yamandulo. Ngokwezinye iinguqulelo, oku kubonakalisa ukungahambisani kwemibandela endlwini. Ukuba iqabane lakho ephupheni lithetha nawe ngendlela enobubele, oku kubonisa ukuba uza kufumana inzuzo kamva emva kokupheliswa komngcipheko. Ingcaciso ye-Esoteric ithi iphupha apho ubonayo umfazi wakho yi-harbinger yeziganeko ezonwabileyo, inhlanhla kunye nenkxaso kumfazi kwiimeko ezinzima, kunye nokuxabana kwiphupha nomfazi wakho ukuphucula ubudlelwane. Ukuphupha kwindlu yabafazi ababini - ukuxabana nokungasebenzi kakuhle kwintsapho.
Kutheni iphupha lomfazi?
Ukuba umfazi onxilayo ephuphayo, kuthetha ukuba awuyi kuhlaziywa yinto eyenziwa ngumlingane wakho. Enye incwadi yephupha iyakwenza oku njengento oza kuyenza ngokukhawuleza ngemfihlelo oye wafihla ixesha elide. Ukuba umfazi ohambayo uphuphayo - lo ngumthunywa weengxaki, kodwa qiniseka ukuba ubeke ingqalelo kwimeko enjani ulwalamano lwakho. Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kubonisa ukuba imozulu engalunganga ingenako intsapho. Xa umntu ephupha umfazi ohambahambayo, ngubani olala ecaleni kwaye ekhangeleka egula, ephelile, oku kubonisa ukuba kwixesha elisondeleyo unokufumana isifo esibi. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo, xa umyeni wakhe ephupha umfazi ohambayo, izazi zeengqondo zithatha ukunganeliseki ngokwesondo kwaye zincoma ukubeka ingqalelo kwiimeko zabo zomzimba kunye nokuziphatha okwangoku.