Kutheni umntwana ebamba izikhonkwane - izizathu, iingcebiso zesazinzululwazi

Ngokuqhelekileyo, nangona ebuntwaneni, amakhwenkwe namantombazana banomkhuba wokuqala wokuziphatha-ukubetha izipikili zabo. Ukubeka iminwe yakho emlonyeni wakho sekube yinto ethile yokunyanzelisa, enzima ukuyilahla. Abazali, ngokokuqala ngqa baqaphela ukuba umntwana wabo ukhonkotha izipikili, banenkxalabo kwaye yonke indlela enokwenzeka ukuzama ukunceda umntwana ngonaphakade kunye nale mkhuba engathandekiyo.

Inwaba yabazali iyaqondakala, kuba ukugquma iminwe kuyingozi kakhulu, kwaye, ngaphezu koko, kungenasimo. Izangalo ezandleni nasezikhonkwane zingabangela ukuxhaswa kunye nokuqhaqhazela, banokufumana intsholongwane, kwaye eli lihlandlo eziliqela landisa umngcipheko wokusuleleka kwiimbungu. Kwaye ngokubaluleke kakhulu, le mkhwa ihlala isigxina se-psycho-emotion emotion emotion of child.

Kule nqaku, siza kukuxelela ukuba kungani umntwana ebetha izipikili, zeziphi izizathu zolu, kwaye unika iingcebiso zengqondo yengqondo onokukunceda kule meko nzima.

Ngesizathu sini umntwana ahlamba izipikili?

Ukufumanisa ukuba kutheni umntwana ebopha izipikili, unokuqonda ngokukhawuleza ukuba wenzeni kuloo meko kwaye ungamnceda njani ukuba akwazi ukujamelana nalo mkhuba owonakalisayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana bayabetha izikhonkwane ngezizathu ezilandelayo:

• uxinzelelo - kaninzi umncinci uqala ukuphoqa iminwe yakhe emlonyeni xa kukho into eyoyikisayo okanye eyayikhathazayo;
• Ulwaphulo lwangaphakathi - luyenzeka xa umntwana engahlali naye;
• ububele - mhlawumbi, iikopi zeikopi zenzo zomama okanye uyise;
• I-physiology - kunokwenzeka ukuba izipikili ziphazamise umntwana, kwaye uzama ukuzilahla;
• ukuxhalaba - abanye abantwana bayabamba izipikili zabo nje "bangenanto yokuyenza."

Iingcebiso zengqondo yengqondo yomntwana: yintoni enokuyenza xa umntwana echeka izipikili?

Ngelishwa, kunzima ukuhlangabezana nale ngxaki ngokwakho. Ukuba umntwana ubamba izikhonkwane, kufuneka uqonde kuqala oko kuthetha ukuthatha iindlela ezifanelekileyo zokuziphatha. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abazali baphoqeleka ukuba baye kwi-psychologist yengqondo yabantwana abangakwazi ukuqonda izizathu zalo mntwana, kwaye banike iingcebiso ezifanelekileyo.

Ngokuxhomekeka kwisizathu semikhwa emibi yomntwana, isiluleko se-psychologist sinoku:

• Awukwazi ukugxeka i-crumb; ngokuchaseneyo, yibani nomonde nomonde;
• fundisa umntwana ukuba asuse ukuxhatshazwa ngezinye iindlela-ngokukhawuleza udibanise kwaye angagcini amanqindi, ubale engqondweni kunye njalo njalo;
• Ingaba umntwana uyisondlo, ukhangele, indlela ekhangelekile ngayo izandla ezihlambulukileyo;
• ngaphambi kokuba ulale, unikele inkomo yobisi ngobusi okanye itiye ebuthakathaka ne-chamomile, i-mint, motherwort, i-valerian.

Ukongeza, umntwana wengqondo unokuncoma ukusetyenziswa kwamachiza ahlukeneyo asemakhaya, kunye namayeza anokunciphisa uxhalaba, uxinzelelo kunye nokuphelisa ukwanda okukhulu, umzekelo, njengeFenibut okanye iPantogam.