Ngokomzekelo, oogqirha balumkisa abafazi malunga nesidingo sokushiya isondo ngesondo emva kwexesha lokugqibela. Abaninzi banomdla kuba kutheni kungenakwenzeka ukulala ngesondo emva kokubeletha. Ngoko ke, kuyafaneleka ukufumanisa ukuba yintoni isizathu sokuvalwa okunjalo kunye nokuba kuthatha ixesha elingakanani ukuyeka ukuthandana.
Kutheni ndifanele ndilahle isondo emva kokubeleka?
Kwixesha lokugqibela, emva kwesibeleko, isibeleko kunye nomlomo wesibeleko, kunye nomzimba wonke, zifumana isigaba sokubuyisela. Ukuba kukho ukulimala, kusetshenziswe iigumbi, kubandakanywa necandelo le-caesarean, oku kufuna ukuphulukiswa. Isibeleko ngokwawo sihlambulukile, esilandelwa yimfihlo. Ngalesi sikhathi, umama omncinci unokungaxilwanga, kwaye naluphi na usulelo luya kungena kwisiganeko esingabonakaliyo somzimba kwaye lubangele ukuvuvukala, kunye nesondo kunye nokulimala kwamanzi kungabangela ukuphuma kwegazi.
Emva kokuzalwa kwe-crumb, ububele besisu buyakushintsha, obangela intlungu ngexesha lokulala, kodwa emva kwexesha elincinci linyamalala. Zonke ezi zizathu zichaza isizathu sokuba ungeke ulale ngesondo okanye ngaphezulu emva kokubeleka.
Unokuqala nini ukuya ocansini emva kokuzalwa komntwana wakho?
Umbuzo wexesha lokubuyisela ubuhlobo obusondeleyo ngumntu ngamnye. Ngokuqhelekileyo oogqirha bacebisa ukuyeka ukulala ngokwesondo kwiiveki ezingama-6, kodwa ngeli xesha kunokuhluka kwiimeko nganye. Yonke into incike kwiimpawu zomsebenzi wezabasebenzi, imeko yempilo yomama omncinane.
Nanku ixesha elifutshane malunga nesibini isibini esingazama ukulala ngesondo emva kokuzalwa:
- ukuba umfazi wayengenalo umonakalo ngexesha lokubeleka kwemvelo (EP) - malunga neeveki ezingama-6, ngamanye amaxesha oogqirha bavunyelwe ngaphambili;
- ukuba unina wazalwa, kodwa ugqityiwe, ugqirha unokuncoma ukukhishwa komsebenzi wesondo ukuya kwiiveki eziyi-8 ukuya ku-12;
- Xa kukho umonakalo omkhulu ngexesha le-EP, kunye nangemva kwecandelo le-cearean, eli xesha liyakwanda ukuya kwiinyanga ezi-3-4.
Ugqirha akakwazi ukuchaza kuphela iinkcukacha ngezizathu zolu thintelo, kodwa uya kukuxelela ukuba zeziphi iindlela zokukhetha zesondo zendabuko ziyamkeleka kweli nqanaba.