Ukucacisa iphupha alikho nzima, ukuba uyazi imigaqo ephambili. Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukukhumbula iinkcukacha eziphambili zephupha, kwaye okwesibini, umthwalo wemvakalelo. Konke oku kuza kunika ulwazi malunga nekamva kunye nekhoyo.
Kutheni uphupha umzalwana?
Ngokuqhelekileyo iphupha elinjalo lithembisa ukufumana iindaba ezivela kwizihlobo eziseduze. Kwakhona kunokuthetha ukuba okwangoku ufuna ubuhlobo kunye noqhagamshelwano . Ukuba umzalwana otshatile ephupheni, kwaye xa engatshatanga, ngoko, ebomini bakhe, utshintsho olunzulu luza kwenzeka ngokukhawuleza. Iphupha apho umzalwana entolongweni kuthetha ukuba udla ngokuxhaphaza abantu abathembekileyo. Ukuba ubulele umzalwana - oku kukubonakalisa ukuba unxaxheba kwishishini elingathembekiyo. Ukubona umzalwana omncinci ephupheni kuthetha ukuba unononophelo olwaneleyo kunye nokufudumala kwinyani. Iphupha apho uxabana nomntakwenu isilumkiso sokuba ubudlelwane kunye neentsapho buya kuncipha. Ukuba walwa nesalamane, ngoko, ngokukhawuleza unokufumana inzuzo enkulu.
Umntakwabo umzalwana wakhe ufile, ngokukhawuleza uza kucela uncedo okanye icebiso lakho. Ukuba umzalwana uswelekile ngumqondiso omhle othembisa ukuba utshintsho oluhle ebomini, uya kuphawula ukuba imeko yakho yonyuka yanda njani. Umbono ebusuku, apho umzalwana ofile ebonakala khona, kubonisa ukuba emva kwesinye sezihlobo zifuna uncedo. Kuba umfazi, isondo kunye nomzalwana sibonisa ukuba ucinga ngobomi bakhe abucala . Ukuqabana nomntakwenu kuyisixwayiso sokuba uya kwenza into embi, eya kuthiwa iyaziwa. Ukuba ndifanele nditshatile umntakwethu-oku kuluphawu lokungabi nethemba okanye ukungabi nedwa. Ukuphupha umzalwana kwisimo sokuxhatshazwa, ngoko ungalindela ukukhawuleza iimeko ezinzima. Ukuba umzalwana uyakhala, kunokuthi kuthathwe njengesinconywa sokuba ufanele uphulaphule iingcebiso zabantu abasondeleyo.