Ngumuphi umzali angafuni ukuba umntwana akhule aphile kwaye angomelele ngokomoya? Kakade, wonke umntu unomnqweno onjalo. Kodwa akuyena wonke umntu owaziyo ukuqala, ngaluphi unyaka onokuqala ukuzisa abantwana kwimidlalo, kwaye luhlobo luni lwemidlalo lokunika umntwana. Yonke le mibuzo ingaphendulwa yiingcaphephe ukuba umxholo wezemidlalo kunye nabantwana ngumsebenzi oyintloko. Kodwa into ebalulekileyo kukuba ufunde kwintsana, into afuna ukuyenza, kuba ukuba akayithandi le ngxowankulu, unokude udikibele umnqweno wokuzibandakanya kwimidlalo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, abazali badibanisa imvo yezemidlalo ebalulekileyo kunye neeplani ezongezelelweyo zokwenza iqela elivela kumntwana, kunye nemisebenzi eqhelekileyo yemidlalo yabantwana, onomgomo wokufundisa umntwana ukuba aqeqeshe, amenze abe nzima kwaye anamandla. Yingakho isihloko sezemidlalo kunye nabantwana kufuneka sihlale sixoxwa nabaqeqeshi bamacandelo abantwana. Baza kukuxelela indlela yokuthatha umdla kumntwana kwimidlalo, kwaye luhlobo luni lwemidlalo olwenzela umntwana ukuze kuphuhliswe izakhono ezithile. Uninzi lweengcali malunga nomba wokunika umntwana kwimidlalo iyavuma ukuba iminyaka yobudala beyona minyaka emihlanu. Ukususela ekubeni uneminyaka emihlanu ubudala sele sele ekhulile kwaye emele, kodwa ngelo xesha unamalungu omzimba, umzimba oguquguqukayo kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo akanakoyika.
Ngoko, safumanisa ukuba ukwenzela ukuba sinqume ukuba yeyiphi imidlalo ukunika umntwana imfuneko kuqala
Iimeko eziqhelekileyo, xa umntwana ehamba kwicandelo kwiiveki okanye kwiinyanga ezimbalwa, kwaye uyalahla ukuqhubeka. Kulo mzekelo, akufanele unyanzele, kuba imidlalo yabantwana abancinci yinto yokuqala kunye nolonwabo. Ngoko ke, ukhetha icandelo, kufuneka uhlalutye ubunjani kunye nemfanelo yomzimba wengane. Ngokomzekelo, intombazana efuna ukudansa akufanele inikezwe kwicandelo lobugcisa bekarati, kodwa inkwenkwe ephosa ukuba ngumqhubi webhokisi kufuneka ithandwe kwi-gymnastics okanye i-skating skating. Kubalulekile ukuba imidlalo yabantwana ibe nefuthe kakhulu kwaye ivelise iimvakalelo ezintle.
Ziziphi iintlobo zezemidlalo ezikhoyo kubantwana?
Okwangoku, unako ukumnika umntwana phantse nayiphi na icandelo. Kodwa, kuninzi kuxhomekeke kwiminqweno yentsana yakho, kodwa nakwiindawo ezinokwenza ummandla othile. Ngoko, imidlalo ethile yasebusika yabantwana abahlala kwimimandla esezantsi iya kuba yinto engenakufikeleleka ngenxa yeemeko zemozulu.
Nangona kunjalo, ubusika okanye imidlalo yehlobo ekhethekileyo abantwana abakhethayo? Konke kuxhomekeke kwiimeko zempilo kunye nokuchasene okukhoyo. Ekubeni impilo kunye nezemidlalo kubantwana kufuneka bafanane. Ukuba ugqirha oye wahlola umntwana ucinga ukuba akafanele achithe ixesha elide kwi-roller, i-hockey, i-skating skating okanye i-skating skating ayiyonto yakho. Kodwa enkulu ye-tennis okanye yezemidlalo yeqela iya kwenza okulungileyo.
Ukuba akukho ithuba lokuqhubela umntwana kwicandelo, imidlalo iya kulungiswa ekhaya. Ngenxa yale nto kubalulekile ukunika indawo kunye nokwakha izakhiwo zemidlalo ekhaya. Ingaba udonga lwaseSweden, isangqa, ibha engqambileyo, kuya kuba luncedo ukudlala nomntwana kwimidlalo yangaphandle.
Ngokubanzi, isihloko sezemidlalo nabantwana kubaluleke kakhulu kwaye kukho ingqalelo ehlawulwa kuyo, kokubili kwintsapho kunye noluntu ngokubanzi, ngokukodwa kwimihla yakutshanje. Ukususela ekukhuleni abantwana abanempilo kunye nabaxhotyiswayo ngokwenyama ngumsebenzi oyintloko nje kuphela womzali ngamnye, kodwa nakwaseburhulumenteni.