Sonke siphila kuluntu. Nsuku zonke sizungezwe ngabantu abaninzi esinokuthi singene kuyo ingxoxo: izihlobo, abahlobo, osebenza nabo, abathengisi kwizitolo, abadlulileyo-ngaba-olu luhlu banokuqhubeka ngonaphakade. Kuyavuma, kuya kuba mnandi, ungalokothi wenze iimpazamo ekusebenzelaneni nabo: bekungekho nquzulwano kwindawo yokusebenzela, ukungquzulana ekhaya, kuya kuba nzima ngaphandle kweengxaki, kwaye ngexesha elifanayo lichaneke ngokupheleleyo, ukukhawuleza ukuqhubela phambili kwizithuthi zikawonkewonke okanye ukuseka ubudlelwane nabamelwane. Ngelishwa, ukuba le nto inokwenzeka kwihlabathi lenene, ngoko ukuphumelela kweso sikhundla kubonakala kunzima kumsebenzi onzima, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba kubalulekile, ubuncinane uzame ukuphucula ikhono lomntu lokuthetha (okanye, izazi zengqondo zithi, ukuxhumana).
Ukukwazi ukuthetha-indlela yokuphumelela
Abaninzi bethu banako ukuthetha kunye nomlinganiselo omkhulu okanye ongaphantsi, kodwa musa ukwenza njalo ngokufanelekileyo ngokusemandleni. Ukuze kuphuculwe izakhono zonxibelelwano, kuyafaneleka ukuthobela iingcebiso ezininzi:
- Ungazami ukuphuma kumnxibelelwano, ngokuchaseneyo, ube ngumqali walo;
- uzame ukufumana inyaniso yokuthetha nabantu;
- sebenze kwi-artistry yakho, imidlalo ethile inokukunceda, umzekelo, "Imibuzo Yengoma", ngeli thuba iqela labantu abaninzi ukuba bahlule kwiikomiti ezi-2, ngamnye wabo ubuza umbuzo, kwaye ufumana impendulo ngolu hlobo lomculo odumile: "Uphi na omnye Ndingumthandi ophi na? "-" Ehlathini elimnyama, apho ifuna khona ukuthuthumela ";
- zama ukuphulaphula uze uve Ngethuba lakhe ibali aliphazamisi, ungaxoxiswane nalo, kwaye uhlale unxibelelana naye;
- Yiba nethemba - akukho mntu uthanda ukuphulaphula izikhalazo eziqhubekayo ngobomi.
Zama ukusetyenziswa kwezi ngcebiso ezilula kwimpilo yemihla ngemihla, kwaye uya kubona - kuya kuba lula ukuthetha noogxa nabo. Ukongezelela, ukukwazi ukwakha intetho ebonakalayo kubalulekile kwinkokeli, kukuvumela ukuba usebenze kakuhle, kwaye ngoko kunenzuzo.
Amandla okuthetha nabantu
Ukukwazi ukuthetha ngokuchanekileyo kunye namadoda, mhlawumbi, kuyimfuneko kuwo onke amabhinqa-oku ngenye yezinto ezibalulekileyo zokutsala kunye nolonwabo lwentsapho. Ngelishwa, ekuxoxaneni ngesondo esinamandla, sisoloko senza iimpazamo ezininzi. Uninzi oluqhelekileyo:
- Amagama amaninzi - kunye namazwi ngawe oyintandokazi, kuba sele yaziwa ngexesha elide -
Amadoda ayithandi abafazi abathandanayo, kodwa ixesha emva kwexesha sihamba kwi-rake efanayo. Ladies, ufuna ukutsala kunye nokugcina umntu -funda ukuphulaphula nokubuza imibuzo ngaye; - uxinzelelo lwengqondo - amadoda awawunyamezeli uxinzelelo kuwo onke, kwaye ngokukodwa, nangona ucinga, ukuba ufuna ukubonisa into ethile kuye, yeka ukumisa, ungcono uzame ukukholisa ngeengcamango ezinengqiqo;
- ukukrakra okugqithiseleyo - kuyingozi, ngenxa yolwalamano. Khumbula, ungaze uhlazise indoda, ngakumbi kuluntu. Amadoda amaninzi anakho ukuxolela amaninzi, kodwa kuphela ukuthotywa kwabantu.