Injongo yobuthongo ayixhomekeke kwisicwangciso sayo kuphela, kodwa nakwixesha apho umntu ebona khona. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ukuba iphupha livela ngoMsombuluko ukuya ngoLwesibili, ngoko umntu ulungele ukwenza isenzo esisebenzayo, kwaye oku kusebenza kuyo nayiphi na inqanaba lobomi. Iphupha ngeli xesha liqikelele ukuvela kweemeko zengquzulwano kunye noxinzelelo oluhlukileyo. Oku kubangelwa ukuba eli xesha lilawulwa nguMartile onjengeemfazwe, echaphazela amaphupha nomntu ngokwakhe.
Ngaba amaphupha agcwaliseka ukususela ngoMvulo ukuya ngoLwesibili?
Emva kokuvavanya okuhlukeneyo, izazinzulu zafika kwisigqibo sokuba amaphupha umntu aboneyo ngeli xesha angachazela ngokutshintshwa kwehlabathi kwimeko. Okokuqala, inxulumene nephupha eliqaqambileyo nelingakubalekiyo. Ngokutsho kolwazi olukhoyo, lubonwa kwimbono yasebusuku, isalathisi sinokuchaphazela ngokuqinisekileyo imeko yengqondo yomntu. Ukuba iphupha lixakekile kwixesha elizayo, kuyacetyiswa ukuba uqaphele iimfazwe ezahlukeneyo. Ukufumanisa ukuba iphupha liyinto ebonakalayo ukususela ngoMvulo ukuya ngoLwesibili, kubalulekile ukuthetha ukuba xa ubonwe ebusuku ubesemva kwesiphofu esingathandekiyo, ungalindelanga into enhle kwixesha elizayo elizayo. Kunconywa ukuba uhlalutye ubomi bakho ukucacisa izizathu zokungaphumeleli. Ukuba iphupha ngeli xesha lilungile, ngoko unokuyithemba kwimpumelelo kuyo nayiphi na inqanaba lobomi. Kubalulekile ukuba ungaphuthelwa ithuba elinikeziwe.
Iingcali zenzululwazi, ukucinga ukuba ziphi iiphupha zithetha ngoMvulo ukuya ngoLwesibili, zidibanise ngezinye iimfuno kunye neminqweno yomntu. Bakholelwa ukuba amaphupha ngeli xesha kufuneka axelele abantu indlela yokuhlangabezana namava ahlukeneyo kunye nokuphepha iingxaki. Kukholelwa ukuba ukuba akunakwenzeka ezinsukwini ezili-10, akuyi kwenzeka ngokukhawuleza.
Kukho nolwazi lokuba amaphupha, aphethwe ngoMvulo ukuya ngoLwesibili, kufuneka azaliswe ngoLwesihlanu kwiminyaka emihlanu okanye ngaphezulu. Ukuba unokuphinda uphinde uphuphaphule iphupha lakho kwiinkcukacha ezincinci, ngoko kwiminyaka embalwa ezayo unokuthembela kwimpumelelo kwaye ibali oyibona liya kuba yinyani. Kwimeko apho iphupha elibonwe ngeli xesha lizele iziganeko ezahlukileyo kwaye emva kokuba umphuphi uhlawuliswe ngamandla, ke ixesha lokuqhubela phambili kwimisebenzi yokuvuselela. Thatha kwizandla zakho uze uhlabele ubomi. Injongo yobuthongo ukususela ngoMsombuluko kuya kuLwesibini kuxhomekeke kwimeko yembali, ukuba iphupha lithwele iimvakalelo ezingathandekiyo ngokwalo, linga kuthathwa njengento ebonisa ukuba umfazi ophuphayo uye wazithemba ukuzithemba, kwaye oku kuyachaphazela kakubi ubomi bakhe. Akuyimfuneko kwikamva elikufutshane ukuthabatha nawaphi na amanyathelo angundoqo kwaye kulungele ukulibaziseka ngeqhinga.
Ziziphi na amaphupha ukususela ngoMvulo ukuya ngoLwesibili?
Isalathiso sephupha sinokuxelela malunga nomlingani wephupha kunye neemeko zekamva. Cinga ngamanye amabali athandwayo:
- Ukuba ngobusuku bakhe busuku umntu uphumelele ukunqoba umntu, ngoko ebomini bokwenene uya kukwazi ukusombulula zonke iingxaki ezikhoyo.
Iphupha, apho umntu obathandayo ewanga khona, uqikelela ukuba ukuhlukana ngokukhawuleza, kodwa emva kwexeshana yonke into iya kusebenza. - Ukubona umtshato ngobusuku obunjalo, kuthetha, kuya kwenzeka ukuhamba phantsi kwesithsaba kuphela emva kweminyaka embalwa.
- Umbono ebusuku womsebenzi uthembisa ukunyuka ngokukhawuleza kwinqanaba lomsebenzi. Oko kufezekisa ukuphakama kwamanzi kufuneka kuchithe amandla amaninzi.
- Ukuphumla kwiindawo ezifudumele ephupheni kubonisa ukuba yonke into oyifunayo iya kuzaliseka kungekudala.
Iingcamango zizodwa iingcebiso eziza kutshintsha ubomi bakho zibe ngcono. Kholwa kuphela kukuhle, kwaye ubomi buya kulungile.