Ngaba ndingaya emngcwabeni ngabafazi abakhulelweyo?

Ngelishwa, ixesha lokulinda umntwana olonwabileyo lugqitywa yimiba enzima kakhulu. Kubandakanya, owesifazane okhulelwe unokufa umntu osapho, amalungu okanye abahlobo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukufa komntu othandekayo kwintombazana "kwindawo enomdla" kukuxinzeleleka okunamandla kunokuba nefuthe elibi kakhulu kwixesha lokukhulelwa.

Okwangoku, kwezinye iimeko, ukuhlala emngcwabeni kumama ozayo kunokuba nzima nakakhulu. Njengomthetho, le nyathelo iyanzima kakhulu kwaye inzima, yingakho abantu abaninzi banomdla nokuba ngaba ngabafazi abakhulelweyo baya emangcwabeni nasemngcwabeni, kwaye ziphi na iimpawu ezibhekiselweyo ngale nto. Kule nqaku siya kuzama ukuqonda oku.

Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba abafazi abakhulelweyo baye emngcwabeni?

Nangona abanye abantu beqinisekile ukuba nayiphi na imama iphikisana kakhulu nawuphi na umnxibelelwano "nezinye ihlabathi", ngokwenene, oku akunjalo kwimeko. Le nkolelo yavela kuthi ukususela ekuqaleni, xa kwakukho ukunyaniseka ukuba umntwana osesizalweni sikamama akanalo isithunywa somlondolozi kwaye akayikukhuselwa ngasese "kummandla wamnyama", oko kuthetha ukuba ngexesha lokutyelela emangcwabeni okanye kumngcwabo, kunokuthi kwenzeke into embi.

Namhlanje, uninzi lwababingeleli liqinisekile ukuba ukumbona umntu oshonile ngendlela yokugqibela ayithwala amandla ambi kuye, ngoko ke umbuzo wokuba ngaba abafazi abakhulelweyo bangaba emngcwabeni wezalamane okanye abahlobo baphendulwa kwi-affirmative.

Ngaloo ndlela, ekutyekeleni isiganeko esinjalo, ukuba kulindeleke ukuba ulindele umntwana, akukho nto iyingozi. Enye into yokuba oku kunokuchaphazela njani isimo sengqondo sengqondo somama ozayo. Apha, wonke umfazi uya kufuneka azenzele isigqibo sokuba uya kukwazi ukuthatha inxaxheba kwisenzo esinjalo esibuhlungu nesibuhlungu, okanye ukuba ufanele ahlale ekhaya.

Ukuba unokungabaza ukuba ngaba ngabafazi abakhulelweyo bayaya emngcwabeni wesihlobo okanye umhlobo omhle, zama ukuphulaphula intliziyo yakho kuphela. Ewe, ukuba lo mntu wayekufuphi kakhulu kuwe, kwaye uyaqonda ukuba awukwazi ukuzithethelela, ukuba awuyi kuchithelwa kwindlela yokugqibela, nje ukungazihoxisi zonke iinkolelo kunye nokunyaniseka kwaye uye ngesibindi ukuya kulo mbhiyozo.

Ukuba uloyiko okanye ungafuni ukuya emngcwabeni, hlala ekhaya uze uqiniseke ukuba akukho mntu uya kukugweba, kuba ngexesha lokulindela ubomi obutsha, umama olindelekileyo kufuneka abe nemizwa evelele.