Ngaba ndiyakhulelwa kwi-masturbation?

Ukususela ebusheni, abantwana banomdla kwimibandela ephathelene nesondo. Baxhala malunga noshintsho emzimbeni wabo, iimpawu zobudlelwane phakathi kwesini kunye nezinto ezininzi zobusondelene. Kukholelwa ukuba ukwaneliseka kubaluleke kakhulu kubafana, kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo amantombazana azama ukuvuselela izitho zabo zesini, ezama ukuzonwabisa. Abantu abaninzi bacela ukuba banokukhulelwa kwi-masturbation. Kodwa ukukhulelwa kuyabethusa bonke abatsha, ngoko kufuneka uqonde ngokucophelela.

Imfuneko yokukhulelwa

Kufuneka kuqondwe ukuba iimfuno ezithile kufuneka zidibanekelelwe ukuchumisa . Akunakwenzeka ngaphandle kweqanda kunye nesidoda, ngoko akunakukwazi ukukhulelwa ngaphandle kokuthatha inxaxheba kwindoda (ngaphandle kweengxaki zokusatshalaliswa kokufakelwa). Ngoko impendulo kumbuzo, ingaba inokwenzeka ukuba ukhulelwe kwi-masturbation yakho, iya kuba yinto embi.

Kufuneka kuqondwe ukuba ukukhulelwa kwesidoda ku funeka ukuba ube ngowesifazana, kwaye zombini amaqabane kufuneka ahlaselwe ngokwesondo. Oko kukuthi, umzekelo, intombazana malunga nokukwazi ukukhulelwa iya kuthetha ubukho bemjikelezo wesini. Kodwa nangaloo nto, ukuchumisa akunakwenzeka imihla ngemihla, kuba oku kukho iintsuku ezilungileyo (i-ovulation) , ngelixa kwezinye iimvelaphi zobomi zinzima kakhulu.

Ziziphi iziganeko ezivela kwi-masturbation onokukhulelwa?

Abanye abatsha abakulungele ukukhathazeka malunga naso sonke ixesha, ngelixa abanye bengathathi izinto ezibalulekileyo. Ngoko ke, kufuneka kugxininise kwinto yokuba ngamanye amaxesha impendulo yombuzo, ingaba inokwenzeka ukuba ukhulelwe ngexesha lokuhlaziya umzimba, ingaba nesimo esihle. Cinga ngala matyala:

• le ntombazana iyazibethelela ngeminwe yakhe, apho kukho iindawo eziseleyo zesidoda;
• umfana uvuselela izitho zesini somlingani, ngelixa esenezandla zakhe;
• i-caresses zenziwe ngoncedo lwento apho idiza ikhona khona.

Amathuba okukhulelwa kwiimeko ezinjalo ayinanto, kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba simele sikulibale kwaye singayigxothi imigaqo yococeko. Ezi ntombazana ezixhalabileyo malunga nokuba ziyakhulelwa emva kwe-masturbation, kufuneka uqonde ukuba oku akunakwenzeka ukuba awukwazi ukufumana umdwesa kwisigcawu somzimba. Ngoko ukwaneliseka akunakho ukukhokelela ekubeni ngumama.

Amantombazana akufanele abe neentloni ukubuza imibuzo enomdla kumama, onokuthi, kwiifomu ezifumanekayo, ugxininise iingongoma. Emva koko, imfundo yesondo nayo iyimfuneko, njengophuhliso lomzimba okanye lwengqondo.