Namhlanje kukho inkcubeko eninzi ejoliswe ekuxazululeni iingxaki ezininzi. Inxalenye ethandwa kakhulu yintando yothando kunye noqhinga. Kukho imikhosi , ekuchasene nayo, ijoliswe ekubhubhiseni uxhulumaniso olukhoyo. Isicwangciso sokuhlukana sinceda ukuphazamisa ubudlelwane kunye nokuzalisa abantu ngonaphakade.
Iingqondo kunye nabalumkani bathi loo majelo kufuneka asetyenziswe kuphela xa kuzisa uvuyo, kungekhona okubi.
Iqhinga lokuzibandakanya nomyeni wakhe
Isithethe siya kunceda ukukhawuleza uqhawulo-mtshato lomtshato. Kufanelekile ukuba sicinge ukuba inceba, eqinisweni, iyintsebenziswano nemimoya emnyama, ngoko phambi kokuba uyisebenzise, fakela ukhuseleko ukuze uphephe iingxaki ezahlukeneyo kwixesha elizayo. Isalathisi sivakala ngathi:
"Ndiya kuvuka ekuseni, ndiya enkundleni, kungekhona iingcango, kodwa amasango, kunye nomnyango wezantsi, kunye neefestile ezitshaya. Ndiza kususa intsimbi yam entlokweni, ndiyibeke phantsi kwesithende sam, kungekhona phantsi komhlaba onomdaka, kodwa kumbhobho omnyama. Kwi-choboto ebalekela ehlathini yinto emnyama, ebumnyama belibi, kulowo mkhumbi iqhuke lihamba, kwaye kwinqanawa, uSathana uhamba, kunye nomtyholi. Ndiziphosa kumtyholi walezo ziqhina, kwaye ndimbonise intonga. Yintoni ohleli kuyo, uMtyholi nomtyholi kwindawo yakhe? Nguwuphi umbhobho owujika kumtyholi, uMtyholi? Yiya kubantu emlothweni, fumana uMtyholi kumntu omhle (igama lomntu), ukuxhela. Akunjalo abantu bahlala njengawe kunye nomtyholi wakho, amademon, bathandana, baxabise, intlungu ayiyazi, abazi. Wakhokelela uMtyholi ukuba ahlambele iinqwelo zakhe, ukususela ngoku ngoku, njengoko uhleli phantsi ngokwasemkhunjini, aba bantu bahlala kwiindawo zokuxhela. Makhe umfana (igama) umthiyile, makangaboni ubuhle nobuhle kuye. Yeka loo nzondo isasaze yonke intliziyo yakhe, makhe aqokelele kuwo onke amaqumrhu kunye nendikimba. Makhe ahlazeke ngobumnandi bakhe, aphephe, aze aguqule umzimba wakhe umhlophe. Amagama am uqinileyo, ukuthanda kwam kunamandla, ndikuyala wena, uMtyholi, ukukhusela i-cap yami echibini, kwaye uyithiya inzondo kuloo ndawo. Njengoko ndiyakwazi ukukulawula, ngoko unokulandela isigxina elwandle, ukukhusela iintlanzi kubantu, ukhuse abantu ekubeni besabe, kwaye uloyike bonke abantu kwixesha elidlulileyo. Andikwazi ukuyidla le nqaku, ndiyakwazi ukufumana umlobi, kodwa akukho mntu unokuthabatha icebo lam. Yiba njalo. "
Emva kokuba uthethe amagama ofuna ukuphalaza amaxesha ama-3 emhlabathini uze uphonte umatha ngeenyawo zakho ezisekhohlo. Ngeli xesha, kufuneka ucinge ngendlela obulala ngayo ubudlelwane kunye nokuphula uxhulumaniso phakathi kwabantu.
Iqhinga elinamandla lokubambisana neqabane
Isithethe sinokuqhutywa yintombi kunye nendoda ukuba bakholelwa ukuba ubudlelwane buye baqhuba ikota yabo kwaye lixesha lokuyeka yonke into. Kufuneka ukuba ufunde isalathiso ngosuku lokugqibela lwenyanga epheleleyo. Thatha ngesandla nawaphi na iphepha uze ufunde ekushoneni kwelanga amagama anjalo:
"Andiyidingi ikhephu izolo, imvula idlulileyo, utshani bumile, ngoko awudingi (ngenxa). Suka kum, suka, buyela kwenye (umyeni) umyeni (umtshakazi)! "
Khanyisa iphepha, kwaye usasaze umlotha esitratweni, kodwa ungasondeli kwikhaya lakho. Ngomso wolu suku olulandelayo, uye ecaweni uze uthandazele ulonwabo kunye nempilo yomntu ofuna ukumelana naye. Ukubuyela ekhaya, funda "uBawo wethu". Ephantse kwindlu yakho uthathe imilinganiselo emi-2 uze uyibeke phantsi kwesikhombiso sesantathu ngesimo somnqamlezo. Ukuma nomva wakho emnyango wesitampu unyawo lwakho, kwizicathulo ezithi zihlangane kwaye uthi:
"Njenga-sliver phantsi kwesithende, ndiya kuhamba ndingakhange ndikhangele ngasemva, ngena kwiindawo eziphakamileyo zengca, ukuya emahlathini eninzi. Ukuba ongenamdla (yy) andiyifumananga (at), kwaye ilizwi alizange lithathe (l). Ukuba kuye (yena) akunaye, thumela phantsi, Nkosi, uvuyo nomfokazi (oh). Amen. "
Emva kweveki, thabatha umdlalo uze uwushise.
Iqhinga lokuzibandakanya nomlingani
Ngokuphindaphindiweyo umntu wesithathu ubonakala elubudlelwaneni, ofuna ukukhokela othandekayo. Abaninzi abathandanayo bathatha incedo kumandla omlingo, ngokusebenzisa i-privoroty eyahlukeneyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ubudlelwane obunjalo kwicala lukhokelela kwiingxaki ezahlukahlukeneyo kwaye luba yintlanzi. Kule meko, ungasebenzisa icebo lokuhlukanisa umthandi wakho kwikosikazi yakho. Ukwenza oku, udinga ukuthatha umfanekiso weqabane okanye ingubo yakhe yangaphantsi uze uwafunde:
"Izulu liphezulu, umhlaba ungaphantsi. Njengoko bengasondeli abantwana, abaxubulana, ababizi phakathi kwabo, ukuze (igama lomntu) kwaye (igama lomfazi) abazange bahambe kunye, bangadli kunye kunye, abazange baphuze, umbhede wawungahlulelwanga, abantwana abazange babele, kodwa bahlala befana Ikati kunye nenja zazifani. Akukho lizwi kumda wam, akukho luqhetseba, akukho qhinga. Njengoko kuthiwe, kuya kuba njalo. Amen! "
Ungasusa njani iqhinga lokususa?
Kukho amaxesha apho amasiko afanayo ayenziwa ngamanye amaqela ukuba adibanise umanyano wakho ocolileyo. Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba iingxaki ezivela kubini ziye zavela, ngokoqobo, ngokulinganayo kunye nokungafani, akukho nto inokuyenza ngayo. Ukuqala ngalo kuyimfuneko ukunyamezela ukukhawuleza kwegazi elingama-12, okokuthi, akufuneki kubekho inyama kwi-ration. Ukunciphisa naziphi na izidlo, utywala, kufuneka uphuze itiye ngaphandle kweshukela, kwaye isonka kufuneka sibe mnyama. Ekupheleni kwexesha, thengela ikhandlela ezili-12 ebandleni kwaye uzikhanyise kanye phakathi kobusuku. Kubalulekile ukuba isibhakabhaka ngeli xesha licacile kwaye li-stellar. Funda amagama alandelayo:
"Suka kuwe, mtyholi, ukusuka