Xa ukhetha uhadi (i-rickksack) yintsana, ngamnye umama makaqwalasele into yokuba umntwana wakhe unempawu zobomi kwaye uhlukile kumntu omdala.
Iimpawu zentsana
Njengoko uyayazi, umqolo wesisu usuhluke kakhulu kumntu omdala okanye kumntwana omdala. Ngefomu, ibonakala ngathi ileta "c". Oku kuchazwa yinyaniso yokuba i-bends eyenziwa ngexesha elidala (kyphosis kunye ne-lordosis), iimvuthu zisasabikho. Yingakho iintsana ezisandul 'ukuzalwa zingenakukwazi ukubamba intloko kwindawo efanelekileyo.
Indawo yendalo yemigangatho ephantsi kweli nqanaba ithathwa njengelinye i-podzhatye kunye nemilenze ehlukaniswe ngokukhawuleza. Kulo bantu le ndawo ibizwa ngokuba yi "frog".
Iintlobo zokubetha
Umama osemncinci, ebhekene nesidingo sokuthenga isigxina, ngamanye amaxesha akazi ukuba kukuphi ukhetho lokukhetha umntwana wakhe osandul 'ukuzalwa: ngeesongo okanye kwifom yesheke. Akunakwenzeka ukunika impendulo engabonakaliyo, kuba yonke into incike kwizinto ezikhethwa ngumama.
Kufuneka ukhunjulwe ukuba ukuyila ngendlela yesikhwama kunika umfazi inkululeko enkulu yokuhamba: izandla zakhe zikhululekile, kwaye umntwana usephambi kwebele. Nangona kunjalo, lo mkhangela uxhobisa umama ukuba axhasane nomntwana, azikhwele yena, ngenxa yokuba uyaphambukela rhoqo.
Eyona nto ifanelekileyo kunye engenakuyingozi kwintsana yinto yokubetha kwiindandatho. Esi sixhobo sinesibalo somqha. Ngokuqhelekileyo lenziwe ngumbumba oqinileyo kwaye oqinileyo, intambo ephihliweyo kabini. Ngenxa yolu hlobo, izitya ezinjalo azidibanisi ngaphaya okanye ngaphesheya, eziqinisekisa ukungqinelana kobunzima balo kwaye ziqinisekisa ukuba kusasazwa umthwalo.
Njengoko kunokubonwa ukusuka ngasentla, ukubethela isana esincinci kulungelelaniso olulula, kwaye akuyi kuba nzima ukuyifaka ngokwakho.
Izixhobo zokugqoka
Xa ukhethe ukutshitshisa kunomntwana omtsha, umfazi ubuza umbuzo othi: "Nendlela yokugqoka nokuyibopha?". Ngokuqhelekileyo isalathisi yeklasi igqitywe phezu kwegxalaba, njengekhanda lekrele. Ukuqala, kufuneka ulungelelanise iziphelo zombini kwaye ufumane umgangatho ophakathi ngokuwubamba kwisiqingatha. Emva koko, unamathele iziphelo ndawonye, uphonsa izicubu phezu kwephepha. Kweminye imodeli, kukho ukukhawuleza okuhlukeneyo okuququzelela inkqubo yokuqhayisa ibhinqa.
Xa uneminyaka engaphezulu kweenyanga ezintandathu umntwana ugqoke kwindawo yokulala okanye efanelekileyo. Kule meko, indawo yokuma yomntwana kufuneka ibekwe phambili, ukuze umqolo wayo ucinezele kwisisu somgcini. Ngaloo ndlela, umthwalo emntwaneni wehla uya kuhla.
Ngenxa yokuba umthwalo xa uhamba nomntwana kuphela kwelinye icala elibhekiselele kumfazi, ukusetyenziswa kwexesha elide kungacetyiswa. Le fowuni kufuneka isetyenziswe ukuba kuyimfuneko, umzekelo, ukuba unina usendleleni, kwaye uthathe isihlalo sabakhubazekile akunakwenzeka.
Ukongezelela kumthwalo kumfazi, ukugqithisa ixesha elide lomntwana kwisiringi kunempembelelo embi kumntwana. Kulo
Ngaloo ndlela, ukubethelela kungabikho kokuncedisa kunye nokulimaza. Ngoko ke, ngamnye umfazi kufanele akhumbule ukuba ukusebenzisa ixesha elide kunokukhokelela kwimiphumo ebuhlungu, kokubili umama kunye nosana lwakhe. Nangona kunjalo, ukuyisebenzisa ngokuhambelana nemimiselo echazwe ngasentla, ukubethela kungabanceda kwinani elikhulu labamama abakwaziyo ukuthwala umqhubi-ngenxa yokungaqiniseki, kubangele ukuphazamiseka kowesifazane.