Indlela yokuphuhlisa umntwana kwiinyanga ezili-6?

Ingxenye yonyaka yinto yokuqala ebalulekileyo ebomini kwintsana yakho, emva kokuwela apho umqhubi wakhe ukhula ngokukhawuleza. Umntwana wakho sele uzama ukukhwela, ukujika ngokulula kwisisu esisemva nangemuva, usebenze ngokuzenzekelayo ngezandla zombini, kwaye uphuhliso lwakhe lwengqondo luyimanyathelo angama-7. Yingakho abazali abaninzi banomdla kwindlela yokuphuhlisa kakuhle umntwana kwiinyanga ezili-6, ukwenjenjalo ukuba angalandeli emva kwabanye oontanga.

Ukuphuhlisa imidlalo yezingane zale minyaka

Kulo thuba apho umntwana wakho efuna ukwazi umhlaba jikelele, ngoko kubalulekile ukumnika zonke iimeko malunga nale nto. Nangona ngoku ngokuphuhlisa ii-toys kubantwana ukusuka kwiinyanga ezi-6 zimelele kakhulu kwiivenkile ezithengileyo, siya kuqwalasela ukuba yeyiphi enye iya kuba luncedo kakhulu kumphandi omncinci. Ukongezelela, umama nobawo bangasebenzisa iindlela ezingalunganga ukufundisa umntwana, okufuneka ukuba kwenzeke ngendlela yefomu.

Cinga ngolu hlobo lunomdla kakhulu kwaye lufikeleleke kubo bonke abazali ngendlela yokuphuhlisa umntwana:

1. Ukwahlula ukuvakalelwa. Kuzo zonke iintshukumo zokuphuhliswa kwabantwana iintsuku ezi-6 ezi zilula kwaye zilula. Ukukhokela nje umntwana ukuba asebenze kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo: eqinile kwaye elithambileyo, efudumeleyo kwaye ebanda, epholileyo kwaye enobuqhetseba - kwaye uya kuba nolonwabo olukhulu. Sebenziswanga kuphela amathoyizi, kodwa kunye nezinto eziphathekayo zasendlwini ezifana neepuni, isiqwenga sesilika okanye isambatho se-terry, njl., Yamkelekile. Ungalibali ukubiza ngokuvakalayo ukuvakalelwa ngumntwana ngeli xesha: oku kuya kubangela negalelo ekuphuhlisweni kwentetho. Kwakhona ulungiselele iikhonkqo ezimbalwa ngeesinkwa ezahlukeneyo-zombini ncinane kunye nkulu. Xa uziva, i-crumb izakuqala ukujwayelana nje ngezinto ezihlukeneyo, kodwa ufumane ingcamango yokuqala yobukhulu bayo.
2. Vumela umntwana ukuba afumane amava omboniso omtsha. Ukuba awukwazi ukuvelisa ngokuchanekileyo umntwana kwiinyanga eziyi-6-7, iingcali zicebisa ukuba ziqale ngokulula. Beka amathoyizi kungekufutshane nomntwana, kodwa nakude, kwaye umxelele ngezinto angenako ukufikelela kuzo. Qaphela ukuba babenemibala eyahlukileyo, kuyinqweneleka ukuba phakathi kwabo kwakukho ne-motley, kunye ne-monophonic, kunye nabadala kwimimvu emnyama nekhanyayo. Beka eceleni kwintsana yamathoyizi athile ombala ofanayo kunye nomnye ohluke ngokukhawuleza kubo ngokucwangcisa umbala, kwaye ugcine ukuphendula kwendodana okanye intombi.
3. Njalo ncokola nge-crumb. Bonke abalobi beencwadi, ezithetha ngendlela yokuphuhlisa umntwana kwiinyanga ezi-6, uyavuma ukuba kufuneka uxoxe naye rhoqo ngangokunokwenzeka: ngexesha lokutya, ukuguqula iimpahla, ngelixa uhamba. Zama ukuphinda izandi kunye nokudibanisa isandi ukuba umntwana ashicilele, njengokuthi "ugu", "ygy", njl. Ngaloo ndlela, ungaqalisa ingxoxo ephosakeleyo kunye naye. Sebenzisa amagama amfutshane kunye namazwi kwingxoxo kwaye ubuyele ngokuphindaphindiweyo kubo. Izandi zentambo kunye neetyunithi zezilahla zingatsholwa: umzekelo, "ma-ma-ma", "ba-ba-ba," "g-gee-ge," njl njl. Qinisekisa ukutshintsha i-intonation uze uvakalise izandi, umzekelo, ujikeleze umlomo kwaye uphazamise izihlathi.

Ziziphi iimathoyi zokufundisa ezifanelekileyo?

Ekuphuculeni imidlalo kumntwana weenyanga ezi-6-7, kulungele ukusebenzisa:

• iibhola ezinkulu kunye ezincinci;
• iincwadi ezithambileyo kunye nemidwebo embala;
• ehambayo ;
• iidyski ezinobuso obukhanyayo;
• Amabhola aneensimbi ngaphakathi;
• imidlalo yokudlala (i-xylophones, iibell, iibhobho, izigubhu, iigubhu);
• iipayipi kunye ne-croup kunye nokuzaliswa okukhanyayo kwangaphakathi, okungazithengi ngokulula.