Ngokutsho kweengcali zengqondo, amadoda enza izigqibo ngokukhawuleza kunabesifazana, kodwa aba bahambayo banako ukwenza okuchanekileyo ngakumbi kunabameli bezesondo ezinamandla. Ibhinqa liyakwazi ukubona imicimbi yexesha elizayo, ukubala intuitively kwisinyathelo ngasinye. Kule nkqubo, umphumo ubalulekile, ngoko ke ukuba ungathandabuzeki ubuchule bakho, umbuzo wendlela yokwenza isigqibo esifanelekileyo kufuneka ufikelelwe ngokufanelekileyo ngokufanelekileyo.
Ukuzimela ngokuzimela
Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba ubomi kwanoma yimuphi umntu kuxhomekeke kwizigqibo ezenziwe nguye. Amandla esi sigqibo sinenjongo yakhe. Injongo yakho yokwenza into kukuqala kwendlela efanelekileyo yokufezekisa injongo. Emva kokwenza ukhetho lwakho, ungayitshintshi. Yizisa ekupheleni kwaye ungalokothi ukhohlwe ukuba kuxhomekeke kuwe ukuba kuphunyezwa njani. Uxanduva lwesigqibo esenziwe kunye nesiphumo salo siphelele kuphela kuwe. Musa ukugxeka abanye ngeengxaki zabo. Ukunyaniseka nawe kwaye ukhumbule isidima sakho.
Uza kufunda indlela yokwenza izigqibo ngokuzimeleyo, into ephambili kukuba ukwazi ukuba njani. Ingxaki yokukhetha iyinkimbinkimbi yinkqubo yokubambisana nezinye izinto, malunga nale mvelaphi umntu ukwesaba ukwenza iphutha. Le nto yinto yokuqala eyenza umntu anganeliseki. Kubalulekile ukulahla into yokuba umntu unzima ngumntu xa wenza isigqibo-ukususela kokwesaba ukwenza "okungalunganga" okanye "ukungalunganga". Ukuze wenze oku, cinga nje into engathandekiyo, isiphumo esibi kakhulu sokusombulula ingxaki. "Into ebaluleke kakhulu", njengomthetho, akunjalo. Umntu unyanzelekile ekunyeliseni. Ngoko ukuba ungagqiba, into ephambili yokukhumbula kukuba unelungelo lokwenza izigqibo ezithile, unelungelo lokwenza iimpazamo, apho sifunde ngandlela-thile. Ubomi bakho buya kuhlala buhlukile. Akukho zigqibo ezichanekileyo okanye ezingalunganga ngokusemthethweni. Ngomntu ngamnye, bangaba ngendlela yabo ngendlela efanelekileyo kwaye ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Ukuze wenze ukhetho olufanelekileyo, kubalulekile ukwazi kakuhle into oyifunayo ngenxa yoko. Ukwazi injongo, umntu ubona imisebenzi kwaye ukhetha izicombululo. Eminye imicimbi yokukhetha.
Ukukwazi ukwenza izigqibo kuza xa kukho isidingo esiphuthumayo. Kwiimeko ezixinzelelekileyo, umsebenzi wobuchopho ukwandisa kwaye umntu, njengomgaqo, wenza ukhetho olufanelekileyo. Ungesabi kwaye ungakhathazeki ukuba awunaso ixesha lokucamngca.
Ukwenza okulungileyo
Kwimibuzo yendlela yokwenza isigqibo esifanelekileyo, ungasebenzisa le ndlela elandelayo. Oku kunikezelwa ukuba unethuba lokukhetha.
Ngoko, okokuqala, bhala ingxaki yakho kwiphepha lephepha. Okwesibini, qaphela izizathu zokuba le ngxaki imele ixazululwe. Okwesithathu, yenze ngokucacileyo isiphumo esifanelekileyo sesisombululo kwingxaki. Okwesine, dwelisa zonke iindlela onokuzenza kwizenzo zakho. Emva koko, hlalutya iinketho ezikhoyo, ziqhathanise ngamakhono akho. Zama ukwenza isigqibo ngeendlela ezingekho. Kancinci ngaphandle kokulungelelaniswa kwazo zonke iindlela, ekugqibeleni kuya kuba neyodwa okanye ezimbini zokukhetha, eziza kuba lula ukuzikhetha. Into ephambili kukubonisa ukuqina nokuzithemba.
Xa umntu eninzi "abacebisi" ukwenza isigqibo kunzima kakhulu. Khumbula ukuba ingxaki yokuzikhethela ingaphambi kwakho, ungakhokelwa
Ikhono lokwenza izigqibo lixhomekeke kwiimeko zomntu. Abantu abanokuzithemba ukuba bafunde ubugcisa obunjalo ngeke kube nzima. Kungoko ngaphambi kokuba ufunde ukwenza ukhetho olufanelekileyo, funda ukwenza izigqibo umntu kufuneka azisebenzele. Ukulahla izakhiwo zabo. Ukuzithemba kuxhomekeke ekuzithembekeni, okuchaphazelekayo kakubi ngabo bonke abayinkimbinkimbi. Kubalulekile ukuba uzamkele ngokwakho, okanye ukulahla ukungaphumeleli kwakho.