Ukuba iingcali zeengqondo zehlabathi lonke zenze isigqibo sempawu zabantu ezihamba kunye nempumelelo, ngokuqinisekileyo owokuqala kuloluhlu "uyazithemba"! I-psychology yokwandisa ukuzithemba iquka umsebenzi oqhubekayo kuwe kunye nomsebenzi omningi, lungele oku. Masithathe eli qakala kwirekhodi kwaye sicinge ngeendlela kunye nezindlela zokwandisa ukuzithemba kwabasetyhini:
- Ukuqala, ngaphambi kokuba ushiye indlu, sebenza nzima ukujonga ngaphezu kwe-100%! Oku kuya kukunika inkqubela enkulu ukuze ufikelele kwiindawo eziphakamileyo.
- Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abanokuzithemba abaphantsi bayazikhuphaza kwaye banqwenela ukugxeka abanye ngasese. Ngenxa yoko, bahlala becinga ukuba zonke iimpazamo ezincinane ekubonakala kwazo nasekuziphatheni zibonakala kwabanye, njengentendelezo yesandla sakho. Kodwa oku akunjalo! Uninzi lwabantu obaziyo alukhathaleli nokuba unomphetho ekhaleni lakho okanye yintoni ubungakanani besikhwele sakho!
- Namhlanje qalisa ukuqeqesha ngokuzenzekelayo! Kutheni ungasebenzisi umzekelo onobuqambileyo nosebenzayo: "Ndiyona nto inomtsalane kwaye ikhangayo. Bonke abantu bahlambalaza ngam ... "? Khumbula? Apha unamazwi amnandi amazwi okukhuthaza ukuzithemba! Thetha ngokwakho kuphela! Unqume ukuzithanda uze ube yinto engcono kakhulu, kwaye ungazenzeli ngokuzenzekelayo ngokuzenzekelayo, kulungile?
Zithande!
Unako kwaye ungasebenzisi ezi ndlela zokwandisa ukuzithemba, kodwa oko ufunda ngokulandelayo kubalulekile kuwe! Zonke iindlela zokwandisa ukuzithemba zisekelwe kwinto yokuba umntu ofuna ukukuncedwa ukuba abe nokuqiniseka ngakumbi uyaqonda ukuba yena unako ukuzinceda. Kuze uqonde oku, kwaye akukho zincwadi zokunyusa ukuzithemba aziyi kunceda!
Ndiyakuthanda nje oku!
Uyabathanda ngokwenene abathandekayo bakho! Bafuna kwaye banqwenela ngenene ukuba: isimo sakho sengqondo sinoxolo noxolo; ukuze uvumelane nawe; ukuze uzithande ngendlela oyithandayo ngayo; kwaye ekugqibeleni, ukuba sele usukile ukutya nokutshabalalisa ngaphakathi! Wena ngokwakho uyayifuna ... kodwa, ngelishwa, awuziboni ngephandle kwaye awukwazi ukuzihlolisisa ngokwakho! .. Ukuba wayesazi ukuba ungakwenza njani oku, awuyi kubandakanyeka ukuzithemba kwakho.
Uhlukile!
Mhlawumbi unakho ekucingeni kukho ukugqibelela, umzekelo onokuzikhandla ngaso sonke isikhathi, kwaye xa uphosakele, ukhathazekile uze uqale ukuzihlambalaza? Ndiphinda, uhlukile! Awusayi kuphinda ulinganise iingubo zakho!
Ngaba ufuna ukuba ngcono? - Nceda!
Akukho mntu okhusela ukuba usebenze ngokwakho! Ukusebenza akuyikuba buhlungu ngeengcamango, kodwa ukwenza izinto eziphathekayo! Usuvele udidekile kukuba into ethile ayizange isebenze njengoko ufunayo ngamandla kwaye uyicebile. Ngoko ke kutheni uzijezise ngokuzenzekelayo, ngaphandle koko? Amandla, amandla kunye nomnqweno kule ndawo awuyi kuwandisa, kodwa nje kuphela. Yiba nombulelo ngenxa yokuba uyinyameko kwaye uyayilumko ukuze uqaphele kwaye uqonde iphutha lakho! Kwaye oku sele kuninzi, kwaye ke, kakhulu, kakhulu, ngokuqhelekileyo, isiqingatha somcimbi!
Abanye bangeke bakwazi ngisho ... Baqaphele, bazama ukuchazela into ethile nangendlela ethile, kodwa baxhambile ngeempondo kwaye baninzi ngaphezu kokuqinisekileyo malunga nokunene nobukhulu babo, kwaye yintoni na? Indlela yokuqhubeka njani? Abafuduki kwinqanaba elifileyo baze bazi ukuba zabo
Bafunda kwiimpazamo
Ukuba emva komzuzwana othile udidekile kwaye ulahlekelwe ukholo kuwe, ngoku ungakholelwa kuwe kwaye uzibize uyisiphukuphuku, cinga ... Ungubani ubenesiphukuphuku xa usukwazi ukuyiqonda loo nto uze ufumane inyaniso? Kwimizila emininzi ekhethiweyo kunye neendlela ozikhethileyo okulungileyo kwaye ngoku uya kutshintsha ukuphucula, jongela phambili. Hayi, ungatsho, kodwa ukugxekwa kukuhle kakhulu! Kuphela abantu abanalo mgangatho wobugcisa banako ukuphucula rhoqo!
Hlaziya, phumula, ujabule ngokwakho, zixhaswe kumzuzwana onzima uze phambili! Ngomoya ontle kunye nokholo ngaphakathi kwakho unokukwazi ukufezekisa ngakumbi kwaye utshintshe ubomi bakho bubhetele !